I have been engaged for about a year now, but last month I met an old friend at a wedding and we really hit it off. We have been staying in touch and even fooling around a bit. I am so confused. My wedding is in 3 months! Please help. Only serious answrs please!
2007-10-02 13:48:48 · 15 answers · asked by KfromCleveland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-10-02 14:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married. You have already crossed the line and it will be easier to do it a second time. If you tell your fiance what happened, he will not trust you and a marriage can't start out without trust.
You need to figure out why you thought it was okay to keep in touch with the other guy and why you wanted to fool around. That's usually a sign of something missing in a relationship and it would be missing in your marriage too.
2007-10-02 21:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married - clearly you are not committed enough to your fiance if you're cheating on him. Do your fiance a favor before you ruin his life - call the wedding off, hopefully the guy you're fooling around with will keep you. You obviously don't love your fiance or at the very least, you don't love him enough to marry him.
2007-10-02 21:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by Empress1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should cancel the wedding, Seriously. Consider yourself lucky that this happened BEFORE your wedding and not after. You don't have deep enough feelings to get married and you're already being unfaithful. Come clean with your fiance, then you will be free to date this other Joe, openly and honestly. Joe maybe the one.
2007-10-02 23:55:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would call off the wedding and soon. Do not get married. You are not ready and this is not the right man. Do both of you a favor. You will not be happy and neither will he. It will be miserable and you will end up apart anyway.
2007-10-02 22:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're way too immature to be getting married. Call off the wedding and save your fiance a whole of heartache.
2007-10-02 22:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my girlfriend just called her wedding off a week before it was supposed to take place because of another man... she knew for months she had real feelings for him but tried to deny them.. she said it wasn't even about the other man so much as he showed her she wasn't really happy with the her life the way it was turning out... the sooner you figure it out the better, i'm sure you already know in your heart what is the right thign for you to do
2007-10-02 20:54:46 · answer #7 · answered by farynblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you shouldn't settle down with someone whom you don't have feelings for. I think you should tell your fiance that you guys need some break & you need to figure some things out; that should give you sometime to get your head straight; cause fooling around with someone & being engaged with the other is wrong...
2007-10-02 20:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by crazykiaray23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cancel the wedding. If you can have feelings for this other guy so easily, don't waste the $ on the wedding, and crush your fiance's heart by going through with it. I promise you will learn to regret it if you don't cancel.
2007-10-02 20:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly773 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You fell that quickly for another man? You really shouldn't be engaged then. You should tell your fiance about how you feel and what you've done. Don't ruin his life by marrying him when it is clear that you aren't really in love with him.
2007-10-02 21:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by Violet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break off the wedding. You obviously don't love your fiancee, which isn't a bad thing, but now you know.
2007-10-02 20:52:37 · answer #11 · answered by Kaye00 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋