Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

and only does this when she is talking to me, but she has a bf, and not only plays with that and her boob as well, she only does it around me, and since she turned 18 she became my friend again, i have no idea what she is doing, can you guys help me? I

2007-10-02 18:26:53 · 13 answers · asked by bashbro2002 1 in Singles & Dating

we got married under the muslim law and obtained a certificate of marriage by the Mullah who performed the marriage. My husband is still legally married to his first wife under the Christian law but seperated. Is our marriage legal

2007-10-02 18:23:33 · 16 answers · asked by henna y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yeah well.. there is this guy that i work with at this new job that i got.. he is 27 and i am only 17... i dont like him.. i really dont think that i have let on that i do.. but today he asked me out.. i dont want to go out with him. and i feel really akward about it.. he asked in front of one of my managers and my manager got mad at him for it.. idk what to do.. i dont want him harassing me at work.. and i dont want to get in trouble with my manager or something..

2007-10-02 18:22:12 · 9 answers · asked by xslayergirl400x 1 in Singles & Dating

It's a new relationship. Things are good, we like each other. I'm looking for general tips on how to stay afloat.

In 1-2 sentences, give your wisest lesson learned, or the most important bit of advice regarding successful relationships.

2007-10-02 18:20:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was married to my first husband for 5 yrs., had two beautiful children, little girl 7 yrs. old now, little boy 5 yrs. old now, he was never home, never helped me with the house and only did things with me and the kids when it was convienent for him. We have been divorced now for 4 yrs., I am currently engaged to another man that I have been with for three years, he is wonderful to my children and wonderful to me, the problem is, that we constantly fight over my ex. The reason being because my ex is still a huge part of my kids life, he is still a good dad to them even if it is every other weekend. No thats not to say that for a long time the ex did what he was supposed to do with the kids, he just now started paying child support after 4 yrs. and well for a long time, he wouldn't even try to be around the kids. My fiance now has not forgotten this and still proceeds to downgrade the ex, every chance he gets. I just want my kids to be happy, and for my fiance to get along with my ex.

2007-10-02 18:15:00 · 14 answers · asked by Tressa Mae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is probably going to be the most ridiculous story but its reality and it happens to everyone right? i have never been in a relationship and about the time i ended high school my best friend introduced me to this guy who is best friends of her older brother. we started talking most of the time on line, and then he asked what i thought about friends with priviledges and i said that it wasn't bad as long as you know who you are messing around. so then he said if i wouldn't mind been his "friend" and i agreed to it. we had said from the beginning that either of us didn't want any type of relationship and that was fine with me because i just didn't want to deal with relationships before heading off to college. we talked for a very long time until one day we saw each other and well the rest i'll leave to your imagination. the problem is that it has been two months since that night and i realized one thing i had fallen in love with this guy. now i he just ignores me and i cant let him go

2007-10-02 18:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Belle Erreur♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

well i have 3 very close friends. which is andy john and adrienne those two are going out. they call me every two days to hang out and i always bring up an excuse like not asnwering my cell or i cant i got to do something. but most of the time i end up going lol. how can i approach them without hurting their feelings or taking it the wrong way?

2007-10-02 18:13:27 · 3 answers · asked by capt krunch 4 in Friends

I have a partner who I am strongly starting to believe is a narcissist, I had never heard of this condition before but the more I read the more I believe it is a very real part of my partners makeup. He knows that he says the crulest things to me and just waits for me to react to the spiteful and hurtful things he says. If i react he's happy and wants to be all lovey dovey if i don't react he keeps going until he makes me cry. We have been through a lot together in the last five years but he doesn't treat me very well though and I would never have taken half of the stuff he does from any other man. Why does this man constantly dissapoint me and treat me with disrespect when I have done all I can for him and am the backbown of our relationship. He knows he's doing it but doesn't know how to stop. He says he has no control over this, but i can't understand it. do you?

2007-10-02 18:09:31 · 10 answers · asked by no more dreamin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-02 18:08:13 · 10 answers · asked by mattador5773 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 18:05:31 · 5 answers · asked by Money Makes Me C(u)m 1 in Singles & Dating

yeah, it could be physically but verbally is just as bad. i heard this guy at a restaurant telling his wife that she was embarrassment to him due to her weight and looks. she just stared off and ignored him. i had never seen a person be talked to this way before by another mate.

2007-10-02 18:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-02 18:03:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the rumor is true but was not under any cicumstances to be told. how can i defend someone if I know that what people are saying is true?

2007-10-02 17:57:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, so me and this guy like each other and we're planning to get together on his birthday. He's been calling me everynight for the past 2 weeks and everything is fine but the problem is, my parents don't approve of me having a boyfriend at this age [14]. I never planned for her to find out, but tonight, he called me and when i picked up the phone, my mom went into the room i was talking to him in. My phone's earpeice thing was turned on loud, so she heard a guy's voice. I went upstairs to talk to him in my room and when i got downstairs, she started asking me questions. "Who called?" "A guy friend or a girl friend?" From my stupidity, i answered guy. -_- then she started asking if this friend was the one that kept calling me every night and when i talk to that friend, i go up to my room. I lied and said, "no they're different people." But she gave me this lecture about how I'm too young to be having a boyfriend and that i should focus on my studies.

2007-10-02 17:57:16 · 1 answers · asked by bubbles 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 17:56:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I post a question a while back about getting a devorce with my husband because I found Kid P*orn on his hard drive/MYBOOK and we have a two year old daughter so right now I don't want him near her when he comes home from over seas in November.

I just want to know what my chances are with something like that? Thank you for your time.

2007-10-02 17:55:50 · 2 answers · asked by JG78 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The other day I was woken up by my girl and I was like thinking about delicious coffee and so I was like "Mmmm Mmmm every morning I wake up and you know what I am so grateful I have?"

And so she smiles and she's like "Whats that"

And I was like "I sure do love having my capuccino machine, smartest thing I bought in a long time"

Anyhow she scoffed at me and went to school and I figured she thought it was silly that I liked being able to make my own coffee/thought it was a grown man too happy about his toy

Anyway I guess it really offended her because she won't give it up to me since like Saturday and its starting to piss me off

Is she right to be angry? Should I sell my coffee machine or something? It saves me a lot of money over Starbucks or whatever, I don't really want to part with it. Why is she so angry?

2007-10-02 17:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello everyone that reads this , thank you for ur time. last year i had an abortion just so tht i could keep my partner and i regret it so badly. my partner didn't want our son, because his family got it into his head that he would have to stop going to college and not be able to do anything he wanted to do with his life. but he didnt want it so i done the silly thing in ending the pregnancy, people can call me what they want , i am used to it , we all have different views about it , but i do feel bad enough. today my partner finished with me because he says it isnt working out between us and he says he doesn't feel loved by me anymore, its only because i have been put onto antidepressants and they r making me feel really down about things at the minute. so i just want to be left on my own and see no one. he finished with me because i didnt want to see him for 4 days in a row this week just gone and he is saying tht i am not showing him love. have i done anything wrong. x

2007-10-02 17:44:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how can i find him again his name is simon webster i need to find him so i can make things wright

2007-10-02 17:41:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you know about men from different cultures, what kind of men would you say are the best with regard to loyalty, morality, smoking, drinking, family values and culture.

2007-10-02 17:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 17:24:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-02 17:22:19 · 1 answers · asked by answerless 1 in Singles & Dating

Needing some help. My sister asked me to be her maid of honer and of course i accepted. Only thing is, it's not really a big wedding, i'm the only bridesmaid, and i need a dress. I'm a bigger person like 250lbs. I'm on a diet to lose weight and it's working well. I'd say i will lose at least another 50 maybe more before the wedding. Its still a year away. Her colors are light and dark pink. I dont like to show my arms much and i cant find a website that has the dresses like i want. Anyone have some sites they can give me to go to that i can find a dress that will fit and covers the arms? Tried Davids bridal and JCPenny. Thanks in advance!

2007-10-02 17:07:29 · 8 answers · asked by lil_guicho216 3 in Weddings

I want to proposal to my girl , but I dont know her ring size.
Is there any idea that I can get the correct size without her knowing what I'm trying to do?

2007-10-02 17:06:18 · 13 answers · asked by O 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I found that some of my husband's condoms are missing. I know how many he had last time we went away for a weekend. He keeps taking a supply with him whenever the two of us go away for a night or so. I have asked him why in the past......he gets defensive and says it's for my benefit (so that I don't fall pregnant etc) but we hardly ever use a condom normally. Am I being paranoid? Or am I a fool?

2007-10-02 17:04:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but i'm shy and no one asks me out but i'm pretty i know that because my friends told me... i'm 14 years old... what should i do please help?

2007-10-02 16:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My firstborn is 30 years old.

Youngest is 5 years old.

Top that!

2007-10-02 16:42:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just found out that she owe a credit card company $50,000. She have a job and lives by herself in a small apartment. She is single and have no children. She doesn't do drugs or smoke. She was an honor student in school with no criminal record. I don't understand why she have a big debt. She had no student loan. Financial aid paid for everything before. I asked her where this huge debt come from. She said she doesn't want to tell me. I understand that she is an adult but I am her mother and this is a big problem that I want to help her, but she doesn't want me to. What could be wrong? What can I do now? I feel like crying because she is this way now.

2007-10-02 16:42:20 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dont think so, men have to worry about what kind of job they have, how they look, what kind of car you drive, how much money you make, how you dress and how big your D is. All women have to do is look cute or be a certain size. You dont hear about men asking what kind of car you drive. I hear women all the time down men for being shallow but i think its the other way around.

2007-10-02 16:41:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy for about 6 months, but the problem is that i just like him alittle bit more than a normal friend and i don't wanna go out with anybody at the moment. a month ago, i started writing his name all over my table, and guess what, 2 weeks ago i found out that he sits in the axact same place he had read all those stuff and he had searched for the person who wrote it. the only people who i though knew, where my friends who i told them myself, but i founf out that half of our grade knows. a week ago i found out that HE KNOWS EVERYTHING. i felt so bad. i didn't want it to be this way. everywhere i went, people from my grade were like:hey we know who u like. i was so shy on those days. but still, after all this things, i still can't stop thinking about him, his all over my mind(not all the time, but usually at night, when i am alone)but i don't want more people to know more about this. so i need to stop liking him. i have to stop looking at him.

2007-10-02 16:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating