Well im not rude or anything, I just act silly and stupid and when my sister was 14 she started to smoke drink tongue pierced whatever and now im at that age and wanting to be like her 3 years ago and i don't see any changes?!?! i never had a boyfriend, i smoked but 6 times. threw out the years.I hate beer and got sick from drink not even a half of it.I don't get in trouble or fights in school, i do have an bad A S S adittude but no drama has come. & people think im so nice and they can act like they can treat me like S h i t. Well do you think i should grow up a little with new additude and be more open and not stupid and have some dignity and not be annoying talking about pointless things when i should be being a "bad girl". Im not going to SMOKE or do DRUGS or anything. i was giving an example.Because my lifes so boring.I need to be more opened how do you guys have fun after school or chill with your friends? im quite sometimes too.i just don't know what to say!im so goody girlAHH
2007-10-02 16:37:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't want to be like your sister in that way. and if people are treating you like shi t then get mad at them or something to show your real tude. i am a goody two shoes girl but people know that if they mess with me the wrong way that they are in trouble. so you are going about it the wrong way be you and not your sister. if your friends are the ones treating you like shi t then dump them and find new ones.
2007-10-02 16:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold it right there... oh my goodness... do NOT follow in your sisters footsteps... you are 14 years old you do not need a "bad ***" attitudte to get friends... trust me if you start all those ILLEGAL things now... it could turn into something majorlly bad.. why would you want freinds who just like you cause you smoke are you kidding me>? the fact that you have chosen not to do those horrible things to your body yet makes more mature then your sister ever will be... who cares if you dont have a bf yet.. dont be a badass loser because of it just work on talking and being more open and less shy around ppl.. that doesnt include being somone your not.. In the long run it will pay off SERIOUSLY...worry about school right now make your parents proud because when your the one making millions.. not only will guys be drooling for you but you can always look back and be like oh wheres my sister.... in jail ? oh that sux hehehehehe
~do the right thing pull yourself together
*Tabby
2007-10-02 16:46:43 · answer #2 · answered by Tabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be for you to just be how you feel. You'll have plenty of time to be an adult, and you'll find that it's not that great anyway.
Also being an adult doesn't just include the things you spoke of i.e smoking, drinking, etc. you should think of 'what' you want to be aswell as 'how' you want to be.
I am a 35 year old man, and I still like playing wii, riding my motorbike and learning stuff. If those things ever fail to give me pleasure, life would be boring. And anyway, it feels better to be good, life is richer. Enjoy yours.
2007-10-02 16:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by marccat80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still a kid at 14 no matter how much you try.You don't start really maturing till you are in your mid twenties. The brain goes through a maturing process. Stay young, youthfull and have fun while you can. Don't push maturity,it isn't as fun as you think it is. Stay happy healthy and safe.Learn as much as you can and try to find out about different lifestyles and maybe you will live your dream .
2007-10-02 16:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by zarandipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. it's ok. YOU ARE LUCKY THAT YOU DON'T HAVE ANY DRAMA!!! believe me. drama is the worse crap ever! it's so retarded and not even worth any of ur time! you shouldn't be so nice all the time though, cause ppl will treat you like ****. but you shouldn't change, you should enjoy being silly and stupid. it's a lot better than being mature all the time. why would you want to get in fights? u'll get hella messed up and ****, like ur face is gonna be hella fcked up, i think ur fine the way u are. but that's only my opinion
2007-10-02 16:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by deebeezyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be immature while you still can. Being a mature, responsiable adult is no fun at all. Plus you're 14 which is pretty young, you are supoused to act silly and immature for your age.
2007-10-02 16:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 14! Your'e not supposed to act mature. Just be yourself and if your friends, or anyone else, don't like it they probably aren't worth worrying about. True friends and those that love you will accept you for who you are.
2007-10-02 16:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking is lame drugs are ok to TRY. Drinking is good fun with GOOD friends i am 15 and i think girls like act like you are cute if they wenrt so goodie good. ^.^ PS: Spelling and grammer can go die!
2007-10-02 16:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not childish, Go to the movies mall and park together and just figure out how 2 defend ur self. start by shanking ppl
2007-10-02 16:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you're 14! Enjoy it while you can; you'll grow up all too quickly!
P.S. You're not expected to act like an adult at 14! ;)
2007-10-02 16:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Bostonian In MO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋