What does this mean for my marriage?
2007-10-02 15:59:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont worry about it, your only human.
no matter how happy you are, people can get bored and a scandelous secret affair is wayy exciting.
its okay to dream, but for the sake of your happy marrage, dont make your dreams a reality.
please, DONT THINK THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE CURIOUS, YOU ARENT HAPPY!
because that is not what is means.
2007-10-02 16:04:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know, but you just contradicted yourself with saying that you are a "happily married woman", then you say that you are interested in a married man.
If you are a happily married woman, you should not have feelings for wanting to be with a married man! You lied saying you are a happily married woman. Say the truth next time.
2007-10-02 16:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your happily married, your interest in this married man is just temptation that can result in a devistating disaster for your happy marriage. You can not make the unhappy married man happy. He needs to find that happiness within himself. I would suggest to you to give your husband the respect he deserves and yourself. No matter what any man will NEVER respect a lady who is unfaithful to his mate. Even if it seems like he will.
2007-10-02 16:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by jane do 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had this happen and i'd say "Thanks, I'm flattered, but I'm not interested and you are starting to make me uncomfortable." If this doesn't work, it may need to be addressed with management. Sexual harassment goes both ways. My husband deals with it a lot at work in the medical field where the women can say whatever crude thing that comes to mind and it's laughed off, but if a guy so much as blinks the wrong way, he can get written up or fired. It is your responsibility to address it directly first. If that does not resolve the issue seek assistance from a higher authority in management or in human resources.
2016-03-19 04:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your marriage is over in your mind. You also have to realize that you may be interested in a cheater-man. That is one that tells any female that he is not happy in his marriage which he feels gives him a good reason to cheat. That doesn't mean there will be anything but a short affair for you and he will be on to the next woman. Decide now before you take that step whether giving up your marriage, friends, family, his family, and self-esteem are worth giving up. This sounds like a selfish act and you know it.
2007-10-02 16:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by Julie H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A. If you were so happy you wouldnt be interested in your male friend.
B. Everything this sad sack has fed into your head is a lie , his wife isnt the ***** he's made her out to be he is lying to you to get you into bed are you nieve enough to fall for it?
C. What it means for your marriage is , your very easily lead , not happy , bored and want some fresh physical excitement you no longer have with your husband.
D. Dump the male friend , tell your husband what the male friend has been doing and saying and quit playing games .
E.Hope your husband loves you enough and understand's you enough to know your easily led and is willing to forgive and forget that you were falling for such hypocritical lies from a player who's just bored with his wife and their physical relationship.
F.He isnt going to leave her because it is all lies and your just going to be used until his next fling replaces you.
Dont lower your standards to becoming his skank , if you have low self esteem do a course to build it back up again and if your bored with your husband try romantic dinner's , romantic bath's , body massages , put all the effort your considering putting into this loser into your marriage and fix the problems you have , and stop lying to yourself.
2007-10-02 16:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only married man you should be interested in, is your husband. Now if you are happily married, and the married man who is not so happy is your husband, then this can be fixed. You do not say the married man is not your husband. However, if the married man you are interested in is not your husband, then you are in a downward spiral, and have already emotionally committed adultery. Shame on you. If the unhappy married guy is your husband, go to church.
2007-10-02 16:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're so happily married, why are you interested in ANY man, married or not, besides your husband?
I'd say either your marriage isn't so happy, or you like taking unneccessary risks in life.
2007-10-02 16:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are as happy as you say you are, then you wouldn't have eyes for another. You should think of your husband and find out what is missing in your relationship that you think may be better if you were to leave him for this other man. I would say to stay far away from him. He may just be looking for comfort among other things that he can find elswhere.Don't ruin your relationship too. What goes around comes around.
2007-10-02 16:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by proudmommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this married guy is playing you for a side-dish to make his own little life a bit more exciting.
Don't do it.
You will get caught and your marriage probably will not endure that betrayal.
2007-10-02 16:29:29 · answer #10 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My bad - I actually thought you were serious for a minute, before I checked your other posts and realized you're just a troll.
You're either 25 or 40, depending on the section, and either interested in men or women, depending on the hour.
2007-10-02 16:14:05 · answer #11 · answered by Nandina (Bunny Slipper Goddess) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋