Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

i put her thin strap tops in the same drawer as her tank tops and she called me stupid for doing it, but i also stay home with our 3 kids (since birth ), do the cleaning, kids laundry, cooking, shopping, and school stuff, plus i pay the bills because i was able to retire at an early age, she goes out with her friends while i stay at home with the boys,, should i have stopped doing her laundry

2007-10-05 06:29:01 · 14 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 06:29:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

when my hubby & her were together they had a son.

she & her current hubby make a considerable amt of money.
she stated she's gonna take me to court & come after me for money to look after her son. i'm on maternity leave. wouldn't the courts look at her hubby's financials before mine?

whenever she is mad she freaks at every little thing we do but now she's targeting me. she's pure evil. when she hears we're going through rough times she attacks us financially. we just get by.

trying not to freak out about this. help! advice. comfort.

2007-10-05 06:21:32 · 23 answers · asked by Solicia 5 in Marriage & Divorce

please tell my its not wrong if your in love with the man and he loves you right.

2007-10-05 06:21:21 · 22 answers · asked by travis marsh's angel 4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

My answer is when a man cries i fill that they are human and they have a strong pride about themself to show that they are human and have a softer side to them.. It has nothing to do with them being weak at all... What do you think ladies and the men's can answer to...

2007-10-05 06:18:56 · 14 answers · asked by BETTYBOOBOO 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband confronted an associate about making me feel uncomfortable (flirting). He says he didn't know he was making me feel like that, and acted like he was grateful my husband brought it to his attention and that his wife knows about his nature. The flirting has stopped, but, he keeps staring from a distance. Yesterday, he walked to the door to watch my husband and I walk away together. What is this??? Is he perverted? Should I be concerned?

2007-10-05 06:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend only comments on women's butts and breasts. He doesn't comment on any other thing arould us, not a sunset, not an unusual paint job on a car, not a guy with a giant gut hanging out from under his shirt, not a woman's hair, face, arms, legs (unless her skirt or shorts are VERY short), not her stomach, her back, her feet. Nothing else around us is worth mentioning except boobs hanging out or see-through clothing. We saw a 400# woman at the Renaissance Festival with no less than 12 individual rolls of fat on her back and stomach, and he didn't even seem to notice she was standing there. We saw a guy swallowing swords and fire! Didn't hold his gaze for one instant. But then we saw an average looking girl with a slightly see-through skirt on and and he comments on it! The world could be exploding around us and he would miss it unless the blast blew open a woman's shirt! What's the deal??? Sorry, that was a long rant. Thanks for reading :)

2007-10-05 06:14:28 · 27 answers · asked by The Naughty Librarian 5 in Singles & Dating

everyone says it's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean...

i'm really "tiny" down below and I am wondering if there is a size where it is just too small?

embarrassed and curiuos.

please let me know what you think.

2007-10-05 06:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by i_smith_2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who has a husband and they have three children. She is a stay at home mom because her husband doesn't want her to work. He has told her that he expects three fully prepared meals a day and that the family has to sit down together to these meals. He says because he is the breadwinner that this is the way it is going to be!
I asked her if she can't just ask him for a time when they could just go out to eat and she said that he doesn't like eating out. She is miserable because she would like a break from this routine. Any suggestions or advise would be gladly welcomed and I could pass it on. Thanks!

2007-10-05 06:08:23 · 25 answers · asked by December Princess 4 in Marriage & Divorce

He tells me she will always come first. He enables her drug use and when he buys me anything he has to spend the same amount of money on her or she will go nuts.

2007-10-05 06:08:05 · 12 answers · asked by V 2 in Singles & Dating

My Fiance of 3 years split up with me in June stating that she needed to find herself. It was an EXTREMELY DEPRESSING summer for me. I miss her everyday. Two weeks ago, I signed up on Match.com and the response has been astounding, I now have 8 girls that I will be going out with. But I am scared, why is dating so hard after a long term relationship, breaks up?

2007-10-05 06:05:37 · 19 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you date one?

2007-10-05 06:05:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said he still want to be apart of their life. I don't understand, so what is the prupose of him giving up his rights? what does it conclude? Any father's out there who have giving up rights to their child please explain this one to me.

2007-10-05 06:04:35 · 17 answers · asked by redbone_lds 5 in Family

i need a job my family is under alot of stress and i neeed to help my mom with her money situatioin

2007-10-05 06:02:52 · 5 answers · asked by brittani b 1 in Family

Help me out, let my know what you think. If your a male and you lie a lot let me know and if your a female and you lie a lot let me know.

2007-10-05 06:02:39 · 18 answers · asked by Flip D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so excited I will be a MOM! However, I feel my family will not be so excited for me. My mother mentioned to me how she felt about her other grandchild. She told me since she only sees her once a month she does not feel close to her at all. She knows I have been going to a fertility clinic and that I am living overseas. It really hurt me. Also, my other family members almost did not include us in her surprise birthday party until the very end. They never told us how it turned out. Nothing! They make comments about our living here being a 'vacation'. They have never called once since I have moved here 6 months ago. However, my mother and one brother has written me a few times. My husband has mentioned to me they seem very selfish and want me to do for them only. He told me I need to move on since they will never be 'happy' for me. I feel very sad that I can't share my life ups and downs with my family.

2007-10-05 05:56:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My parents have been divorced for 20 years. My mother still talks about how much she hates my dad and will be glad when he dies. My dad doesn't even mention my mother. If I talk about my dad to my mum, she freaks out and calls me selfish and says I don't respect her. So...
My grandfather (mum's dad) passed away last Wednesday. My grandmother (father's mum) passed away on Tuesday. I was close to both of them, and this has been extremely difficult to deal with.
Last night I called my mother crying about missing my grandmother. She got irritated and said I was not to mention my grandmother in front of her out of respect. I understand she hates my father, but why can't I mourn my grandmother's and grandfather's deaths together. I was told I can only mourn my grandfather in front of her. When I started crying, she told me I need to "get a grip." I am so hurt. This is supposed to be my mother. She's never really been supportive, but this is ridiculous. Is this right?

2007-10-05 05:54:39 · 26 answers · asked by WinstonPug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

And are you still in love with the same person?

2007-10-05 05:51:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. For reasons science has not yet deduced, their hugs just work better.
2. Yes, they show off... but it's all to impress you.
3. They're not nearly as harsh with the criticizing girls' bodies as girls are on themselves and each other.
4. Without them, would we have the word "gnarly"? It's doubtful.
5. When they see "Boys suck" T-shirts and message board threads, it breaks their tender boy hearts.
6. Have you ever watched a boy watching a girl rummage through her purse? That wide-eyed, mystified look they get?
7. You can borrow their hoodies that smell like boy + dryer sheets.
8. If there's some pain in the *** thing to carry or open or fix or reach, they'll do it... eagerly, even, because it gives them a chance to flex their Boyness.
9. They make great bases for pyramids, chicken fights, and piggy-back rides.
10. Because you know how people say "Treat me like gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe once, shame on you; treat me like gum stuck to the bottom of your shoe twice, shame on me"? You can't complain about how much all boys suck because of how one or two specific boys treated you unless you TOLD them about how wrong they were. The reason he was probably such a jackhole to you in the first place was that he got away with it with ten other girls who never set him straight -- or he's retaliating against some girl who treated him like dirt. They have brains and they learn.
11. Uh, Johnny Depp?
12. They believe you when you tell them how you feel, even after you hurt them by not believing them when they're upset about something.
13. Holding it against them that society taught them not to discuss their feelings is just as lame as holding it against a girl if she cries at inconvenient times. If you give them a safe way to express their emotions -- a way that they know they won't get yelled at or beat up -- they usually will.
14. The part where their hair ends at the nape of their neck, when it's cut short, feels like puppy dog.
15. At the end of the day, alls they really want is for someone to comment on their blog. Just like you.
16. Girls lie plenty, too, hon.

2007-10-05 05:38:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On what basis girls will love mens?womens will love handsome men or rich person or good character person?

2007-10-05 05:32:31 · 2 answers · asked by balaji k 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 05:31:07 · 2 answers · asked by i love to help people 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 05:28:39 · 1 answers · asked by amfe1983 2 in Singles & Dating

I think there is, loving someone is when you want the best for them and you care for them...for example if my best friend did drugs, I would try to help her b/c I love her.

But being IN love w/ someone is when you can't see yourself w/ anyone else, they are the first thing you think about when you get up and the last thing you think about when you go to bed...and you can't stand not being in their presence, you have to be near them, you like to feel the warmth of their skin touching yours, you can feel comfortabel around them at all times, you can cry in front of them, you can trust them w/ all your heart and more. And all that in general...

but do you have a different interpretation or do you even think there is a difference?

2007-10-05 05:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but he is the sweetest guy I have ever met......will I ever fall in love with him.......is it possible?

2007-10-05 05:16:23 · 202 answers · asked by Shania A 1 in Singles & Dating

He can't drive and is like a prisoner in his house. His wife wants to divorce him. Where can he find refuge?

2007-10-05 05:13:06 · 15 answers · asked by misty85881 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should it always be one's on way of things? Are do we let it go.

2007-10-05 05:10:25 · 14 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a technician in the eye dorctor's office and I have a crush on this patient! help please!!?
I saw him today and he tried on glasses in the office ... he let me choose his frames and he thanked me then he waited for me to take care of his bill and then he left. I really think he is cute but i have no idea how to get in touch with him...the day he might come back i probably won't be there...i need to know what to do? i dont know if it's right to take the phone number of his record and call him or text....let me know please what should i do....thanks

2007-10-05 05:04:09 · 1 answers · asked by hazeleyes 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband I and I have been together for almost 8 years. We have two young children and a pretty good relationship. We have a messenger account that he has been using and a few months ago I added the history feature to it because I had a funny feeling ( he cheated on me when we first started dating). Yesterday morning I checked the history and to my horror, I found some crazy things. There was a detailed chat of him trying to meet up with another couple and there was one that said " my wife is away and I am looking for someone to come over" ( I went away for two days for work). I of course confromted him and he insists that he did no go through with anything and did not cheat. I know if one of my friends told me this I would tell them to kick him out, but I don't know what to do. He said he didn't cheat, but if I didn't catch him, how far would this have gone? I feel betrayed and angry, but I don't want my kids to go through a divorce. Should I end it?

2007-10-05 04:57:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was looking at some pictures of one of my daughter's friend's 16th Birthday party on Facebook. She has a big party with about 100 people.

My ex-husband and I knew her parents and used to meet them at social outings. I also went to see my daughter's friend when she was born.

I wonder sometimes why things seem to work out for them - good kids, house, jobs and intact family. Yet, my life is so messed up - marriage did not work, child is not doing so well in school, career is not where it should be, no social life, etc.

I am happy that this family has a good life and things worked out for them. Yet, I look at my life and wonder where I went wrong. I could not adjust to my ex-husband and left him so many times. He was and still is abusive, controlling and manipulative.

Life is strange......I guess you have to make the best of each day.

Why is it that some people have a smoother life than others?

2007-10-05 04:55:12 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Friends

ok thanks so much for readind my question but yesterday somthing really bad happend in i really bad moment yesterday me my mom and sisters went to sears my mom was in a hurry and she grabed he purs that had all the imprtant stuff in it the keys for the house the safe and her important papers like green card and passport it also had 300 hundred dollers and gold worth 2 thousand in it ok so heres what happend we were shopping and my mom put her pures on the rack and some mexican lady about 30 years old with a baby and a teenage daghter came and took it and ran off with it we keept on telling the sears clirk to help us but she wouldnt so she finaly called the store secrity and it was to late she had already leaft the drive way so the secerity went in the room for the camras and he saw the whole thing on tape but would show or give it to us so we have to call the police to come and see the tape to see if they could identfy her face so they said they cant do any

2007-10-05 04:51:03 · 12 answers · asked by mommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce