but i'm shy and no one asks me out but i'm pretty i know that because my friends told me... i'm 14 years old... what should i do please help?
2007-10-02 16:44:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you seem like a young talented girl, who is looking for a boyfriend and has the techniques but doesnt necessarily have the confidence. First out of all your friends that are boys, think of which one you like or think is "cute". Then if you can give him your phone # to hang out sometime after school.
and btw you don't really need to ask a guy out. They ask you out. Your job is to "lure" them to you or have em chase ya.
good luck!
2007-10-02 16:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is very young, so don't feel like the world is passing you by. Good things will come as you get a little older.
Now, I probably would limit your dating if I were your dad, but there are things a 14-year-old should be allowed to go. One would be to go to parties with other teenaged kids, and mixed groups would be fine.
Also, school dances are a good avenue for you. Don't feel bad about going without a date. It's a good way to meet guys and get to know them.
Do you attend a church? That can be a good way to meet guys, and these can be pretty good young men.
Don't worry about being shy. When I was a teenager I LIKED shy girls, because I was pretty shy myself.
Don't worry, sweetie (and I mean that in the gentlest and nicest way), your day will come. If you are pretty you will have guys lined up trying to date you in a couple of years.
2007-10-02 23:52:45 · answer #2 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean! i think everyone goes through the same thing... i was once shy, but sooner or later you're gonna have to realize that being shy will not get you anywhere, especially if you want a boyfriend. its really hard to go from shy to not being shy. its something you have to overcome. but the whole situation in finding a boyfriend, you just have to wait and he will come. it might seem like forever and it may be but you have to be patience. being patient will bring a lot of good things. and especially cuz your only 14, you have many fun and exciting years to come, and with that you will have a lot of good experiences.
2007-10-02 23:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 14!!!! I would ask myself why do I really want a bf?Is it because everyone elso has one? I would take it slow and just get to know guys first and see what kinds you would consider dating. Think about the things that really matter like how he treats his parents and family. What he acts like when put under pressure..stuff like that. Besides you shouldn't want to grow up too fast, you have your whole life ahead of you and time goes by faster as you get older. Stay pure and don't try to always follow the crowd.
2007-10-02 23:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust what you friend says ask a random guy on msn or something here ask me i am 15 chaos-system@hotmail.com and your not going to get a rejected badly by a guy JUST ASK!
2007-10-02 23:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow damit wait they will come ur only 14 ur still young dont rush to get a bf cuz right now u need to focus on ur school work n not boys cuz as soon as u get one woops there goes ur grades down the toilett
2007-10-02 23:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to the movies, hang out with friends, interact with guys, try to not be shy or atleeast dont act like it. find new interests. goodluck!
2007-10-02 23:49:36 · answer #7 · answered by justinnnnn7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u got the people u like? if yes try to ask him to 'date out with you'
be brave dun feel shy to ask people out with you!!!!
maybe because you too pretty, other people tought u have many people date out with you so they no chance.... like this situation you need to brave youself and ask the people you like to date out with you!!!
BE BRAVE!!!
2007-10-02 23:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Phoebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a guy staring at you in class and flirt with him.
a little clevage flash, show some extra leg to him, or bend over right in front of his desk.
after flirting move in for the kill i mean ask him if he wants to hang out.
2007-10-02 23:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by night wolf 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get off yahoo answers and go ask the boys yourself
2007-10-02 23:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋