she keeps doing it and pretending to "accidentaly" bump into me and talk **** about me all the time. it's on my nerves im seriously about to punch her in the face. im so over this whole drama scene... what do i do? she keeps going at it when i ignore her
2007-10-02 16:27:15 · 16 answers · asked by Megan! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont even waste your energy on someone like that!!!!
i dont think you should punch unless thats your ABSOLUTE last resort.
the best revenge is doing well.
use your wits not your hand!!!!
2007-10-02 16:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by randa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to have the same problem, these girls use to talk so much crap about me i lost it and went after them, the girls locked themselves in the car, and still was talking crap, best thing i would do is ignore it, but that might not help,or get in her face and tell her to back off...which help me stop my problem... Or if you see her coming towards you walk the other way far from her....if ignoring doesnt help then this girl whos messing with you has issues, she doesn't have a life or maybe she jealous of you.
2007-10-02 16:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by HaYwArD510 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oy..I hate girls...lol.
Seriously, you are so above them. Who cares what she is saying, she is a little ant while you are a smart woman. Ignore what she says behind your back. If she has the nerve to say something to your face, or to bump into you, I would say something. Something that will make her feel lower than you, and make her feel stupid. Hmm..maybe something like "Do you feel better now?" or if laugh at her, and walk away.
Man I am so glad I am out of high school. Guy friends are so much easier to make.
2007-10-02 16:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by mrr86 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is doing it to get a rise out of you, you need to ignore her. If she keeps doing it over and over even if you ignore her, stop her after she bumps into you and tell her that she needs to grow up. Basically, if you don't give her a reaction, she won't feel like she's getting to you. She wants you to react or go off on her. Just literally ignore her.
2007-10-02 16:30:25 · answer #4 · answered by SeoulGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very good question. Unfortunately, it's a fact of life. If you react, it's only going to bite you in the butt. The best thing to do is ignore it. Hopefully, she'll get another target soon. If it gets any worse, go see the counselor. At least then they'll have a record of it in case something happens and you might not get blamed.
2007-10-02 16:32:12 · answer #5 · answered by Terri J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. If she keeps on doing what she does best, then you should take it to your school counselor if you are in school. Tell them you are being harassed. They should do something about her like give her a warning. I am sure she will stop. She is only making a fool out of herself by acting the way she does.
2007-10-02 17:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 04:40:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time when ppl do this kind of stuff is because they r havin porblems at home or with themself n they find victims to pick on to make themselfs feel better but in reality they r not i suggest u talk to a teacher or to a grown up u trust about this
2007-10-02 16:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes ignoreing them doesnt work.just ask her what the fu*k her problem is with u,or just catch her out one day by herself and whoop on her.lol but dont do that unless its absolutely nessessary.just ask her what her problem is with you.she obveously needs to grow up and stop bullying ppl.how would she like it if ppl did that to her?make her feel like crap.make her realize that one day ppl will grow up and she will never stop being a child until she does too.good luck and hope it all works out for ya
2007-10-02 16:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl_12589 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to tell you something? Does she like you? There is got to be a reason for how it started? Start by reviewing what made it start then you will have the correct answer to get het to stop.
2007-10-02 16:31:47 · answer #10 · answered by readyfor_you2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you punch her in the face, i think that is going to cause a bigger problem between you two. if she really won't stop maybe you should call in some extra help from someone you can trust.
2007-10-02 16:33:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋