Is there any way I can get my bf to tell me what he wants sexually? Or can you give me any advice on what I can do to please him?? He was my first so I don't have any real experience so be nice.
2007-10-02 20:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Katelynn L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is not right or wrong way. It's whatever feels natural and comfortable.
You could initiate something by maybe giving him a back rub, or you asking him for a back rub, things may get a little bit more intimate from there. Don't rush things though, because then it can get awkward.
2007-10-02 20:31:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked and he would'nt tell you? or are you trying to work out how to ask? If he is'nt willing to tell you maybe share some of the things you like with him. It may make him realise you trust him enough to share your sexual wishes and he may start to share his. If you have not asked yet, wait until you're both in the mood and ask him then. Make sure you are honest and should he say something turns him on that you think is a bit out there, please don't laugh. If he wants to do something you don't want to be honest with him and tell him so.
2007-10-02 20:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by vonzippa66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM........now if that's not the route you're willing to take say something along the lines of "you know i'd be willing to do anything for you or to you (sexually of course)" then i'm sure you'll get you're answer. He will obviously think you indeed will do anything and he will have no shame in opening up. Now just be careful with what he asks you to do.
2007-10-02 20:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by maddogg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha I'm under age now you have corrupted me for life. You will be hearing from my parents lawyers soon.
2007-10-02 20:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by daboss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that things will just come naturally when that happens and you could also ask him what he likes and doesn't like...experimenting will also help you find out what you both like and don't like also
2007-10-02 20:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by NoLongerHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just read him.. he'll give signs... especially if he knows you're new to everything, don't fight it if he moves your hands or your body one way or another. Guys are easy.
2007-10-02 20:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by vaendegyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all how olr r u??? to answer ur question it should just come naturally if you try to force it he would feel uncomfortable.
2007-10-02 20:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by Krazym0nkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. "Is there anything you would like me to do?" Ask more than once (not in a row).
2007-10-02 20:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Howard H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol I cant really give you any advice...lol...just look at my name
so for those who do have the answers...thanks !
2007-10-02 20:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Gwen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...why don't you two watch porno movie while doing it? study it slowly, and importantly told him to be gentle. Gentle...
2007-10-02 20:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ong C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋