I have to attend this conference in this city that's about 2 hours away from where we live.. I have to stay there for three days and he doesnt want me to go!!
I really want to go because it would be fun and a good opportunity..
How do I convince him to let me go? I know he's way too overprotective but he means no harm and I love him.. what do I do!? How to convince him!?
2007-10-02 12:49:18 · 9 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband
2007-10-02 12:56:22 · update #1
I'm guessing by the wording that it's a B/F
So here goes. There seems a lack of trust on his part. A lack of trust is an intimacy issue. If he loved you, as you do him, he would trust you enough to go. I don't think you can convince him, though you should go to the conference anyway. Don't let some man run your life. This conference seems important to you, so it should be important to him as well. You could tell him that you won't go, but you reserve the right to veto anything that he would want to do in the future that is really important to him.
2007-10-02 13:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Agent Archer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go Go Go - if he can't give you any freedom and trust now it will only get worse as the years go on.
I am sure that were the positions reversed he would have no qualms about making the trip.
Whether wife, GF or daughter, you are your own person
2007-10-02 20:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Info_Please 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends who it is if it is your husband than just explain to him that you will be alright and that you will call him everyday.
If it is your dad than just say that Im old enough and im not a baby anymore. Stop treating me like one please! I will call you all the time.
Hope you get to go. Have Fun!
2007-10-02 19:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by vballgurl1405 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is being to over protected what is "he" to you and if he is your b/f then geez you got to tell him to give you some kind of trust and besides you got a cellie phone to call if anything anyways and that you could handle your own with out him and you got to tell him that he is not always gonna be there to protect you anyways... and if its your dad you could tell him the same thing
2007-10-02 19:53:58 · answer #4 · answered by one of a kind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW your letting a man control your life???? You have 2 choices; you can live your life for yourself or you can listen to him and live your life how he wants you too.
Don't be stupid!!!
2007-10-02 19:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by stinab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your boyfriend? Because just saying he doesn't help. If he is your boyfriend, tell him that you have to whether he likes it or not and he is more than willing to tag along.
2007-10-02 19:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We could answer this better if we know who "he" is. We need a more defined relationship.
2007-10-02 19:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by my 2 cents 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your Dad or your husband?
2007-10-02 19:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can he go with you?
2007-10-02 19:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋