my wife and i have been expiramenting with different things lately and she suggested something that seems very strange and embarrassing.
we've started some domination and submissive games, where I am submissive. This is fun and I really like it.
She recently asked me if I would be up for "small penis humilation". i didn't know what that was, and she said that in our playing, she would mock and tease me based on my small size?
i was really embarrassed b/c i didn't know she thought i was so small!!
So, I think i'm up for it, but a little embarrassed. Should I try it?
2007-10-05 06:55:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its all fun and games until someone gets hurt.
I don't have many limits, but humiliation is one of them.
2007-10-05 07:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hell no! why should you submit to such humiliation so she can get off! I'm basically very submissive in the bedroom but some lines aren't meant to crossed. you should only do what you feel comfortable doing. embarrassment isn't loving, it's degrading. if you feel OK with her having some control that's fine, as long as it doesn't make you feel less of a person.
2007-10-05 14:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by paula t. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not into the games (I think) but I understand humilation is part of it. If it isn't comfortable Ito both partners, I don't think it could add a lot to the relationship -- how would I know ?
2007-10-05 14:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would SHE be up for some humiliation games? Probably not is my guess. I say you should tell her you'd rather play some games based on a theme, costume, etc. that's just down right mean! =/
2007-10-05 14:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by tracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small penis humiliation- seems silly to me. I am on board with the games in the bedroom provided they don't get out of hand and no one gets hurt.
2007-10-05 14:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She probably doesn't think that, but if you want to play dominatrix and humiliation, she has to be hurtful... I guess.
Sounds like you should discuss the rules of your new games before ending hurting each other and ruining your relationship.
2007-10-05 14:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her ..tell her how you feel..if it feels embarassing. These kind of games should be fun and comfortable not axiety provoking. I'm sure she'll work with you in the "style" she would take on what she says, how she says it, etc
2007-10-05 14:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be fun to try new things if you love your wife you can pratice a lot of new adventures it can be fun and worth your wild.
2007-10-05 14:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't mean she actually thinks it's small, it's just part of the roleplay.
2007-10-05 14:02:01 · answer #9 · answered by meagain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this game will only depend on how comfortable you are with you body.
2007-10-05 14:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Y ask ME! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋