If u in assending/desending order yr answer will be prefered .Also point wise reply prefered.
2007-10-02 06:07:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Quality is wonder. He should be able to provide for her. Have a house, transportation. He must have a job, And have worked that job for a long time, He must be a man of interegrity. He must keep his word at all cost. He must be a man that is known in the community as being respectable.Seach out his background, get to know who his family is. He must love her above his own self. He must love her for more than just sex. Love is the key ingredient in a groom.
2007-10-06 03:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ist of all let me clarify that your question do not relate to present era. because now a days parents are seldom given any chance to choose bridegroom or bride for their children. The new generation is wise enough to choose their life partner without the help of their parents.best thing is that you have to accept the choice of the children and let them be happy with their own choice.
Other wise if you talk the quality u should be fair enough to accept the realty that idle person which we should look at in groom would be a microscopic minority and we may have to keep our beloved daughter single for rest of her life
2007-10-04 08:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by guddu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't be looking for a groom for my daughter! I know my daughter would be very hurt and offended if I even tried to interfere in her life on such an intimate level! Do you not trust your daughter to find her own husband? The values that you raised your daughter with should give her the confidence and knowledge of herself and her wants to be able to decide on her own husband?
2007-10-02 13:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sherry 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What r u talking ...We are living in 21st century darling......but to answer ur question I think every parent looks for stability, family, background and last but not the least THE Qualities in a groom......BUT if the parent and daughter are those "Money minded" types they will ONLY look for Money Honey....hope it answers ur question
2007-10-02 13:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Vibs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look to see how he treats waiters etc. And what he does when he's alone with his friends. How he behaves when in line at a coffee shop.
These are all signs of how he will treat or daughter and act in situations with you daughter. You can't just do it once, because he may be acting differently due to your presence.
2007-10-02 13:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blood Test for HIV
Executive Checkup
- Diabities
- BP
- ECG
etc etc
These are more important than all other aspects. These you should demand from the guy
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However you should not search a bridegroom for yr daughter. You should ask her to search on the matrimonial sites. You should allow her to have the complete freedom to talk to the opposite gender.
Their friends including boys should be invited home. You should be nice to them. Give her all the help and co-operation to select her own partner.
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Don't give her troubles of
Horroscope matching
Caste / Creed matching
Engineer boy / Doctor boy ....etc
Reduce the restrictions. Have open mind and look for
Good hearted, Charming person with sense of humor
2007-10-02 15:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't want the task of choosing a husband for my daughter! She's way too complicated!
2007-10-02 13:17:36 · answer #7 · answered by suan b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty sure it's 2007, not 1827, and you should let your daughter get married when SHE finds the right guy.
2007-10-02 14:12:25 · answer #8 · answered by Smash 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
None, I'd let her choose her own hubby. After all, she will have to live with the guy. All I could do as her mother would be to support her decision and accept this man into my family.
2007-10-02 13:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by germaine_87313 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think I'd look for a groom for her. It's ultimately her choice since she has to live with him and it's important to love someone as well, which doesn't always happen when someone else arranges it.
2007-10-02 13:12:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋