I was in a committed relationship with an amazing guy. Everything seemed to be going well, but he said that he was 'confused' and didn't want to be 'serious'. I asked him when did he stop loving me, and he said he never stopped. He said he just had too many things on his plate but that he had no interest in girls at the moment.
Can someone translate that into girlspeak? Do I wait for him to get 'unconfused'?
Am I just setting myself up to get hurt because it hurts too damn much to let go? Do I remove myself completely or do I keep in touch...
2007-10-02 16:14:19 · 4 answers · asked by Gal85 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a committed relationship can sometimes send a guy packing. I have no idea what he is running from or to, but take what he said at face value.
When I was younger, I was in several committed relationships and they ended for a variety of nonsense reasons. Either they or I got bored or found something that interested us more. I have loved and been loved and you will be also, hang in there.
2007-10-02 16:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by Follow the money 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is using it as a cop out. Most people don't just all of the sudden say they need a break, but still love the person. I think you should just hang in there strictly as a friend, without having high expectations of getting back together. If he wants to get back with you then he'll initiate that conversation down the road. Just try to move on is the best advice I can give you.
2007-10-02 23:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by The Ball Coach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Gal
Hi how are you and i hope i can explain what hes not saying to you.I can see you must adore him and him in return dont care for you as much as you care for him. (Confused) .(Dont want to be serious ( Dont want to date you anymore want to be friend ) That wont happen and you know it. ( To many thing on his plate (To Many g.f to think of and needs to dump you) No intrest in girls at the moment ( IS not interested in you anymore) If i was you and take this from experiance i would so remove myself and dont look back. Hes got some nerve
Good Luck
2007-10-02 23:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by ho8er2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him come around if he does but don't wait
2007-10-02 23:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by whisperer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋