Would you break up with your boyfriend if?

Question

i have my first boyfriend for like 3 weeks, and before that i really really liked him, i dont have the same feelings for him anymore. he thought a 3 month realation ship was short. i want to break up with him but i dont want to hurt his feelings. ive never broken up with a guy before, and i really dont want to be mean to him. how do i do it. please and thank you soooooooo much.

xoxo
cheese forever

you guys are so helpful, thanks a bunch. xoxo

Answer 1

just tell him that you aren't feeling it anymore, and that maybe y'all would better as friends.of course, you have to make good on this statement, but let him take his time in regaining you guys' friendship(if he wants). eventually he'll move on and so will you [[this always seems to happen to me, and i hate having to break up with people]] I hope this helps!!

Answer 2

Say "Im very sorry, but I dont want to lead you on. I am no longer interested in you, so there is no point in continuing this sort of relationship. I still like you, but as a friend....so lets try the friend thing. I want to be your friend, so i dont lose a great guy like you."

and smile, he will pretend he doesnt care, but he will.
He will respect you though, for just being honest
GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

well the only thing you can do it be easy about, be friendly and make sure he undertsands its just a change of your feelings. But no matter what, when you break off a relationship your automatically the bad guy. So your gonna have to understand that as well.

Good luck hunnie.

Answer 4

It's the same thing with many relationships. When you finally get something you've wanted for a long time, you don't want it anymore - the thrill is gone. If you truly don't have feelings for him, just tell him that. You still like him as friends but that's all.

Answer 5

when i had my first boyfriend i passed for the same situation u r passing now.i didn't know how to break up with a guy so i went to my bf and i told him "we need to talk" . so we started talking and i just said to him "u know i like u but i don't feel comfortable with ur relationship, i felt better being friends, i think be friends will be the best for both" and he said i think so too and if u wanna come back i'll be waiting for u ... hehhe but sure this never happened

Answer 6

If you no longer have any feelings for him....break up with him. I know it may hurt his feelings but you can't possibly stay with someone whom you have absolutely no feelings for. You'll be in a relationship that no longer appeals to you. Besides, when you find someone else, you'll most likely end up breaking up with him anyways. But remeber this....never get with someone unless you are positive that your feelings for him are very strong and true....not a form of lust which alot of teenagers get. They think it's love when it's actually not.

Answer 7

just tell him u really dont think its working out between the two of u and tht ur breaking up with him and let him know u two can still be just friends hope i helped well of course i did

sincerely,
Dr. Love
xoxo

Answer 8

Tell him the truth. Say that your feelings have changed and that you don't want a relationship anymore. It's going to hurt him no matter what (If he cares) and you will miss him aswell but if you don't really want to date him, then this your only option.

Answer 9

I dont understand the xoxo cheese forever, btw. Go ahead if you dont like him

Answer 10

you gotta leave him. You'll hurt his feelings more if you continue this and then later on, you decide to break up with him. dont be a *****.