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Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

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how many of you actually want a divorce or think about it more than you should?

2007-10-02 14:04:46 · 30 answers · asked by b.moretee24 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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I am currently separated from my husband of 5 yrs. I love him dearly but we don't see eye to eye. I began to talk to this man who is older than me but was in prison for 10 years. He asked me for money and of course i said no! He then told me to get the money from my spouse and I again said no..I told him that I have more respect for my hubby than that and can't do it. Long story short, his family kicked him out of their home (he is on house arrest) and his mom lives in town. He wanted me to go get him and bring him to live with her. I didn't do it. He sold drugs, did armed robbery, has a violent past.I feel like he would be a danger to me and others if I went and got him..I don't want him to be my man or anything like tha but I feel so sorry for him.....PLEASE TALK SOME SENSE INTO ME!

2007-10-02 14:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Lana 3 in Marriage & Divorce

are there any personal sites where i can meet some decent men and i do not have to pay for it???

2007-10-02 13:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Sexy Mama of 2 cuties♥ 7 in Singles & Dating

i just got off the phone with my boyfriend cause he hung up on me. he said he was stressed about somethings and i wanted to try to help. but he wouldnt tell me anything but he would talk to other people about it. and he wont accept my help at all cause he says he has to much pride.
i told him that makes me feel like i cant help or be talked to, like im not even there; so whats the point of me?
it really kills me when i cant help people that need help but dont want my help and i guess he doesnt understand that.
so did i say the wrong thing? cause now he wont talk to me cause he says i made him feel like sh*t. but all im tring to do is help, and he wont accept it.

2007-10-02 13:56:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to save up my money but i don't get an allowence what can i do???

2007-10-02 13:55:37 · 3 answers · asked by Em 1 in Family

when two people are having intercourse, why does it turn on the guy to see the in n out action?

2007-10-02 13:51:30 · 12 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is the oddest place to reach out to someone for advice,but I have no where else to turn at the moment.

in 2,003 at the age of 23 I married a guy from another country,who later admitted to me he married me 50 percent to get to USA and 50 percent to come to America.From the begining he was controlling and forced his religion on me.There was allot of fighting daily,verbal,emotional and pyschological abuse and emotional neglect.This escalated to me getting hit and blamed for being too loud and deserving of a slap.
We were not married in a Christian church,and the whole thing was done in his traditional way,in another language that I couldnt understand.I felt overwhlemed but at the same time I believed I loved him so went through with it.My self esteem was very low and I didnt know how to stand up for myself.
After 4 years of living without love and facing abuse and daily quarrels,crying on every Holiday,every birthday and every Christmas,after countless prayers

2007-10-02 13:50:20 · 33 answers · asked by IMWOMAN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-02 13:50:09 · 16 answers · asked by jax725 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like how some couples both wear dogtags? something like that, but i dont want dogtags cause i think its played out. something simple, but cute. any ideas?

2007-10-02 13:49:21 · 1 answers · asked by 123456 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been engaged for about a year now, but last month I met an old friend at a wedding and we really hit it off. We have been staying in touch and even fooling around a bit. I am so confused. My wedding is in 3 months! Please help. Only serious answrs please!

2007-10-02 13:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by KfromCleveland 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son's father and I have been apart for almost 4 years now. He is now married, and has my son for visitation every weekend. I am very active in my sons life, and give him everything he needs as a mother, as does his father. My concerns are with his wife and how she sees her role as my son's stepmother. For example, she has called me periodically to question decisions that I have made concerning my son (claiming that she was trying to keep an argument from happening between me and my ex) ... she sends notes to my son's teachers concerning his schoolwork ... she attends parent-teacher conferences ... she attempts to make holiday/birthday plans for my son and tells him to "talk to your mother to see what she thinks" rather than talking to me directly ... I could go on and on. In a nutshell, she attempts to do things in my sons life that I, as his mother, already take care of ... I can't seem to get my point across to her to let me be the mother ...

2007-10-02 13:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by anon2009 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have my first boyfriend for like 3 weeks, and before that i really really liked him, i dont have the same feelings for him anymore. he thought a 3 month realation ship was short. i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings. ive never broken up with a guy before, and i really dont want to be mean to him. how do i do it. please and thank you soooooooo much.

xoxo
cheese forever

2007-10-02 13:48:05 · 20 answers · asked by ♪ladida♪ 2 in Singles & Dating

i'd pick the car atleast its mine forever and it doesnt nag

2007-10-02 13:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by Yo! 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy gets hit in the balls. Like give a comparison. I REALLY want to know. Btw, this IS a girl typing this.

2007-10-02 13:44:30 · 12 answers · asked by al 2 in Singles & Dating

okay. so im best friends with this girl since last year. we became like sisters ova the summer and everyone thought she was using me. She would always be like "(whoever) thinks im using you! Theyre so gay." and like she convinced me she wasnt. and idk, i pretty much narrowed my friends down to just her over the summer (bad idea, i know.) and then this year, high school, she started out the same but then she started hangout out w/ ppl without me. she told me i need 2get 2 know them so we could all hangout. so we all hungout a few times and i kinda knew them.

then the otha day she was like lets all go to the fair, including me, so i was like yeah shure itll be fun. then she calls me and says OH we got a babysitting job! so well babysit. then like 2 hrs later she calls back and says oh im going to the fair, you babysit. i was like thinking WOW shes totally ditching me. and then i got mad and we were fighting and she calls back and says sorry. oh and can i have $20?

using me? helppp

2007-10-02 13:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Friends

i cant stand where i live. i hate it. how can i convince my parents to let me move in with one of my family members in another state? i cry everyday but they dont even care. i hate the people at my school and all the drama.

2007-10-02 13:37:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So, there's this girl I have liked since 8th grade (I'm a junior now) and a while ago I asked her to homecoming and she said no and I know now that she has never liked me that way and never will because she directly told me (we're REALLY good friends now). I regard us mostly as friends, but since we're such close friends she'll do things like sit on my lap or dance w/ me at homecoming, and it just drives me crazy! Why do I still like her even though I know she'll never like me and never has? How can I move on?

2007-10-02 13:37:10 · 10 answers · asked by clueless 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to know what is the correct order, I may have to change my son's birth certificate. He is named after his father so I placed II as the suffix after his name, should it be JR?

2007-10-02 13:34:55 · 2 answers · asked by Change 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-02 13:32:05 · 13 answers · asked by sowilldo s 1 in Singles & Dating

im 12 years old im middel school and i have a boy freind. he is 12 too. and well i whent over to his house and I was talking to him and he started takeing off my shirt. and kissing my neck. I got scared and said gotta go. And at his house he brings his freinds over. and he brings me in the restroom and he says go out there in your bra i tell him to stop. but then he says i will
tell the whole school all of your secrets! so then his freinds starts saying damn your hott. then he sits by me at school at lunch and starts rubbing my vagina. i tell him to stop he says it will ok
and rubs harder. i dont know what to do he is nice sometimes. He is not the guy i had my first kiss with he thinks we should go to the next level
im not ready

2007-10-02 13:31:48 · 26 answers · asked by Dominique M 1 in Singles & Dating

I am seriously scared to death of my husband. He has threatened on more than one occasion to bash my head in, kill me with his bare hands. He has put guns and knives in my face. He has only physically hit me twice. But he has threatened many times. The last time he threatened to bash my head in, he actually took his night stick and swung it and put a whole in our bedroom door. I ran for the phone to call the cops but he took it from me and would not allow me to do so. I recently found out that I am pregnant. He has a daughter by another relationship who is a wonderful father to. I think he'd be a great dad to my child as well, but I don't want my child in that situation. How do I get out? I don't want to ruin his career by going to the police department he works for but I want out, and I don't know how!

2007-10-02 13:27:26 · 16 answers · asked by GreenEyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband ex wife moved across the country with their son and her new boyfriend. She decided that it did not work out and wanted to move somewhere else. So, she decided to move to our city. She sent the son ahead a few months ago and she will be out here next month. She is living with a family member right now, so she does not have much bills and is able to save money. My husband told her that he will pay for her to move into a place out here and cover the rent for a couple of months. She makes several times the amount of money than we do, but she drinks a lot, so she's broke. We do not have very much money AT ALL and we can barely afford our bills. Plus, we have a newborn baby. It really burns me up that he offered all this without talking to me and this is financially going to hurt us. I do not know now how we are going to pay our own rent. Should I be upset with him???

2007-10-02 13:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by iluvmyhubby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it worth it?

2007-10-02 13:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 4 Christmases we have been getting together with my parents for Christmas Eve, but they are moving too far away to continue this. And we've been getting together with all of my husband's Dad's extended family for Christmas Day dinner. But it really sucks! I talked to my mother-in-law about changing it, but she says she thinks it would offend Grandma and that she wouldn't agree to change anything until she dies. I'm not the only one in the family that has expressed their hatred for the activities planned. But I feel like I'm the only one willing to make waves to get things changed. I decided to send out e-mails to family members to get opinions, but have only received one back which agreed with me. My question is, should I continue to push the issue or just choose not to attend Christmas with them anymore (which my husband has agreed with). I don't want to make my in-laws hate me for having an opinion. But don't want to have anymore sucky Christmases!

2007-10-02 13:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Family

i have heard from a lot of friends that when they are having sex their boyfriend puts their legs on his shoulder. They say that this causes some uncomfortable feeling in their lower stomach.. why is this?

2007-10-02 13:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Singles & Dating

My boy friend keeps bugging me about sex....all the time!I want to,dont get me wrong but i dont know what to do...everyone eles does it! I just dont want no baby....
What would you do?

2007-10-02 13:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by Roxy! 2 in Singles & Dating

I am ending a 41/2-year relationship with my boyfriend, due to cheating on several occassions.
Although, I am strong on my decision, I am also nervous about being on my own again without his assistance.
I am leaving the new home that we purchased together, because I am unable to afford it on my own.
Our children are going to come with me.
We are splitting and ending things in a very civil manner and he respects my decision.

I am rusty when it comes to meeting new guy friends.
Any advice or ideas or what or where to go. (living in Houston)
I signed up on a couple of single web-sites, but it really is not my taste for meeting new friends.
I'm 28, and really thinking about seeing more mature guys.
**I am not looking at all to jump right into a new relationship, but just to have a few guy friends. I have been exclusively with this one guy for the past 41/2 years.**

Will you all give me your advice?? (serious answers please)

2007-10-02 13:19:48 · 2 answers · asked by Ms Brown Eyez 3 in Singles & Dating

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