When we first started dating he bragged about how good he was at it and how he loved doing it, he did it for me a few times.. then just stopped. I asked him about it and he said it's because I don't "speak up." I told him that I shouldn't have to ask for it. I perform oral sex on him all the time without him having to ask. Besides, if he actually WANTED to do it.. he would just do it on his own. I wash very well and I am shaved down there, so I don't see what the problem is!
2007-10-02 13:01:58 · 12 answers · asked by Allison23244 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you give is what you get! This goes for your bf. Do not give him to it, and when he asks you what is wrong, say the exact same thing he told you. He might have done it at first, to get you start doing it to him, and since he sees you keep doing it to him, he stopped. Show him that you want something in exchange. Something that he offered in the first place!
Take Care!
2007-10-02 13:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then the problem is not you!! It sounds like he is the one with the problem!! I think the problem is all with your man!! Believe it or not, some men will start off doing just the things we like most!! Then once they know we will keep on doing the things that they enjoy no matter what, they will stop doing the things we like and want!! It has not one thing to do with you being clean or well taken care of in this area!! This has to do with him and no one else but him. One thing you can try and see if it works is just not take care of his needs in the oral department!! He has left you out in the hot dry heat, so why not leave him handing out to dry!! If that does not work then you might try aksing him about this, ask him and try to explain how this makes you feel, and what you want to do for both of you and your needs. If this does not work then there are plenty of guys out there that will give and be very happy to do so:):)
Best of luck to you:):)
Rags37:):)
2007-10-02 13:24:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like the advertisement for the Pink Taco restaurants. "If you don't eat the Pink taco, your friends will" So I say, go and find someone with a taste for honey. I can't believe that a man doesn't like to do this delicious deed, I believe it is one of the most wonderful and tasty treats that there ever was. Why I get down on my knees just about every night and give thanks for what I am about to enjoy !!!!!
2007-10-02 13:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see your point, I have been through that.
My theory was this; the other girls most of been faking it. If he was so good at it, he would just go for it, ya know? By not "speaking up", he probably means that you aren't boosting his ego, you aren't going on and on about how great it is. That was my guess with my situation, because I'm not like, a "speaker upper" either, and I was right. He just got insecure about it because I didn't act like the other girls that told him that he was so good at it.
2007-10-02 13:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, what's wrong with asking for it?
The question would be if you do ask for it, does he give it? If so, then you should just ask. Hint, joke, whatever... but make it known you want it.
Now if he doesn't give when you ask, that's another problem entirely.
People should free themselves from embarassment when talking with their partner about sex.
2007-10-03 12:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by kako 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, I had this same problem, seriously exactly the same... In the beginning he talked about how he would love to do that "all night"...blah blah blah, and did it like maybe half a dozen times then no more.... Needless to say he is now my ex boyfriend.
2007-10-02 13:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You really cannot force him to do it if he dislikes doing it. You should also stop doing it and make it a deal that if he does, you'll reciprocate.
Try the 69 position. That way it might be a good idea.
2007-10-02 13:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some guys get off the fact that some women want it..
You have to kinda talk dirty to him and tell him that you been wanting and craving it in some form of foreplay... I love talking dirty to my husband it gets him off...
2007-10-02 13:08:51 · answer #8 · answered by Maya 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's the advent of all those new sea food restaurnat. A man can only have so much sea food flavors.
2007-10-02 13:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
It's his problem. Not yours. It sounds like he's a selfish person.
2007-10-02 13:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by footbll06 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋