My boy friend keeps bugging me about sex....all the time!I want to,dont get me wrong but i dont know what to do...everyone eles does it! I just dont want no baby....
What would you do?
2007-10-02 13:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by Roxy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I sure hope your not really young like 14. I am assuming your a virgin. It would be helpful if you added some more details, like your age, his age and how long have you been going together? It sounds to me like your not ready and he sounds like one of those jerks who just wants to get into your pants. It is wrong of someone to pressure the other into having sex, it's a big decision, not one to take lightly and of course, if not careful, there can be serious consequences. So please done let him pressure you into something your just not ready for, think of yourself and think of your future.
2007-10-02 13:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Perkymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not comfortable with it then don't do it. When you have sex with the one that you love it is supposed to be an enjoyable time not a time of stress with you wondering if you did the right thing or not. Tell him that you are not ready and that is that. If he keeps bugging you then he has no respect for you or your feelings and that is no way for a true boyfriend to act. Tell him that it is not going to work between the 2 of you and break up with him. You should save it for the one that you are in love and intend to spend the rest of your life with...your husband. You are sure to not have any babies if you don't do it. No birth control is 100% effective. The only thing that is would be to not do it.
2007-10-02 20:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, "Look, either you stop bugging me about this, or we're breaking up. I'm aware of the risks of having sex, and I'm not ready for that responsibility. If you really feel as though you need to have sex, then go find another girlfriend."
Oh, and by the way, if he breaks up with you after this little speech, then he's more of a jerk then you thought and is not worth your time.
2007-10-02 20:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by tallglassofwater91 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really & truly want to have sex, make him get the condoms to put on before you have intercourse. They have protection for chicks, but if he keeps bugging you, let him get the protection. If you are not interested in having sex & he is still bugging you, then obviously he doesn't think you are worth waiting for.
2007-10-02 20:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by BB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends how long you have been going out. It's not right to just give it up right away. Make sure you are totally comfortable with him and trust him 100%. If he is bothering you about it, that's not a good sign. A good guy would wait until you say you're ready. Tell him to stop.
2007-10-02 20:22:34 · answer #5 · answered by delicious_babym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your toooo young. Don't get pressured into doing it.
If you want to, talk to someone about the safe sex. Make him wear a condom, increase oral sex, and that might ease the pressure of him asking you all the time. Try masturbating each other before going all the way .... slowly lead into what You want to do.
2007-10-02 20:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by jdfitzi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're unsure, then I wouldn't go ahead. It's better to get educated and learn about the parts that could effect your life. (STD's, and oh yeah.. A BABY?) Haha. Man, use protection for God's sake.
2007-10-02 20:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should, just b/c everyone is doing it but your not everyone your you if you know your not ready for sex then you shoudent.remmeber one mistake happen that would alwayd be there nomatter what you do so remmeber your you not everyone else. who cares whut poeple think of it. at least you don't have a baby!!
2007-10-02 20:24:32 · answer #8 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how you are, don't go around having sex especially if you end up pregnant he's not going to want to help for the baby
2007-10-02 20:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~Can't Live Without You~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is pressuring you and you are not ready then he does not respect you very much.
tell him that you do not want to have sex. And if he doesn't like it to take a flying Fing leap. guys like that are no good .
2007-10-02 20:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by bakerone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋