this is probably going to be the most ridiculous story but its reality and it happens to everyone right? i have never been in a relationship and about the time i ended high school my best friend introduced me to this guy who is best friends of her older brother. we started talking most of the time on line, and then he asked what i thought about friends with priviledges and i said that it wasn't bad as long as you know who you are messing around. so then he said if i wouldn't mind been his "friend" and i agreed to it. we had said from the beginning that either of us didn't want any type of relationship and that was fine with me because i just didn't want to deal with relationships before heading off to college. we talked for a very long time until one day we saw each other and well the rest i'll leave to your imagination. the problem is that it has been two months since that night and i realized one thing i had fallen in love with this guy. now i he just ignores me and i cant let him go
2007-10-02 18:14:55 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Belle Erreur♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i've been through this, its horrible if you dwell on this so IF HE ignores YOU then I would move on, if you were good looking enough to attract him, then YOU KNO you can do better
2007-10-02 18:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by animosity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart there are 3 men to every woman. Lots of fish in the sea. Take your time and be PARTICULAR. You are the one picking your soul mate. Don't settle for any thing less. I think men respect women that are smart and have a job and are on their way to a career. Most men don' t want a lazy woman with no ambitions in life and no career to look forward to. Forget about him... he was the first. There will be many mnay more. I assure you of this. I am 58 now.
2007-10-03 01:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please carry this information throughout your adult life. Women have sex with emotion and men have sex for pleasure. You should have known that this was going to happen. It's ok to have this type of relationship as long as you know that there are no strings attached so you have to prevent yourself from getting emotionally attached. Since this has happened I have a feeling that you will keep on making the same mistake over and over because you will use sex for finding love. In the long run you will be disatisfied with yourself and have second thoughts. Place VALUE on yourself and look at your self with RESPECT. Please don't make this mistake again.
2007-10-03 01:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by aynav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well darl,you have the first halve of the question right! but now
i believe that you have slipped up on the second part. He got
to your heart,body and mind.i cannot tell you much more than just try and move on with your life,there has to be other guys
out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve,if
you do find Mr right dont be scared to tell him what happened
in your first relationship
All the best for the future.
2007-10-03 01:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by menace2dennis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel, maybe he might feel the same. but if not, it will be really hard to let go, but all in all it will be for the best that way u 2 wont have to suffer with a long distance relationship. they hardly ever work. believe me on that. but really the only thing u can do is talk. gl hope this helps
2007-10-03 01:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just like what you cant have. he doesnt see you in that way so maybe you should try and find someone else and dont bring sand to the beach (boyfriend to college) i just started college 2. never go into a friends with benefits relationship it always takes commitment no matter how hard to try to ignore it
2007-10-03 01:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by michelle t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him go. I know that feeling you have, and it sure feels like it might be love, but look at what he is doing! Forget him. There is a good man out there for you, and someday you will meet him. This guy is not worth your time.
2007-10-03 01:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by trancegoddess2001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel no matter what. If you never tell him, you might regret it for the rest of your life. One piece of advice: don't live your life with regret and take a chance.
2007-10-03 01:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by parguera1987 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can let him go, and continue with your life 'A little wiser' .
2007-10-03 01:19:36 · answer #9 · answered by maharg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he took you at your word.. let it go anyways
2007-10-03 01:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋