Family & Relationships - 2 October 2007

We purchased a home almost three years ago and expected to have at least one child by now. However, a little over a year ago, we found out that we have a very slim chance of having a child. He deals with it in his own way that seems very insensitive to me at times, and I hurt everyday because of it. We do not want to adopt, although it is very noble, it is just not for us. I am so sick of people's "home remidies" such as, tequilla, relaxation, a hot bath, stand on your head, etc. I want to tell people to just stop asking and stop the recommendations! Neither of us like our jobs and we are almost ready to just leave the entire area to do something completely different. Life just really stinks and it shouldn't. I'm only 29! How do I cope?

2007-10-02 06:33:24 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-02 06:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by jimmy 2 in Friends

well me and my b/f have been together for a while and the other day we went shopping and I went to the restroom, and when I came back my b/f was looking at different rings! Do you think he was looking at a possible promise ring for me or what?

2007-10-02 06:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by Crazy chick 2 in Singles & Dating

For example,
Which date should the couple kiss (first, second, etc...)?
Making out?
Having sex?
Talking about their "future"?

Yes, I know it really depends on the couple and the individuals involved.
I want to know how far YOU would go (if you were with someone you liked).

2007-10-02 06:23:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now he has to wait to see if they will call him back...if they do then he has to take finger prints and drug test..i told him to drink like 5 gallons of water to clean out his system..because of the weed..but he told me thathe has been doing that and he is not stressing himself and what ever happens happen...well you know what why should i care when obiviosusly he take these things so lightly..i have done all i could to get him to this point,...my sister interviewed him i did his resume..and all he can tell me is whatever happens happens..well screw you...

2007-10-02 06:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My company doesn’t have a policy against inner office dating, which is great because I’ve been wanting to ask out the CEO’s personal assistant for the longest time. Well, we finally went on our first date this weekend, but both of us drank WAY more than we should have and as a result we ended up sleeping together. I felt really bad about it since it was our first date and didn’t feel comfortable staying the night, so I lied and told her I had an early morning meeting. She looked really pissed, but then she also gave me this look like “you’re an idiot!” Now, I can understand her being pissed, but why would she look at me like I’m an idiot?

2007-10-02 06:21:34 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 06:20:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is getting me a promise ring, and we saw a beautiful one with tiny diamonds around the whole band. it's a wedding ring though, and it looks like one. do you think it really matters that it looks like a wedding ring? if you saw it would you automatially think 'wedding ring'?

2007-10-02 06:19:05 · 32 answers · asked by sexygurl 1 in Weddings

I like hanging out w/ my female friends. they make me laugh and I met them in college. I'm in my late 20's and I am virgin, all of them are not and single. I'm not overly religious but I am somewhat and I do beleive in God -- main reason is, I have not found right man yet, I am trying to wait for marriage, I want it to be special for us (if that doesn't sound silly) anyway, they all put me down when in the group they make me feel bad by saying how great their sex life is, how good man's penis is, say I am missing out, etc. i feel i can't contribute to conversation sometime. they also get alot of dates b/c I think males can tell they are not sleazy but not virgins.... i feel left out. and they say "have sex" then i can understand. also one tells me that no man will marry virgin at this age group b/c it will freak them out and they will not want the pressure. what to do? I feel bad about this, but I'm not going to become a sl*tbag to fit in. serious answer only...thank you.

2007-10-02 06:17:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been giving brochures to her friends to pass on to her, because I think she could use the surgery.

Is there a way to tell her that she's not physically good enough for me without upsetting her?

2007-10-02 06:17:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

... my boyfriend and a few of our friends were sitting around having some drinks.. just having a chill low key night. after a while we went to bed and my boyfriend (of almost a year) and who was pretty drunk ...looked me right in my eyes and said "i love you ..you're the one.. will you marry me". It didnt click at first and i said "what?" and he said "nothing" kissed me and went to sleep. I know that people say the truth comes out when you're drunk but thats an extreme thing to say. I just wanted a little feed back on what he may have been thinking or was it just an empty drunken rambling. thanks..

2007-10-02 06:16:46 · 26 answers · asked by jace 1 in Singles & Dating

Even though I was invited to the wedding, I don't think it is necessary for me to attend. I think it is sacreligious, since I still love the person, and I hate the "witch" that he is marrying. Should I attend, or should I ignore him altogether?

2007-10-02 06:15:08 · 52 answers · asked by allspiceglitter 3 in Weddings

in about three months i will get married .
i am starting to get second thoughts .
not for the right gye but for marriage itself.and now?

2007-10-02 06:13:51 · 16 answers · asked by trust me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can you tell
if you've never spoken
Just looked and smiled at each other??

xxxxxxxxx

2007-10-02 06:12:01 · 16 answers · asked by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 in Singles & Dating

She wants to erase all my #'s out my phone because she dont like my friends well she have good reason they all do drugs and i use to also. She wants to do my message on my answering machine, and she wants to keep my phone one full day. I dont think this is fair. What do you think.?

2007-10-02 06:11:03 · 29 answers · asked by stinkyrichdad 1 in Singles & Dating

trying, i have never met anyone that has truly loved me, sometimes feel like there's no point, i gave up some time ago? is that normal. like i just haven't the heart to try

2007-10-02 06:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1 in Singles & Dating

I realize The Nolte shouldn't feel insecure (hell, just LOOK at me), but I want to be prepared just in case my woman falls prey to temptation from a certain "handy man".

2007-10-02 06:10:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and I have done a lot for her. I have found that she is a very messed up individual. She has stolen from me, lied to me, has committed fraud with her SS benefits to the point that she no longer gets them. Now, she wants to move into my home and have me support her. She doctor shops and abuses pain killers. She is threatening to call the Elderly Abuse Hotline. Is there someway to legally stop this and to be able to protect myself and my family?

2007-10-02 06:09:44 · 10 answers · asked by yoyo77 1 in Family

if the person of your dreams turned up .

2007-10-02 06:09:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-02 06:08:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to feel.Im lost.I want so bad to understand what the need for this type of awful visual stimulation is.Why am I not enough and how do I trust again?He said its because Im not fun anymore.Wow that makes me feel good!There are other factors he said but all of them amount to the fact that he isn't happy sexually with me anymore.I am so hurt and betrayed.This isn't the first time either.Thats what hurts the most.I told him it bothered me and I saw it as form of cheating,but he did it anyways.I have no problem with looking with him but I just don't see the need as much.We have done just about everything sexually and I don't get how he can be so damn selfish.

2007-10-02 06:07:13 · 35 answers · asked by shader98 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If u in assending/desending order yr answer will be prefered .Also point wise reply prefered.

2007-10-02 06:07:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know I have made a lot of bad choices in my life including marrying my ex-wife and having a daughter with her. Even though she was a nice person, she took everything she could money wise after I worked so hard to make it happen. I also supported her studies, time off job, financial laissez-fair. She demanded alimony, child support and now I am unemployed, making less than her and she won't support change in CS without a fight. And on top of it, she is always the outgoing happy social person that doesn't really plan on getting an 8 to 5 job. How can I make her life miserable? Any success stories out there?

2007-10-02 06:06:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My current boyfriend now just turned 20 in sept. and I at 16 is turning 17. Do you think Parents should know if I am dating a much older Guy? Is it true that age really dont matter in some cases? Is it or can it be a healthy relationship?

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My current boyfriend is yea, 20 !!! well, he is very honest with me when and if I ask questions about anything and everything. I heard some rumor about him having a kid, so I asked him, and he told me yes he May have, but his ex from yrs. ago wont have a DNA test done on the kid to find out if it is his or not, he has tried many times to give her money to take care of the child, just in case it is his, but she does refuz to let him do anything...I'm so happy he was honest with me abt it, and I honor him for that....It doesnt bother me either that he might have a kid.but I need to know is it healthy 2 be in this kind of relationship with a older guy like this....Weve been togather 3 months.

2007-10-02 06:06:32 · 22 answers · asked by kayla9825 2 in Singles & Dating

aite, i knw ppl here r frm different level of ages.. so som ppl cant read or cant understand wat i write.. i mean i use short forms n stuffs.. dat hw we do huh.. then even say mi dat i shld bak n learn english lol.. ppl who r 25 and below.. can understand wat i write?? goshh help dat!

2007-10-02 06:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by desperategirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year to the day. We've officially been together since November. My plan is to give her a promise ring on our anniversary. I have every intention of marrying her when the time is right. She still has some college ahead of her, so I don't want to complicate her getting her degree by getting her preoccupied with wedding planning.

Her parents seem to like me just fine. I know her mom really likes me a lot, her dad... doesn't hate me, he's just really quiet around me. I'm thinking it's that his daughter is his only child, and he's not too happy at the thought of her one day being gone from home. One of the unfortunate things is that he holds his courtship with his wife against us at times (they were together for 7 years before getting married, but they started dating at 15, she was almost 19, I was 22. ) I'm wondering if it would be better for me to talk to them about it first or not, and if so, what to say to them. Thanks!

2007-10-02 06:04:44 · 19 answers · asked by Matt B 4 in Weddings

2007-10-02 06:04:03 · 22 answers · asked by cleo s 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been together for almost 5 years. Almost this whole time he has been trying to get me to join the military! About a month ago he told me he wanted me to take the ASVAB and I didnt want to, About a week ago I finally agreed to take it and get him off my back. Well, since then I have realized that it is a waste of my time, I have NO intensions of Ever joing the military. He says that is fine he just wants me to take it because I said I would. I know if I dont take this test he will be extremely angry at me and it will cause problems in our relationship. But I feel like I shouldnt have to do something that isnt going to benefit us? I have a feeling if I take the test he will be trying to get me to join even more! Am I wrong to feel like I shouldnt have to do this? Why should I have to be stressed out? Or should I do what he wants me to do and Take it?

Im 22 and will be going back to School to finish my BSN in Januray.

Thanks everyone!

2007-10-02 06:02:56 · 34 answers · asked by nicks_tulip 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Dating was tough enough when I was young, but now that I am 45, it is down right scary. When I go to most bars I find nothing but young women who are beautiful to see, but aren't the least bit interested in a guy my age. So give me a hand. Are there any night spots which are primarily frequented by more mature ladies who might be in the market for a well-experienced male?

2007-10-02 06:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can I go to the police about my mom opening my mail? I am 18 and just moved on my own with my boyfriend and our mail never comes to our place so my mail still goes to her place and she keeps opening it and I dont know what to do someone please help me.

2007-10-02 06:00:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships