2007-10-02 13:36:55 · 29 answers · asked by IMWOMAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nah, your breath stinks! Plus I got some terrible gas,.....whew! you smell it? Smells like rotten eggs mixed with vomit!
2007-10-02 13:50:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Here's a hug, my dear. And a shoulder to cry on. And then some advice: take a long, serious look at your relationship and see if there's anything there that might give you some hope of a change. If there's not, you need to decide, once and for all, whether to remain in the relationship or to go. And then have the courage and the grace to follow through with that decision. Don't degrade yourself by having an affair; that'd give you temporary release, and maybe the best screw you've ever had, but in the end you'll feel even worse. It's not worth it, hon.
2007-10-02 23:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give you a hug if I could. Do not stay in a loveless marriage. Both of you would be better off without it. Why are you trapped? Don't you have anywhere else to go? If not do you have a job? Nothing is impossible it just takes a bit of work. I can't tell you anything else since I do not know much but do what you can to get out and move on. You will be much happier and life will be so much better. Good luck.
2007-10-02 20:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if you're a guy or a girl, but listen up. Marriages aren't supposed to be like that. Loveless marriage? Trapped? Broken? You need to leave him/her. Get a divorce. Being independant and happy on your own is alot better than being miserable just so you don't have to be alone. You will find someone that you can be happy with! Hug hug!!!
2007-10-02 20:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Let's cook a good dinner and watch funny movies together! I am also lonely and sad. My boyfriend and I have decided to end our relationship tonight. It was so hard for us to do. We still love each other, but see, he is a recovering addict with 7 months clean. When we met he was clean and everything was amazing. Things were so great that I actually thought I may be dreaming. For a good month we were truly in heaven. Then he started acting different, he started drinking, then using heroine again. It wasn't long before he was out of control. He went to two detoxes in a matter of a month. He is now, like I said, 7 months clean and totally immersed in NA. Things are going better for him. Only problem is, he is not even remotely the same man that I fell in love with. He is not affectionate, he is not open, and we hardly talk or get along anymore. I am longing for the man that I fell in love with and he does not even know how to be that person anymore. We have lived together for a year now and I know it is going to be so difficult being in this place without him. I also just lost my job on Friday (the whole place is closing down, we all got laid off). I don't even know how I am going to pay my bills. Trust me when I tell you that you are not alone tonight. Lets give each other a big hug. Good luck to you and God Bless.
2007-10-02 20:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Here's a big, big hug to you. Now, stop feeling miserable and broken. Look inside yourself and know that you are strong and you are so valuable to this world. Mentally and emotionally disconnect from this person that you can no longer share love with. Stop feeling lonely and trapped. Start thinking about where you would like to live, what kind of job you would like to have, and what kind of person you would like to share your life with. Keep this picture strong and constant in your mind and start making a plan to make it reality. The misery you are feeling is your inspiration to build a new, joyful life for yourself.
2007-10-02 20:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I've been where you are.. and though I have NO idea what is in store for YOUR future.. I know that yesterday, I ran into my ex husband in the grocery store... The man that I thought was the cruelest man in the world... The man that I thought I would NEVER get over... and after "hello, how are you?"... I had nothing more to say and I had few feelings.. Mostly just glad that I had so few feelings ... I didn't have feelings either way.
So.. on this lonely sad nite... Know that your future is WIDE open... no matter how small or hopeless that it looks tonight... The one thing FOR SURE in this life... you never know what tomorrow will bring.
LOVE AND HUGS TO YA
2007-10-02 20:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by Bentley 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am so sorry that you feel that way. I think that women feel that way when they have been lied to or they are disappointed. Suddenly nothing is right. I am sending you a big cyber hug because it just sucks to be alone in a marriage. Good luck to you. Hugs.
2007-10-02 20:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by wife2denizmoi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
go find a person with two strong arms and get your hug on. Find the love you lost in your mate, sit and contemplate what went wrong. Don't reach out to us....reach out to the one you once loved and fight for what you had. All is never lost. You need to put all your efforts into finding the love you lost. You obviously were deeply in love before you married, find a hug within your home.
2007-10-02 20:42:44 · answer #9 · answered by mowsermae 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I understand how you feel I been there and i'm still there and is very hard I am focus on build a new life for my kids and myself i think you should do the samething and alway remember that we have a God that always love us, talk to him he will listing, strong HUG!!!!!
2007-10-02 22:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by evy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes things have to get worse b4 they can get better. Talk to your spouse and tell them u are unhappy. It will be hard but u owe it to urself to be happy. Here is a hug from me along with a swift kick in the butt to get u on the road to happytown!!!
2007-10-02 20:44:18 · answer #11 · answered by kermit 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋