The other day I was woken up by my girl and I was like thinking about delicious coffee and so I was like "Mmmm Mmmm every morning I wake up and you know what I am so grateful I have?"
And so she smiles and she's like "Whats that"
And I was like "I sure do love having my capuccino machine, smartest thing I bought in a long time"
Anyhow she scoffed at me and went to school and I figured she thought it was silly that I liked being able to make my own coffee/thought it was a grown man too happy about his toy
Anyway I guess it really offended her because she won't give it up to me since like Saturday and its starting to piss me off
Is she right to be angry? Should I sell my coffee machine or something? It saves me a lot of money over Starbucks or whatever, I don't really want to part with it. Why is she so angry?
2007-10-02 17:51:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you want to get laid?????? wake up in the am...give her a cup of coffee and look at her in the eyes and say I'm dumb..I'm so grateful I have you..without you everything else doesn't matter. I'm sorry. Can we move past it and enjoy each other again???
*kisses*
and stop being dumb...is having an expensive coffee machine all your grateful of?????
how about not being alone when you go to bed...how about having someone there when everyone else is busy doing their lives??? don't take what you have for granted...cuz when its gone..its really gone.
2007-10-02 18:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really sweet that you're considering selling your coffee machine but I don't think you need to go to that extent. This is what I think:
She's upset because you totally set her up! By saying "Mmmm Mmmm every morning I wake up and you know what I am so grateful I have?".... you made her think you were probally going to say her, or something about her and by throwing her a curveball about the coffee machine is a little bit disappointing. I would recommend tomorrow morning waking up before her, make her her favorite coffee drink and give her a kiss and say, "Although I'm so grateful for having this stupid coffee machine, I'm even more grateful to wake up next to you." Good Luck
2007-10-02 17:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't have anything to do with the Capuccino machine. She is pissed because when you asked: Every morning when I wake up you know what I'm grateful that I have? And you said the coffee machine.....she was expecting you to say HER.
2007-10-02 17:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by Julie H 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She was expecting you to say that you are so grateful to have her and instead you said a coffee machine she is probly really hurt you need to set her down and explain to her you didnt mean it like that.
2007-10-02 17:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by focus_e_us360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is her problem? Is it wrong that you really, really like your morning coffee and the fact that you get it from a great machine at home?
She kinda needs to get over herself a bit. Your life is not wrapped up in her, your enjoyment is not wrapped up in her.
2007-10-02 18:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...yes and no. The real issue is that she is probably not feeling romanced by you. She might feel most loved when you tell her so. Try telling her how much she means to you. Try doing something totally out of the ordinary and romantic. Maybe surprise her with dinner, or write her a letter.
2007-10-02 19:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's mad because when she asked "What's that?" she probably assumed you were going to say "I'm grateful to have you beside me!" I really don't think it has anything to do with the coffee maker, except that she is jealous of it!
2007-10-02 17:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm what? Are you retarded.
I really do not think she gives a **** about you having a coffee machine. There is nothing wrong in there..
Possibly something else pissed her off.
2007-10-02 17:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by Icicle. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably b/c she was expecting you to say you were greatfull for her. but instead you said you enjoyed your coffee machine. so really it has nothing to do with your coffee. just that you enjoy your coffee machine more than you do her. I'm a man and i even knew this one.
2007-10-02 17:58:43 · answer #9 · answered by ilvvrzn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if she is a coffee drinker like you, perhaps you might try getting up earlier than her, fixing her the first cup for the day, and serve it to her....setting the Pace for her to see what YOU Like.....then perhaps she will understand that there ARE other ways to please you!
Good Luck!
Don't make mountains out of molehills! Choose to PICK your battles, lots of life is ahead of you all!!! Peace!
2007-10-02 17:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋