Recently, my boyfriend has been telling me how much he loves me more than showing it. And you know what they say: "Actions speak louder than words"... but I don't think he really means a single word that comes out of his mouth.
Not only that, when I decided to do the first move by asking him out, he just replies to me like he doesn't even care, AND he can't exert enough effort to help me set it up.
It's like I'm the one who does everything, while he's there to go with the flow and enjoy the ride.
Every morning, he calls me up so early only to talk to me for a while, about 10 minutes, and still I have to remind him to say "I love you" before putting the phone down.
After that phone conversation, he only treats me like a classmate at school everyday and when girls are the subject of the conversation with the guys, he acts like some flirty a**hole who goes crazy when certain graphic terms are used.
It's blowing me up already!
2007-10-02 20:41:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes being stupid. i know its hard to even think about dumping him because although he treats u badly, you still like him. the only thing to do is tell him how u feel about how hes treating you. and make it serious. if he doesnt change after that. hes not worth your time and you should leave him.
2007-10-02 20:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres alot of fish in the sea!!!
no girl that is doing what you are doing to keep the relationship going deserves what he is doing to you. I hate guys that r a**holes like that. there are way better guys then him remember that and you deserve way better than how he is treating you and trust me you will find a great guy just give it time. so dont worry about him, forget about him. if he truely loves you he will realize what an a**hole he was and he will go back to you and if he doesnt go back to you forget about him. you are better off without him.
2007-10-03 03:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by hammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this idiot....he's only responding becuase he's getting attention from you.....there are alot of guys out there who will show you with actions AND words.....if he really was into you that much, he'd go out of his way to spend every minute with you he could, especially at school......he sould want to be there by your sidee and let everyone know you're his girl.....he sounds like he just doesn't really care.....
2007-10-03 03:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by #1 bossman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not get him to commit 100% with you. Now you have to move on and I know it is hurting. He needs to do more for you and it is mutual agreement. So I urge you learn to ignore him and give him space to find his own way. You never know he might wants to be back or you need to move on. I urge you to watch and see. Try to do nothing for a while.
2007-10-03 03:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you've already tried talking to him about how you feel about the things he does and there's no effect, i say dump his ***...he obviously doesn't deserve to be with you. why waste your time when you could be with someone who really cares and wants to be with you.
2007-10-03 03:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by wintersrayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a doormat and leave him. He's such a player.
2007-10-03 03:45:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.....dunp him! he obvisly don't care. he still young and probably loke to explore. but sereously DUMP THE CHUMP!
2007-10-03 03:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of the jerk and find you someone that will appreciate you.
2007-10-03 03:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy girl.. it doesnt sound all that bad to me.. he's just probably still immature.
2007-10-03 03:46:59 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not worth you.Try to avoid him.
2007-10-03 04:23:19 · answer #10 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋