i like this guy for about 6 months, but the problem is that i just like him alittle bit more than a normal friend and i don't wanna go out with anybody at the moment. a month ago, i started writing his name all over my table, and guess what, 2 weeks ago i found out that he sits in the axact same place he had read all those stuff and he had searched for the person who wrote it. the only people who i though knew, where my friends who i told them myself, but i founf out that half of our grade knows. a week ago i found out that HE KNOWS EVERYTHING. i felt so bad. i didn't want it to be this way. everywhere i went, people from my grade were like:hey we know who u like. i was so shy on those days. but still, after all this things, i still can't stop thinking about him, his all over my mind(not all the time, but usually at night, when i am alone)but i don't want more people to know more about this. so i need to stop liking him. i have to stop looking at him.
2007-10-02 16:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i really need to stop looking at him cause if he didn't know about this before, he knows now. so if i just stare at him, everything willl get worse. i am really confused wright noe. and sorry for misspellings.
2007-10-02 16:41:42 · update #1
Didn't we just go through this? Follow the same steps we talked about but this time just act as if he doesn't even exists. Just make up your mind and move on.
xxx
2007-10-02 16:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by Shel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard as it is, STOP.
As an observer it does sound obsessive and the last thing guys like is someone "mentally" stalking him by staring.
Whatever you do, don't let this progress to following him or anything else. It isn't healthy. Focus on your friends and hobbies and the right guy will eventually come along..someone that adores YOU!
2007-10-02 16:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by *I'm the Best...I Deed It!* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't help how you feel, but you CAN control how you respond to those feelings. Start hanging out with your other friends more and do fun stuff with them. That will get your mind off of this guy. Who knows? You could meet another really neat guy with whom you have more in common.
One final thought: Everyone likes being liked. You should never be ashamed of liking someone. Anyone who makes fun of you for that is just being immature. But please stop writing his name on your desk. That's kind of immature, too.
2007-10-02 18:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by freedomnow1950 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it makes you feel any better, i'm in this exact same situation!! i am trying to forget him and the best thing i can do is try to like someone else and move on and flirt w/other guys. also you might want to talk to him and let him know that you no longer feel this way, that way you know that he knows that you dont like him anymore, also this gives you a chance to talk to him and tell him the truth about everything. Good Luck with whatever you choose!!!!!!
2007-10-02 16:53:31 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when i see a guy i like
do something Not so cute
That is all i think about
Rely on his features that arent so great
There must be something that you cant stand about him
and think about that when you see him
That may sound kind of judgemental
sorry if this dosent help
2007-10-02 16:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by / 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he found out about the writings and started showing interest in you than he probably wasn't creeped out and you should ask him out , if not it sounds to me like you have one-itis or intrest in only one person, the only cure is to find interest in somone else pretty soon you'll forget him.
2007-10-02 16:46:20 · answer #6 · answered by Devin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help who you like. If someone harrasses you about it just look at them and be like uhhh so... if you dont make a big deal about it, then people will let it go, I promise. Had he said anything about it? Maybe try to move on, but you will realize that everyone likes someone, so it isnt a big deal.
2007-10-02 16:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to be haaaaard, but just pretend like he's not even there! Keep constant attention to your schoolwork and get focused and you won't even think about him!
Keep talking to friends and carry on conversations to kee your mind off of him.
2007-10-02 16:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with other guys maybe you'll start liking someone else.
2007-10-02 16:43:11 · answer #9 · answered by youshallneverknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be OK.
So he can act like he knows,
and look back, or
you can say Hi, and smile. :-)
2007-10-02 16:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋