She has been very straight up and honest with me about how she wants to divorce him since we've had our affair. I love her very much and she is a wonderful lady, but my question is this: How do I know she is faithfull to me? Should I spy on her or hire a private detective to see if she is telling the truth?
I met her husband last weekend and he was in the bathroom when we on my bed making out. We didn't know he was there and he got mad and punched my garage. I don't think she's having sex with him because when they were here, she wanted to make out with me in front of him all the time. What should I do! And yes, even if she is, I'd still take her back.
2007-10-02 16:39:22 · 14 answers · asked by The Wizard 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am being used for my penis size. Her husband and her past lovers are inadequite, she claims, to do the job. Why should I quit this relationship when I am doing her AND myself a favor?
2007-10-02 16:59:30 · update #1
I think she sounds like a woman who is now 100% in love and is probably just waiting to save up money for her half of the divorce costs. I believe that she is being 100% honest with you and is just using him for his paychecks so that she can afford to pay off her bills so she can pay for the divorce. I really like her.....she is ME!!! Love you Rolls!!
2007-10-03 12:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by spuddy3177 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing for you to do in this relationship is get out of it! You are worried if she is being faithful to you?? She's MARRIED!! She isn't being faithful to ANYONE if she is having an affair! Even if she were to get a divorce, what makes you think she wouldn't turn around and cheat on you just like she is cheating on her husband? Once a cheater, always a cheater. Even if she is telling you she is getting a divorce, she's not divorced yet and that is cheating no matter how you look at it. Put yourself in her husbands shoes...what would you do to the man you knew she was cheating with? You ask if you should hire a private detective to spy on her and her HUSBAND to see if she is cheating on YOU? Think about what you are saying. That is her husband she is with...she can't cheat on you when she is with her husband. If she was doing what is right, she would be having sex with him and not you. Even if they are seperated, they aren't divorced. And if they ARE in fact seperated, what the hell was her husband doing in YOUR bathroom at YOUR house while you were on YOUR bed with HIS wife?
2007-10-03 00:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by tazdvl_31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I am being used for my penis size" Well it's obvious you're not being used for the size of your grey matter...what does it feel like to be a manwhore? Your parents must be SO proud.
I can just imagine them after church...
"Yes Pastor our son is a Manwhore isn't that wonderful!?" Your mom at the hair dressers "Well MY son, is a manwhore!" Your dad on the golf course "My so? Oh he's a manwhore mother and I are so proud of him"
I guess penis size is more important than dishonoring your family name.
2007-10-03 02:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're making this whole thing up, but if not:
Ok, your girlfriend is not cheating on YOU, she is cheating on her HUSBAND. I disagree that she's a wonderful lady. She's cheating, and wonderful ladies do not do that.
No you should not hire a private detective. She probably IS having sex with her husband, as she should be.
Shes' a nut, you're a nut, and her husband deserves better.
2007-10-03 00:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... that is crazy.
Here in Texas, he would be legally justified in busting a cap in your fanny!
Most of the time it is some old-goat man trying to keep a side-dish, but here you are the side-dish. Chances are, she will not file for divorce to come to you. You need to issue the ultimatum to show you the divorce papers or show her the door.
2007-10-02 23:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she would do this to her husband, what makes you think she wouldn't pull the same crap on you someday? This can not have a happy ending for you. Get out while you can. This girl has some serious character issues.
2007-10-02 23:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Liar, fantacist, or all out loser.
I'm not sure on that one.
With your penis size, at least you should be able to hit the toilet bowl. Its the only place I'd let you put it.
2007-10-03 08:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care if a person who is married and with her husband says the truth or not, why would you even listen what she is saying.
2007-10-03 00:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're being USED!! She wants to make out with you in front of her husband to make HIM jealous, she's a low life, let it go you can do better!!!
2007-10-02 23:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to date someone with baggage?
2007-10-03 00:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by LV 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋