trying, i have never met anyone that has truly loved me, sometimes feel like there's no point, i gave up some time ago? is that normal. like i just haven't the heart to try
2007-10-02 06:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I gave up long ago as well...
2007-10-02 06:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by vinster82 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah..Ive felt that way a few times. But to me, the exciting part it getting to know a person, whether it ends in me loving that person or not. I learn about myself...how far I'm willing to go to make things work, what works for me and what doesn't, what qualities are truly important in a mate. I think these types of discoveries are important, because it help us find that one special person for us..... I think (as with everything) you gotta go through the garbage, to find the gems
2007-10-02 06:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, it's not about finding someone who truly loves you... Perhaps, the point is finding someone who you will truly love unconditionally... no ifs and no buts... EVEN IF that person does not love you in return. I guess it's just a change in perspective. Instead of expecting to receive, why not give and ask nothing in return.
2007-10-02 06:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by pseudo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is someone that will always love you and that Is God himself. He created you in his image and made you the perfect person you are.
there is someone out their for you, just like their is for me.
Cheer-up the bible says that love others as you love your self.
so the key word is to love your self.
Looks are not everything for it is the inside that counts don't give your hopes up.
Go out enjoy life, be your self, take care of your self and have fun. Love your self and you will see how that person that is for you will come straight to your arms.
Go on and take some chances ask get to now people and ask them out the worst thing they can say is no and if they do say no then move on for their are tons of people out there.
Be your self, have fun, smile and good luck.
2007-10-02 06:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by El Compadre 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometime i feel like giving up
but theres someone for everybody
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
But ya know we dont live in a communist country
we live in a democratic world
where no one is the same or boring or has the same wage :p
Dont worry
Build your confidence up
by saying
"You are adorable" in the mirror
everday
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2007-10-02 06:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by Huggles [mozzafan] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the journey that makes life interesting, not the destination. Stop looking for eternal commitment and take life as it comes. Sometimes things work out - that's a bonus.
2007-10-02 06:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my partner quite late in life, and basically had given up, and just out of the blue, he came along, and i would say that apart from the odd hiccup things were lovely. Sad to say he passed away.
2007-10-02 06:15:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Janica's right. You have to love yourself for who you are and who you've become before you can love anyone else in this world. If you love yourself, 90% of the time you'll be happy. That happiness attracts women (believe it or not. I'm not talking about fake happiness...I mean REALLY being happy with yourself, fat or skinny).
2007-10-02 06:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Class 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mate, its when you dont try that you meet someone whos perfect for ya. i had a really bad time with guys and just wasnt interested, when i first met my bloke he had to chase me around and i wasnt up for it at all but he made me laugh and i really liked him as a friend. now 3 yrs later we live together by the sea and its awesome
dont worry babe it will happen for ya, sometimes you have to trail through a lot of losers first though...
2007-10-02 06:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Gina M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when you feel down you do, but eventually you'll meet the one for you. Its just a case of kissing a few frogs before you find your pince. Trial and improvement.
2007-10-02 06:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that too, but I live in hope that I will find someone one day.
2007-10-02 06:13:31 · answer #11 · answered by Vivi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋