Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

Younger men and older women in a relationship and progressing in that relationship

2007-10-02 13:19:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this cousin that im really close to. we go to the same school, are almost the same age, and have some of the same friends. plus he always calls me evryday and we hang out alot. the problem is that i recently moved to a new house in this condominium and my neighboors mainly consist of kids from my school. my cousin never came here before but now that i moved here he thinks its ok to come into the complex and use the pool and court without even telling me. when he leaves trash behind i get in trouble for it. recently hes been comming to one of my neighboors house everyday with the excuse of a project but has actually been practicing for a dance for a function comming up with all of my neighboors excluding me. im not even mad that i wasnt included im just mad that the person who expects me to tell him everything wont even tell me what hes been doing everyday. i want to tell him to his face but i dont want my neighboors mad at me. i know its childish but i feel left out. what to do?

2007-10-02 13:19:22 · 2 answers · asked by Alice Cullen 4 in Family

I'm trying to find nice, designer, discount wedding shoes. But, I wear a small size (5) and can't seem to find anything that I really like in a decent price range online. Does anyone know of any good websites or any good shops in the Monmouth/Ocean County NJ area?

Thanks!

2007-10-02 13:18:56 · 12 answers · asked by ms. teacher ft 3 in Weddings

i love him but i just cant get over that he dumped me a few months ago out of no where, ignored me, started dating someone else, asked me back out then dumped me again for her again then we got back together, it was great over summer but now that we're back in school he's treating like he did before he dumped me the first time! what should i do?

2007-10-02 13:17:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who does Ms Spears thing she is?? She really has no major talent at all. She deserved to have her kids took. And i feel that what i heard on a talk show on the radio is so she. Unless her friends or family step in she is going off the deep end quick.
I figure she will be puliing a Sucide caper before to long.

2007-10-02 13:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by reddcobalt07 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i was dating this one guy for a year, but after talking and deciding it was going no where i started seeing someone else. well now the new guy im seeing is working out great, i couldnt be happier. problem is im still friends with the old guy. im not at all interested in having anything other than a friendship with him. problem is i dont know how to tell him i have a boyfriend now. im not hiding it, my myspace says im in a relationship. im just having trouble bringing it into conversation. what do i do??

2007-10-02 13:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by tcafri 1 in Singles & Dating

So this boy at my new school likes me and i like him but he has a girlfriend what shuld i do?? He also asks me if he breaks up with his gf will i wait awhile after so it dosent look bad like him breaking up with his gf and then goin out with me so i said ya 1 or 2 weeks, but then 2day he asked me if im gunna be worth it for him 2 break-up with his gf?? then he was holding her hand 2day n she went into the girls locker room and he told my friend 2 bring jolly ranchers 2 school 2morrow so we can play the jolly rancher game but i dnt want to wen he has his gf still! PLEASE HELP AND ANSWER FAST!!!

2007-10-02 13:14:31 · 2 answers · asked by QueenBH1112 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so I know that a lot of ppl out there might not have the same views as I do but I would like your opinion on something. I as a christian believe in courtship vs dating. I think that responsibilities and views that courtship puts forth allow young ppl and those who are ready to be married to make wise decisions based on pure love as opposed to the sexual clutter of this world. I would like to know your opinion on it as to why you see that courtship is either a plus or a negative in your opinion. I realize that some ppl cringe at the thought of this subject but I would love some honest answers and feedback as to why you feel the way you do. Thank you for all your help, this will be aiding me in a speech I am to be giving to my fellow peers @ my high school. God Bless!

Ps- guys don't hold back ( I want the truth from your point if view)

2007-10-02 13:12:54 · 1 answers · asked by crank dat 1 in Singles & Dating

does anyone else think skateboarding
doubles hotness (guys) haha- i do!!!
ps.you have to be hot to begin with haha

2007-10-02 13:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by lulu. 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend thats a boy hangs out with my and i hang out with him to. i wait by his locker and he waits by my locker because we go the same way to get to ower classes. we joke around a lot and have fun but last year people thought we were going out and we weren't now people think we like eachother. i think he likes me but im not sure. do i like him? help me please!!!

2007-10-02 13:09:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

okay heres my problem.The guy i liked in eight grade is starting notice me.But wait thats the good thing the bad thing is that in one of my classes there are two guys that are always staring at me and i don't like THEM! what do i do !?IGNORE THEM! how? i meen theres two of them staring i feel like there watching my every move! help.Then in another class theres this guy thats always bothering me HELP!
oh i'm a freshman by the way

2007-10-02 13:06:28 · 3 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

My father-in-law loves shopping at Wal-Mart and Goodwill.
If he buys stuff there all for himself, it's totally OK, but he buys stuff for us too even though we NEVER ask him to.

He once bought used baby toys at Goodwill, which we never knew whose mouth these toys had been in before.
He tried to give those toys to my brother-in-law, but his wife said they did not want them.
My father-in-law was very upset about it and gave them to us instead. How could I say "no" in that situation??
Well, he is a very nice guy, and I like him a lot.
But sometimes I'm tired of him being so pushy.

The other day, he and his wife (my mother-in-law) came over to our house.
They brought a sewing machine which my husband's grandma bought when she was young.
He said "I made it fixed, so it should work all right"
Again, I've never asked for the sewing machine...

Is there any way to say "no" without hurting his feeling?

2007-10-02 13:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by AuntieZoey 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 3 girls right now, and am thinking of having 1 or 2 more kids. I really really want a boy, well actually two boys. But obviously I can't exactly pick what I want and get it. I just want to know what I should expect and what I could be getting into. If anyone knows any boys that grew up with only sisters like 3 or more, I would love to hear about it. Like did he hate it and always wish for a brother? Or was he really spoiled and loved being the only boy? Or any other thoughts or opinions anyone has to help me make my decision. Thanks!

2007-10-02 13:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

don't you guys think that girls with braces are kind of wierd/ugly looking?

2007-10-02 13:03:12 · 4 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Singles & Dating

When we first started dating he bragged about how good he was at it and how he loved doing it, he did it for me a few times.. then just stopped. I asked him about it and he said it's because I don't "speak up." I told him that I shouldn't have to ask for it. I perform oral sex on him all the time without him having to ask. Besides, if he actually WANTED to do it.. he would just do it on his own. I wash very well and I am shaved down there, so I don't see what the problem is!

2007-10-02 13:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by Allison23244 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible to get Child Support Payments raised? How do I go about doing that and would I have to go to court? Can this be done with out going to court?
Its been four years since we divorced, I got very little child support, and now I really need more help...
Any advice or information would be helpful.. Thanks!

2007-10-02 13:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He likes me. I like him. For 3 years now and recently I just can't take it anymore. I'm tired of playing mind games with him, or loving him from "afar." I want to take it to the next level. He is someone I work with. He's 10 yrs older than me, has kids and is at a more senior position than me. Should I just wait until he makes the first move? I'm married w/ no kids. I feel like if I wait for him, then I'll wait forever. I was thinking about sending him a lunch invite over work email. Or should I just confront him in person?

2007-10-02 13:00:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my ex-boyfriend's birthday is tomorrow. We still get along great and He still likes me but I don't like him. Would that be leading him on if I baked him a cake to give it him as a friend?

2007-10-02 12:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 12:55:12 · 1 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 in Singles & Dating

i am 44 m . i work for a moving company. i am very stroni and i work very hard. i drive the truck tralior. the young men 20 or less not all but some treat me like i am stupid and weak. the say i dont do as much work as them . however i do as much or more then they do . they talk about me behind my back . i hear them, i am a very advanced self defence instucketor. so i dont really fear any of them . today i called one off and told him if i heard him talking about me behind my back i woulld punch his head in . later i phoned boss and quit . boss came said dont quit. what should i do . oh right now i am drunk

2007-10-02 12:54:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well my folks are goin on some anaversary, and the house is all mine! for 3 days, problem is that they are taking the only car! but should i still invite some people over? and have a little fun? its during the week which sorta sucks, and theres no car, which also sucks! but it could be an awesome week, what are some ideas?

2007-10-02 12:54:16 · 3 answers · asked by Philip Gimore 3 in Friends

would you be interested in a 34 year old army officer with an mba about to retire with two nice vehicles?

2007-10-02 12:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by Robert 1 in Marriage & Divorce

...The wedding is next July, I need to find a place to have the reception, but cali is soo expensive! We have 250 guests, please suggest any affordable venues, reception halls or destination to have wedding in southern california! HELP!

2007-10-02 12:51:06 · 6 answers · asked by Passar 1 in Weddings

Is this guy a true friend?
we talk mostly every class
when he needs answers or help or to know what homework is he comes to me
He calls me every once in a while
Sometimes leaves me to go sit with and flirt with other girls
Told me im his best friend
makes jokes and makes me laugh sometimes
play fights with me (like physical)
Didnt pick me over the fat kid in Gym

i dont know...... is he using me?

2007-10-02 12:50:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to attend this conference in this city that's about 2 hours away from where we live.. I have to stay there for three days and he doesnt want me to go!!

I really want to go because it would be fun and a good opportunity..

How do I convince him to let me go? I know he's way too overprotective but he means no harm and I love him.. what do I do!? How to convince him!?

2007-10-02 12:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Singles & Dating

okay my cousin manda was about to fight this girl named karra it all started over a boy named dj (really not worth it) karra thought dj was cheating on her with my cuz manda???(she wasn't though) so they were about to fight like 2 weeks ago at school.so today they were about to fight i was walking with manda and then she went inside the abc room and came out and karra was waiting on her to fight because she thought manda was talking about her .(keyword thought lol) so then my cousin kept backing up selling out (i dn't know why?) and handing me her keys off her waist so they were about to fight but the assitant principal came by and then she gave manda 5 days of out of school suspension and karra i don't know what she got ???but do think that was fair ???because they were about to fight.

2007-10-02 12:44:29 · 11 answers · asked by [[iM .]] K3LViN'S L4DY ~ 3 in Family

My friends think he likes me because he always says hi to me and talks to me sometimes. Onetime he was riding his bike home and then 5 minutes later he pasted by me again. But idk we hardly know each other. I want to make a move, will he think im weird because I'm randomly IMing him, or will he be flattered.

2007-10-02 12:44:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay so I'm 16 and I've never had a bf. My brother is bugging me about it saying I can't get a guy, and saying that he has a gf (He's 14). This guy in my math and Modern History class thinks I'm a lezbein. Sure, I'v been asked, but I alway's turn them down, I feel like a complete loser.....

2007-10-02 12:42:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 12:41:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I seem to be surrounded by people who , whenever you try to explain something to them, right away start with," RIGHT,RIGHT,UH-HUH,UH-HUH! It is annyoing and frustrating trying to deal with these people. Any tips on how to keep them quiet so you can state your point without being interrupted every time?

2007-10-02 12:40:09 · 3 answers · asked by ELSEGUNDO 6 in Friends