Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

This guy and I were making out and things got hot and heavy at some point and we stopped and he said im going to get some serious blue balls in the morning. and i said thats a lie no such thing as blue balls and he said your not a guy, we dont get blue balls but its gonna hurt in the morning.

2007-10-02 16:40:09 · 22 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

She has been very straight up and honest with me about how she wants to divorce him since we've had our affair. I love her very much and she is a wonderful lady, but my question is this: How do I know she is faithfull to me? Should I spy on her or hire a private detective to see if she is telling the truth?
I met her husband last weekend and he was in the bathroom when we on my bed making out. We didn't know he was there and he got mad and punched my garage. I don't think she's having sex with him because when they were here, she wanted to make out with me in front of him all the time. What should I do! And yes, even if she is, I'd still take her back.

2007-10-02 16:39:22 · 14 answers · asked by The Wizard 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well im not rude or anything, I just act silly and stupid and when my sister was 14 she started to smoke drink tongue pierced whatever and now im at that age and wanting to be like her 3 years ago and i don't see any changes?!?! i never had a boyfriend, i smoked but 6 times. threw out the years.I hate beer and got sick from drink not even a half of it.I don't get in trouble or fights in school, i do have an bad A S S adittude but no drama has come. & people think im so nice and they can act like they can treat me like S h i t. Well do you think i should grow up a little with new additude and be more open and not stupid and have some dignity and not be annoying talking about pointless things when i should be being a "bad girl". Im not going to SMOKE or do DRUGS or anything. i was giving an example.Because my lifes so boring.I need to be more opened how do you guys have fun after school or chill with your friends? im quite sometimes too.i just don't know what to say!im so goody girlAHH

2007-10-02 16:37:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We've talked about marriage lightly and have mutally agreed it's what we want for our relationship in the future. However, we haven't done an concrete planning. I know some of my friends all ready know they want 2 kids, what town they want to live in and when they want to get married; they all have been in relationship for about the same amount of time or less. I'm not jealous, nor do I feel pressured b/c they are ahead of me.
I have a lot of things going for me, that they don't (career wise) So, no need to be jealous.

So, I'm just putting out there the "status" of our marriage talk. Well lately it's something I've been finding is more and more on my mind. I really want to talk about it more and even start planning a little bit.

However, everytime I try talking about I get really emotional. Mainly b/c I try bring it up in mild conversation before hand. I don't want to put him in the hot seat about it. So, I do that

2007-10-02 16:31:48 · 5 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've taken a class and currently in a class with a professor who is older than me but I'm 22. Last semester at the very beginning (we only had 2 classes by this time), I saw him at a bar and we casually talked. After that night, he knew my name and started acknowledging me. I would stop by his office and chit chat with him. Anyways, this past summer we emailed each other and dropped innuendo hints that we were interested. Nothing happened and now I am in a class with him again. He always acknowledges me, stares at me, smiles at me....you get the picture. Well, anyways, just the other day I went to his office to discuss a paper I wrote. He brought his puppy and said he brought him just for me. Then, the dog had to do his duty outside and he asked me if I wanted to go with them. I really like him and I want to tell him in a more subtle way. So, for my first question, do you think he is interested? How do I tell him that I like him? Don't answer if you are opposed to this...

2007-10-02 16:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by CiCi 2 in Singles & Dating

she also blames me for running over her cat (paranoid), and her mother hates me. her dad told me "hey look dude, if you want her you can have her". she's also funny, smart, and beautiful. what should I do? Cool it?

2007-10-02 16:28:26 · 49 answers · asked by paris 2 in Singles & Dating

she keeps doing it and pretending to "accidentaly" bump into me and talk **** about me all the time. it's on my nerves im seriously about to punch her in the face. im so over this whole drama scene... what do i do? she keeps going at it when i ignore her

2007-10-02 16:27:15 · 16 answers · asked by Megan! 1 in Friends

im 18 and my parents wont let me do anything.
how do i get them to loosen their grip, and show them that i can take care of myself?
i act responsibly and help out around the house, have a job, do alright at school, but they dont let me be myself.
They treat me like im a bad kid, and they are so dramatic! we had an argument and they said if i didnt stop verbally abusing them, they'd go to the police!! i dont even swear or anything! I have time limits on the computer, have to literally beg to go anywhere, even just to a friend's house, and they have a points system rewarding my 7 yr old brother and me for good behaviour!
why wont they let me grow up??

2007-10-02 16:26:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The stage is set. I am going for custody for my son. WHY ? ex wife and boyfriend fighting in front of him. He even got arrested for breaking and entering into her 2 story apartment window at 3am.
I want to show the Judge I have a stable life. I have a house, a new 2007 car, and stable job. She has no job, lives in section 8, no stable life. And still loves to party and get drunk with kids sleeping in next room.

What is the best advance you can give me so that when i sit down in front of the judge...i can plee my case.
Please advise any tips will be taken .

Thanks,
a humble farther with love for his son and his best interest.

2007-10-02 16:25:39 · 18 answers · asked by Doctor Redcrow MD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

am a dishwasher at a restraunt and i really like one of the cooks there and i kno that he likes me too. Im just realy shy around him and want to flirt but i just like freeze and cant!.. Do u kno any good things i could say to him that isnt too overboard!? Liek how bout when he gives me dishes to wash what should i say that would be funny?? Usually i in a smart alec voice i tell him to wash tehm himself or i just say thank-you with an attitude n smile at him.. What else could i say?? Also when he throws things at em like tin foil balls! I never kno what to do.. when ever i try to throw it back i miss.. what is something funny i could say to him instead when he hits me w/ sumthin?? THANKS 4 All YOUR HELP!.. ohh yea.. he asked me 4 my number the other nite too : )) But im too shy to call him!

2007-10-02 16:25:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom is forty eight year old and is going to college, is she wasting her time or is this worth her hasile?

2007-10-02 16:24:43 · 16 answers · asked by Aqua Eyes 1 in Family

Okay, so I have a boyfriend.
I really really like him and he likes me.
He's a very good boy and is very nice.
The thing is, my parents don't let me have a boyfriend till the last year of college. xP
I feel so guilty not telling them about him since he is wonderful.
I really need some tips on how to tell my parents he's my boyfriend without them getting even more strict.

2007-10-02 16:23:03 · 10 answers · asked by Ismene 2 in Singles & Dating

Why was this question removed last time?

2007-10-02 16:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by Big D 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was sposed to meet my friend cos we are trying meeting at the same time and day every week cos life has gotten busier...and i get up earlier for it and he forgot me! he said he sincerely apologises and even said sorry sweetheart..awww...but still. he forgot me! how rude is that. i am considering being cold and distant around him. i mean i know hes not perfect but gods...shall i let this go as human error or be oversensitive and take it as a personal insult?

2007-10-02 16:20:53 · 12 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Friends

About a year ago i lost a very close friend of mine in a car accident and ever since i have been an emotional wreck. This was the first person that was ever close to me that died and it is harder than i ever imagined. Anything i do reminds me of him and it's horrible. I never got to say an actual goodbye except at the viewing since the funeral wans't here. But it just seems like a part of me is missing. My parents aren't very helpful either because they dont understand what im going through and they dont really want to listen to me talk about how i feel.
But i was just wondering if you went through something like this or some ways i could deal with it. thanks.

2007-10-02 16:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What would your partner need to do to be classed as cheating on you?

2007-10-02 16:16:14 · 18 answers · asked by Mo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a little bit of a stutter and was wondering if a girl would go out with me or not because of it(would she be embarressed of me or what)?

2007-10-02 16:15:27 · 8 answers · asked by surferdude68 1 in Singles & Dating

Where did you get married at? I want some ideas of outdoor places, somewhere with a scenic view would be great!

2007-10-02 16:14:22 · 2 answers · asked by lollypoppanda2004 2 in Weddings

I was in a committed relationship with an amazing guy. Everything seemed to be going well, but he said that he was 'confused' and didn't want to be 'serious'. I asked him when did he stop loving me, and he said he never stopped. He said he just had too many things on his plate but that he had no interest in girls at the moment.

Can someone translate that into girlspeak? Do I wait for him to get 'unconfused'?

Am I just setting myself up to get hurt because it hurts too damn much to let go? Do I remove myself completely or do I keep in touch...

2007-10-02 16:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by Gal85 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now...He's been married and so have I...I have children and he doens't....Well his ex wife has been in a way STALKING us!! I mean he's in the military and she took all his money and left him debt and cheated on him and everything else in the book...We have a really good realtionship...We love eachother very dearly...We're trying to buy a house and so forth....Well I don't know how, but I guess she found out where he worked at and decided this last saturday to drive by where his company picnic was held at!! Well her mother was with her as well...Someone which we all think is her...Keeps trying to get into his myspace account as well..Now she keeps trying to add him under a fake name.Playing it off as her exboyfriend...It's just like get real here...I here she's fixing to start at my job...I'm not one to start anything, but I won't take any crap off anyone either...So my question is what would you do?? Or do you think I should do????????

2007-10-02 16:13:28 · 14 answers · asked by I'm a somebody to someone... 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been having an affair an my husbands knows about it (second one) but he still wont let me go..i tell him i dont love him like that but its no use how can i get him to understand....we fight all the time even to a point of hitting each other he tells me i can get a divorce if i pay which is fine with me but he will never agree to anything no matter what so whats the point i told him im still going to stray but he says it will work.. i dont want to be with him anymore why why cant he understand that an tring to work it out for the kids just isnt working.. when i do try he gets mad an kicks me out what can we do or is it a lost cause.. life is crazy

2007-10-02 16:05:56 · 12 answers · asked by Annouyed 3 in Marriage & Divorce

first date? 3rd? a month? a year? marriage?

2007-10-02 16:01:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 16:01:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does this mean for my marriage?

2007-10-02 15:59:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and i are very happy together. i am living 4 hours from him while i finish school but spend every other weekend with him. we have an decent collection of videos and toys (yes that kind) that we use together occasionally. we got some new videos that hadnt been opened yet. when i came back the next weekend they were open. he admits to watching them but i dont understand why. he says he watches them sometimes when he is bored but i know he doesnt masturbate. he actually seems disgusted by the idea of it. i trust him and i know he didnt cheat, so why would he watch dirty movies if there was no girl and he wasnt gunna do anything about it himself? guys any ideas?

2007-10-02 15:57:37 · 8 answers · asked by avalon552 3 in Singles & Dating

So i'm 17. and my ex boyfriends 17th birthday is soon and we still are really close. hes been there for me through a lot and vice versa. we started dating when i was in 8th grade and he was in 7th and dated off and on up until my sophmore year of high school and ever since then we have just been reele close. He means a lot to me but i'm not sure what i should get him, what would be appropriate and what wouldn't, plus shopping for guy's is hard enough without it being not a boyfriend or something.
PLEASE HELP!

2007-10-02 15:54:21 · 18 answers · asked by Violet 1 in Friends

When is it okay for me to break down? How long should a man have to go being rejected? If your man shared the work around the house, and in all actuality probably did 70/30 of it (laundry, dishes, etc.), gave the kids their baths, got them ready for school in the morning, worked twice as many hours as you, brought home three times as much on payday and never missed a day letting you know how incredibly god-damned attractive you were, would you be attracted to him? Would you want to have sex with him? More than once a week?, More frequently than after he's been moping around for three days, just so he can last 90 seconds after going down on you for 40 minutes. Would you at least sit by him on the couch, hold his hand, not push him away when he snuggles up to you in bed? Would you kiss him in church?

Even after you'd talked until being blue in the face about it, how long would you expect your man to go before breaking?

I only want serious answers. I am at the end of my rope.

2007-10-02 15:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a girl i like but dont really know in school calls me by my nickname all the time

2007-10-02 15:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i feel so far apart from my friends now. we use 2 b so close. now we tell secrets in front of each other, gossip behind each others backs, and most of all.... i feel as if they r melting into different people. they care so much about wat people think of them, and how they look. if i get loud, they'll go... " that's soo embarassing Karen! " i don't care wat people think of me, i like 2 have fun. but i don't know wat's going on with them... we have high school next year, i don't know wat problems will arise... ** sigh ** wat's wrong?

2007-10-02 15:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by Helloooo 3 in Friends

I don't know about you but I wish I could read sensical dating questions with some real substance. It is hard to navigate through these questions that are typically written in text message/Internet lingo. Do you agree with this?

2007-10-02 15:49:08 · 13 answers · asked by Fly girl 7 in Singles & Dating