please tell my its not wrong if your in love with the man and he loves you right.
2007-10-05 06:21:21 · 22 answers · asked by travis marsh's angel 4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah **** your friends!!!!!!!
2007-10-05 06:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe there is a reason why none of your friends like him. Maybe you should think about what they are saying. Love can be blind at times. No one liked my mother's boyfriend and now I can see why. If you have truly thought about it long and hard and cannot really find a reason why you should not be in love with this guy then your friends opinions should not matter. But first really hear them out and give them the benefit of the doubt.
2007-10-05 06:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are two schools of thought on the subject: (1) Your friends' opinions may have some validity because they are not seeing him through rose-colored glasses like you may be doing right now. (2) On the other hand, your friends don't have to like him; what is most significant is how you both feel about each other (especially relevant if you know some of your friends tend to be a bit shallow at times). So as you're weighing this type of stuff out, ask yourself how "on target" are your friends likely to be (in their assessments of most things in general), and what type of group are you all most of the time? (If it's the "ultra-conforming cheerleader mentality" that's prevalent among you, you may do well to ignore much of what they have to say. But,if your peer group is reasonably grounded and down to earth in terms of tolerance and acceptance of people, maybe their opinions have a good deal more merit than you can see right now.)
2007-10-05 06:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about is it right because of your friends not liking him. It's about does it feel right for you? Do they have a good reason for not liking him? I would ask them and see what they said. If they are your friends, and more than one can see the same as the others, then I would start paying closer attention to how he acts. It took me about 2 months to see how my guy can really be,which was not that bad to me because we are still together, but family could see something that I could not because of how I feel about him. We sometimes see it and know but want to ignore it. Well, I found out that is not the way to handle it, because ignoring things do not make them go away.So, ask all that you know that does not like him and listen very carefully, and good luck.
2007-10-05 07:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by starchild4485 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like (or love) whom you like or love...it doesn't matter if your friends feel the same. However if they know this person better, at least listen to their views on why they don't think he's right for you, because they can be more objective.
2007-10-05 06:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do your friends not like him? They obviously are seeing some (bad) quality that you are not. You might want to step back a couple of feet and re-evaluate this guy. Either ALL your friends are wrong or maybe you are.
2007-10-05 06:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an important thing that you both love each other that's a good thing but i t is not good to put your bf in front of your friends try to keep ur friends and keep ur bf and hope it workes out.
Good Luck
2007-10-05 06:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he loves you back the same way, dump your friends. If they are really your friends they should also want your happiness, who knows maybe they like him too but he chose you.
2007-10-05 06:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you're right. it is right to be in love with someone your friends don't like. who cares what anybody else think. do whatever makes you happy. why do they not like him anyway? if they have good reasons, then just take into consideration what they say and be aware and cautious.. but if it's over something silly and stupid, then don't mind them.
2007-10-05 06:29:58 · answer #9 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some thought about what your friends are saying. Why are they saying this? Perhaps jealousy? Perhaps they see something you don't? Just think about it...but don't let it make your decision.
If you love him & feel that he is returning all that & more go ahead, be happy ....u deserve it!
2007-10-05 06:38:52 · answer #10 · answered by myth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to step back and hear what they are saying. Are they jealous or are they looking out for your best interest.
Some girls get involved with older men and men who have children with other women. These are not good situations.
2007-10-05 06:25:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋