MALE ADVICE NEEDED!::30+ yr old guy checking 15 yr old out at the gym?

Question

I have been going to the gym for 3 months now....almost every time I go there (4 times a week) he looks me in the eyes for like 3-5 sec at a time, multiple times while im working out. I not wearing anything revealing and im not looking back at him ( i can tell from the corner of my eyes). I know I look alot older than i am but im very confused?
I dont have a brother (im not close to my dad) so i need your male advice?

Answer 1

Tell the management whats going on and that you want to feel safe working out there and not leered at by a guy twice your age. Youre paying to be there and they should put a stop to it.

Answer 2

Well, I'm not a male, but my son is 16 and he says "steer clear of that perv... he probably thinks you're older but if not he's just freekin weird or something". Me, I'm 50 and I say hon, stop looking him in the eyes at all. Don't accept any perriers or towels or anything from him. If he ever offers to help you with anyting or walk you to your car, tell no, you are dating a guy already. It's ok to lie a "white lie" in this case. If he wont' back off, remember to carry your keys between your fingers, wear a tampon even if you're not you know... and let the management at the gym know but that's only if he doesn't back off after you've told him you have a boyfriend. Also, you might need to get some pepper spray and learn how to keep it handy. Don't go into the locker room if you and he are the only ones in the gym... I've been approached so many times, and fortunately a little smarts goes a long way, most of the time guys are not wanting trouble. They just think you're cute and you have to make sure when they know you aren't interested. Be smarter than he is.

Answer 3

Sweetie, men are going to look. And they're going to no matter what, whether they're 12 or 80 years old. It's not against the law either. LOL

Now, if that guy starts hitting on you, just tell him that you're underage. If he still wants to talk to you, then you can:

1-switch gyms
2-alert the management
or 3- Get "help" from a male relative, tough boyfriend or scary guyfriend. LOL :P

Try not to worry about it. Like I said; men are definitely going to look.

Answer 4

Smile back at him and shout "%#@$ off, you perv, I'm FIFTEEN!"

Seriously, though, I think he's just checking you out. Don't worry about it unless he tries to talk to you, in which case let him know you're fifteen up front. If he's still interested, run away as fast as you can, because he's a creep and has no business messing with you.

Answer 5

1/ tell him he is making you uncomfortable, tell him your age and do it public area

if he continues at all...
2/ tell management @ gym,

if he persists
3/ let the cops know

as a man, i have no idea why some guys do this when the age diff is like that.

good luck,
Neil.

Answer 6

First off, you should tell the management if the guy tries to hit on you. If he persists, run away or tell the cops. Hope this perv gets the hint.

Answer 7

Take it as a compliment. If you aren't interested, don't encourage him.Believe it or not, there are many 15 year olds who would love that attention.

Answer 8

If he looks; so what? You are looking at him; so what? It is a fact of life; when you are dead nobody will ever look at you again. Enjoy it while it lasts.

Answer 9

you need too just go over too the guy(have another person with you) and tell the pervert that you dont like him lookon at you, and that it bothers you, and you's appreciate it if he didnt look at you

Answer 10

creepy!!!
get a guy to go with you, dad, cousins, friends