I met up with this man about a year ago through my job . I was a cashier, he the customer. I needed someone to help me move who owned a truck. He offered to help me move. So course he was given my phone number.
Since then he has continuously called me. I had changed jobs. Same area basically. He walked into the store where I work. He now calls the store phone and tries to convince me to date him. I have told him over and over. No, I have a steady boyfriend. I declined his offer to help me move. I decided against it. He gave me the creeps. How do I handle this person. I have to answer my phone at work.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Is there anything I can do or say to turn his desires for me off?
I have trouble being rude and mean to people. There has been no threats. He is just irritating. He acts like I should have all this free time to be with him. He stands there and just
stares.
Sincerely,
Marseille
2007-10-02 20:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by marseillelangres 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you don't want to be with this guy, you have to tell him. You have to be rude and mean when men don't get a clue. If you aren't able to be rude and mean right now, problems can arise in the future. Just say, "Look sir. If you don't leave me alone, I will call the police." Change your phone number while you are at it. Yes it sounds like stalking to me. Be safe.
2007-10-02 20:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by Catalyst 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you are not interested as you have just started a relationship, If he persists haven't you got a male friend who can pretend that's hes your boyfriend and have a word with him??????????? If your real boyfriend doesn't want to get involved. I would be a bit concerned especially since he knows where you live............
2007-10-03 03:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Margaret 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that is considered stalking. But maybe the next time he rings just tell him that your perfectly happy where you are, and for him to get on with his life. If that doesn't work, then just try to ignore him.
2007-10-03 03:09:40 · answer #3 · answered by i_want_a_pet_goat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, scarey. A lesson to all, don't give away ur phone number to strangers
I suggest u change ur number and consider going to another job, maybe another state
2007-10-03 03:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest speaking with the police. I'm sure they will have some good advice.
2007-10-03 03:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Heather J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this qualifies as stalking, report him to the police before he decides to hurt you or your pets or your bf.
2007-10-03 03:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♫ Bubastes, Cat Goddess♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm..i think..the best way is..1. get married.. 2. call police
3. ask money from him, like u r a maneater or something...
2007-10-03 03:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by esam2.0si 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change ur phone number. tell ur boyfriend maybe he will tell him to stop.
2007-10-03 03:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Sleepy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you and your boyfriend should move to Canada or sumthing
2007-10-03 03:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Arikashikari_Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask for some money. say i need $500. he 'll go, guaranteed.
2007-10-03 03:20:54 · answer #10 · answered by Guyen G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋