okay. so im best friends with this girl since last year. we became like sisters ova the summer and everyone thought she was using me. She would always be like "(whoever) thinks im using you! Theyre so gay." and like she convinced me she wasnt. and idk, i pretty much narrowed my friends down to just her over the summer (bad idea, i know.) and then this year, high school, she started out the same but then she started hangout out w/ ppl without me. she told me i need 2get 2 know them so we could all hangout. so we all hungout a few times and i kinda knew them.
then the otha day she was like lets all go to the fair, including me, so i was like yeah shure itll be fun. then she calls me and says OH we got a babysitting job! so well babysit. then like 2 hrs later she calls back and says oh im going to the fair, you babysit. i was like thinking WOW shes totally ditching me. and then i got mad and we were fighting and she calls back and says sorry. oh and can i have $20?
using me? helppp
2007-10-02 13:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, that babysitting thing, that's bad. The borrowing money, that's not good either. It does, at least with that situation, sound like she's using you. Or at least not treating you with the respect a friend should give. Doesn't sound like she ever planned on babysitting, or having you go to the fair. Not very nice at all. If you think back over the summer, maybe you'll see that she's the one who drove you from your other friends. I'm not sure, but it doesn't look so good. Maybe it's time to reconnect with your old friends, I'm sure they will understand. Good luck!!
2007-10-02 13:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by Roxanne S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, above everything, don't be loaning this gal any money cause chances are you'll never get it back. And I wouldn't waste much energy on "testing" her but I would branch out and start to cultivate new friendships. Don't allow this girl so much power over you that she is determining your every move and holding it over your head that if you are a true friend to her you will do this or that for her.
2007-10-03 18:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to start hanging out with other people.
She might be one of those friends who likes to take advantage of her friends and control them.
You don't have to stop being friends with her but hang around her less and hang with other people more.
She may get better but she might not. Some personality traits never go away.
2007-10-02 20:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like it. But i'd test her a bit more if i was you.
2007-10-02 20:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by kodi_cti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋