Why do I hate man,I think that men are crazy. Ive seen all bad men all my life. Men hitting their wifes or children..As a result,Ive become a lesbian. And Im attracted to other woman too.WHat do I hate men so much?
2007-10-05 06:53:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you like women because you hate men or do you hate men so you can like women? It seems to me that your past experiences with men have convinced you that you like women as oppose to men, and that may be the another problem all in it's self. I think you should give men another chance, they are not all bad, and there's nothing that can please a woman like a man can.
2007-10-05 07:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate is such a strong word. Why hate almost half of the population? There ARE men who don't hit or abuse their wives and children. Yes, there are a few who are abusive, but not all men should have to pay for their indiscretions. Also, some women may not be physically abusive but emotionally and verbally abusive. Basically, it is the person NOT their sex that determines if they are a decent person or not.
Also, being a lesbian should have nothing to do with how you feel about men. If the only reason why you are a lesbian is because you hate men..that is not the right reason. Maybe you are sexually attracted to men but just think that all men are scum. Only you know your orientation.
2007-10-05 07:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mav17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that is an easier route for you, to say you hate men, which subconciously justifies why you like women. This may be an excuse for you so you feel ok about your decision. If you are lesbien, then that's what you are, it is not a result of hating men, it is a result of your personal preference. Nothing wrong with that, or your preference. Not all men are the same, there are just as many women abusing someone. Maybe you have been hurt yourself. Not sure, but I do know, that not all men are abusers or crazy. There are many good men out there.
2007-10-05 07:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't observed redeeming qualities in the men you've been around throughout you young lifetime. Some of this is luck of the draw, and the result of a bad environment for seeing positive male role modeling, but then some of this is also likely the result of poor choices in peers on your part. What do I mean? I mean, I live in a pretty rough area, but even taking that into consideration I STILL occasionally see some decent, honorable people from time to time. But if I didn't see any at all EVER, I must be hanging out somewhere where decent people don't want to be. So in that regard, if that's what you're doing, it's partly on you. I wasn't aware you could change your sexual orientation because of a visceral response to the opposite sex, but if that is truly your reality now, seek to be happy and at peace with whatever path you walk in life. *NOTE: Hating anyone will keep you further from realizing that goal. Good luck to you.
2007-10-05 07:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of lesbians have turned that way because they have come from an unhealty home life or marriage. But lesbianism is not the answer, and it will not solve your problems.
Men are not evil. Remember, we are all human, and unfortunately, there *are* some bad ones out there. But that does not mean all men are evil.
I've had some rough experiences, as well, but I've worked through them. I was in a verbally abusive relationship for almost three years, and was very stupid to stay in it for as long as I did.
Once I got out, and gave myself some time, I was very fortunate to find the love of my life. He is the sweetest, most tender-hearted guy, and he treats me very well.
They do exist! I promise! :)
2007-10-05 07:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by ellenoid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get past the tramatic experiences. Not all men are bad. As a child you told yourself they were and now it's defining your life. If you like girls fine, I do to sometimes, but if you are lesbian because you are a man-hater, you have a problem.
2007-10-05 06:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because of all your traumatic experiences, you haven't been able to give men a chance, and therefore, you assume that makes you a lesbian.... Give men another chance, and you'll find there are some good guys out there.
2007-10-05 07:46:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dislike the male gender because of what i saw in my mothers marriage. also dislike the guys online who have a GF or Wife that go to chat rooms because I ben hit on by them so many times.
2007-10-05 06:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you hate men so much then why does your avatar show a guy and not a girl?
2007-10-05 08:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by surfagirl 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You probably haven't met a nice one yet.
2007-10-05 06:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by The Red One 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋