Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

is it possible to fancy someone on the internet u've neva met. If u really like dem u could have like an on-line relationship rite????

2007-10-05 07:12:49 · 14 answers · asked by xxDanaxx 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this question and most of the answers put the girls of Hooters in the same category as Stripper. Is this true that a girl at Hooters could never be attracted to a guy that come in the bar. Wow if they are that shallow guess I will find a new place to have wings. Take a look at the question and weight in on what you think

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2007-10-05 07:12:07 · 9 answers · asked by purejc 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been seeing each other for 3 months. An instanst, deep connection. We can talk for hours and agree on all life's core values. We're physically and emotionally connected to each other. Here's the bad part...he's 43, was married 23 years, 3 kids. She cheated on him and left him to go "find herself". They've been separated for 1 1/2 years. But except for living under the same roof, she still treats him like her husband. She gets considerable financial support, she expects him to help her with everything (advice about her job, getting her tires changed, borrowing the lawnmower, using the camping stuff...) she is still totally in his life. He does it all because he's extermly laid back person and he try's to keep piece for the kids sake. Who are 22, 20 and 17. He's trying to get her to agree on a resonable settlement but she wants the moon. And since I've been in the picture she has threatened to come over and kick my ***. He wants me, but feels like he has to take care of her

2007-10-05 07:12:07 · 21 answers · asked by YingYang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm always doing stuff for her, like going to the store for her, massaging her neck so her migraine will go away, running errands for her, plus my chores! i have a full time job that sometimes extends past 5 in the afternoon (she gets mad when that happens and says that i should be home and that my boss isn't my parent), i'm 18, and i have a life! she never lets me go anywhere or do anything, and i feel under appreciated and the only reason i'm there is to do stuff for her! whenever i go to my bf's house, she gets mad and says that i need to be at home. she has told me numerous times that she can't wait until i move out, accused me of messing up my car (it overheated and died, water pump was bad, now i don't have a car and she won't let me get it fixed), called me a backstabbing b****, and says i'm lazy and worthless. is she taking advantage of my willingness to overlook how mean she is to me? i have friends who think she does this on purpose. please help!

2007-10-05 07:09:40 · 6 answers · asked by kabedayjones 2 in Family

My bf and I have been dating for 3 yrs. I am 18 and he is 20. We have never "done the deed" b/c we want to wait until marriage. He told me that he used to.......um.........well......... "solo" guy stuff but told me that he quit after I got mad at him for doing it. Anyways, should I be upset with him for doing it? Is it normal for guys to do it? Do you think he still does it? Do you know what i'm talking about?

And what if he admits that he has thought about other girls than me while doing it? (Like models and actresses and such) Is this normal also?

2007-10-05 07:09:18 · 48 answers · asked by frogprincess514 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has been sleep talking for a while now he has called many of my friends names and co workers. I am just so fed up with it. He says things like " I love you Sarah", "sit on me" etc....What should I do?

2007-10-05 07:09:15 · 24 answers · asked by Sonrisaloca 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my husband very much, but lately I've been feeling neglected in the bedroom. He doesn't seem too concerned and just brushes it off and I end up getting over it for the time being. It came up again last night and he got very angry and said "this is me and you married me so you need to grow up and get over it!"

Ok now does that sound fair?????? Aren't we supposed to go to each other with our feelings and concerns...I was so mad at him for saying that to me!

2007-10-05 07:07:14 · 29 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 07:06:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my bf we're going to a wedding.. Unfortunatelly, his ex wife will be there too. I cannot help feeling a LOT of jealousy, and keep thinking that I may not be able to feel good while I see her face there.. What do I do?

2007-10-05 07:04:02 · 10 answers · asked by ann3lizz 3 in Singles & Dating

I have married for 10 years and I am somewhat conservative meaning I am willing to try things, but I don't know any tricks to try. I know that my wife had a freaky past but I don't how to bring it out of her.

2007-10-05 07:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by tigga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for over 7 years and met in the state we are currently living in, my hometown. He hates it! I have to hear about 2 hours straight everyday on why he hates the state, the "minorities", the jobs, and why a meteor should completely wipe it and everyone who lives here off the face of the earth. Which I don't understand, here its not bad, I've seen bad! He is desperate to move to his birthplace (never lived there) in FL. He says everyone there is nice, courteous, waves, starts conversations. No allergies, no traffic, better paying jobs. I myself am a minority so he is looking forward to where there is more white people like him. Pretty much its Mayberry to him. We have a very troubled relationship and he is willing to go no matter what. I love being near my family, truly my only friends. I absolutely don't fly, so I'm scared I will never see them again. And if we do separate where will I live there? Anyone had these problems?

2007-10-05 07:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by A A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently heard a story of a woman who had fallen in love with her boss and just couldnt confront it even though they were both single. Finally when she was about 40 she decided to resign from her job to 'get a life' as she couldnt forget him seeing him every day. He asked her why she was leaving and she confessed to have fallen in love with him. He then proposed to her!! This is a true story! My question to men is, can you tell/ sense if a woman is in love with you?

2007-10-05 07:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a granny but I'm not so close to her.i live in Toronto while they are in Argentina. I'm also 20 studying at university. my dad hasn't called me in 2 years and my aunties ignore my emails and calls. i have 1 aunt and distant relative to talk to. any1 in a situation like me? I want to settle here in Canada, do you think tis a good idea? i have made a lot of friends here too!

2007-10-05 06:59:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

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2007-10-05 06:58:41 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and i have been expiramenting with different things lately and she suggested something that seems very strange and embarrassing.

we've started some domination and submissive games, where I am submissive. This is fun and I really like it.

She recently asked me if I would be up for "small penis humilation". i didn't know what that was, and she said that in our playing, she would mock and tease me based on my small size?

i was really embarrassed b/c i didn't know she thought i was so small!!

So, I think i'm up for it, but a little embarrassed. Should I try it?

2007-10-05 06:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I may be expecting, not sure yet but I suspect that I am. I told my husband that it will probably be too much for me to work if I am pregnant. He says that I need to still work even if I find out for sure that I'm pregnant.

Even without being pregnant my life is extremely stressful and I don't know if I could handle all that while pregnant. I work part time in retail, which means standing on my feet my entire shift, I go to school full time taking 4 classes, and I'm very serious about my religious practices which takes about 3 days of my week. Not to mention that I make sure just about all the bills are on time (rent, electric, phone,etc all in my name). Do you think he's expecting too much of me?? Is that too much for a pregnant woman to handle?

2007-10-05 06:54:40 · 23 answers · asked by Babycakes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend used to all ways tell me first hand what my guy was up to when i be at work how he was bomb staddes and turning me aginst people over him in the end it was her i should have been aginst any advisefor this situation

2007-10-05 06:53:31 · 6 answers · asked by another sass 2 in Friends

Why do I hate man,I think that men are crazy. Ive seen all bad men all my life. Men hitting their wifes or children..As a result,Ive become a lesbian. And Im attracted to other woman too.WHat do I hate men so much?

2007-10-05 06:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 06:52:33 · 17 answers · asked by GUNTZ 2 in Singles & Dating

hi everyonei am 13 years old and my boyfriend is gary

we love eachother but my mum and gran said he is far to old for me!!! i dont get this!!!

i am old enough to look after myself, they dont understand that they are breakin me away from my soul mate.

we have talked about sex and have agreeed to wait for a couple of weeks because i have only done it once before

i think this shows i can wait and my mum is annoying

2007-10-05 06:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by MICHELLElvsGARY 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I seperated over a year ago. Since then, he has moved another woman into the house and put her on the accounts. We also own a business but my name is not on it. I have no access to any paper work for it has been hidden from me. We have two children and I have no money. We recently tried to get back together. I lived in the same house with him for two weeks and we were intimate. He however, will not move his girlfriend out so I am leaving. He is dying of cancer. He is on stage 5 so I am not sure how much time is left. I don't want to be left with nothing but I don't know what to do. Do I have rights legally or will she get everything as stated in his will?

2007-10-05 06:51:43 · 9 answers · asked by myhoney1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent told her that i am very upset cos its her day. She is going to have my aunty and cousin as the matron of honour and the bridesmaid. She told me i had to wear a trouser suit. Im not sure what to do.

2007-10-05 06:47:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-10-05 06:43:13 · 11 answers · asked by x0_s0o_l0v3ly_0x 1 in Singles & Dating

We ve been knowing one another for a year now and we confessed our feelings to each other. We also agreed to postpone sex until after marriage ... now, he is all times telling me "I want you." "I love you" "I wanna have you" does this mean that he lost his resistance or somehow can't help it anymore? knowing that I love him equally but am keeping to what we agreed upon? Are men weaker in such points?

2007-10-05 06:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

The father of the baby and I wanted this baby so much and we planned it. Now, things have gotten bad and I've discovered his attitude is horrible plus he has a really bad temper. I am scared he will do something when he gets in his rage. My question is... When can I start asking for child support? Iam 1 month pregnant now. Thanks in advance

2007-10-05 06:40:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't personally know anyone who likes these guys with their grills, but someone has to, otherwise they would go away. I want to hear from the women that look at a guy with a grill and think it's sexy. Someone has to.

2007-10-05 06:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by Chris D 4 in Singles & Dating

been about 8 month since my girlfriend and i broke up. thought i was over her but latley thinking alot about her and makes me very sad. should i let her know this, or keep it to myself. i just recently got an email from her stating she is still heart broken. i don't think it would ever work out but i do love and miss her. opinions, similar situations ??

2007-10-05 06:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by dannyboy 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night our friends invited us to a birthday party for their seven year old son, that was being held at a pizza/video arcade. He brought a girl his age along with him, whose parents my wife and I have never met.

While playing pool, I had noticed that someone had left a trinket girls ring on the table, and they never came back to claim it. Since I did not know the girl, or her parents, who was with us, I called the father aside, handed him the ring, and told him why I thought it would be best that the gift come from either his son or he and his wife. Without hesitation he said, "No that's O.K., you give it to her." and called her over, against my pleas. He then told the girl I had a present for her, and, even though I felt extremely uneasy about it, I handed her the ring.

We got into a big argument afterwards. They think we overreacted, we feel you can never be to careful when it comes to children. Parents, I would really like your opinion about this issue.

2007-10-05 06:34:07 · 11 answers · asked by rhino 6 in Family

is it more or less expensive to get a modification done? How much would it cost exactly? I'm on a limited income here and I'm not getting any support from the child's father.

2007-10-05 06:33:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend has had very bad relationships in the past. She was taken advantage of and had been raped. Now she always tells me that she doesn't like sex and doesn't want it. I love her a lot and I'm going to marry her in a year. Anyway I've tried everything to make her enjoy sex .... but she still can't seem to get into it. What should I do? Should I wait it out ? Or should I apply more pressure on her? (This is my friends' profile I'm just using it so I can find an answer)

2007-10-05 06:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating