He said he still want to be apart of their life. I don't understand, so what is the prupose of him giving up his rights? what does it conclude? Any father's out there who have giving up rights to their child please explain this one to me.
2007-10-05 06:04:35 · 17 answers · asked by redbone_lds 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
In Minnesota he will still have to pay for child support so it's not about child support I know for a fact.
2007-10-05 06:14:02 · update #1
The person giving up parental rights is Giving Up All Rights To The Child: Custody, Visitation and Support.
In other words, the parent giving up his/her rights to the child becomes "anonymous to the child", as if that person never existed. That person cannot see, contact, and nothing whatsoever that has to do with the rearing and supporting of the child. As if the mother Never wrote the name of the father in the birth certificate and became a single mother; or as if the mother Never existed and the father became a single parent and supporter to the child.
This process is simple and can be done at an attorney office.
-(Please, do please think very well about this. You do not want your child suffer because a father doesn't want to pay child support. Be sure your child is secured and that all needs are met; the child doesn't have any fault in all of this.
My heart is with you and I wish you my very best.)-
2007-10-05 06:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What he is saying contradicts himself. If you give up your parental rights, that is a very final way of saying that you don't want any responsibility to his children. Unless he is dying, going to jail for a long time, is a drug addict, mentally ill etc., I can't imagine why any parent would make sure a decision except...,
He may think that if he gives up his parental rights that he won't have to pay any child support or be required to do anything he doesn't want to do. Either way it is despicable!
I'd make it very clear to him that if he does this, he is out of their lives for good. No going back. No getting his cake and eating it too.
If you can prove he is only doing it to get out of paying child support or having any responsibility, you can contest it. Think carefully though, if he is that kind of man do you really want anything from him and do you really want him to have anything to do with your kids?
2007-10-05 06:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can`t give up his parental rights without an adoption agreement....Stupid guy doesn`t want to pay his monthly support...You have to have another man ready to take on the father role, ( finacial assistance) to the child. That`s if you are on goverment assistance. But be sure you want this you child`s father will remain a ghost to your child for the rest of his or her life...BUT before any man gives up his rights he must have someone else that is willing to take on the father role, ( if he wants out of child support)..
2007-10-05 07:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by lost2day 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He thinks that if he gives up his parental rights that he won't have to pay child support but the law will not allow him to do this unless another man wants to adopt your children. He is financially responsible for them until you remarry and your husband wants to adopt your children. My daughter's father tried to pull the same stunt, he actually took me to a notary public to get it "legal"! Of course, it's not but he thinks it is and until I am ready to deal with him and child support hearings, I have peace. I'm sorry to hear that your ex is a deadbeat, it's ashame that men come to think up this way of copping out!
2007-10-05 06:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically he is saying that he does not want to pay child support. I have bad news for him. Giving up your parental rights does not relieve you of parental responsibility.
He needs to be aware of this before he does something that everyone, especially the children will regret.
2007-10-05 06:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
regrettably mum and dad are allowed to provide up their rights as mum and dad (Adoption). however,you are able to hold him to courtroom for the youngster help he owes you. i recommend which you try this ASAP formerly he tries to "sign over his parental rights". Seeing how he has been in his childs existence for 9 years, he has a vulnerable case, and you are able to prepare and efficiently prepare that he in basic terms needs to desert his rights b/c he does not desire to pay toddler help considering the fact which you 2 these days chop up. i don't understand CA relatives regulation too nicely, yet what i understand is the 1st guy or woman to document a declare continually has the convenience for countless motives, so i recommend you get a lawyer now. in case you are able to't have sufficient money a lawyer, there are a number of professional bono agencies in CA which will furnish criminal centers for single mothers. And to respond to your 2nd question, as quickly as he indications over his rights, he does not have an actual to bypass to the youngster EVER lower back. solid success, I want you the excellent.
2016-10-21 03:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by coiscou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an idiot! He can't give them up or a judge will be on his sorry butt! Child abandonment is taken very seriously in this country. Unless someone adopts your children, that jerk will have to continue to help support them until they are 18 years old.
2007-10-05 06:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you receiving child support?
Giving up parental rights removes him from their life completely. It could also mean all responsibilities concerning money.
I would check it out.
2007-10-05 06:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sandie B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can just give up the rights i knew a dead beat &*^% that did it 4 times. It was in Florida and you know how lax they are. Usualy it's because he's so f**ed up the kids are better off. I would rather not get into a full rant about this so i'll just let it go now.
2007-10-05 06:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though he doesn't want to be held legally or financially resposible for them, but still wants to enjoy them. I honestly would ask him what is his reasoning for it, to find out for sure what he thinks is going to happen. But I personally would not allow this. And most courts probably won't either if he is planning on still having contact with the children. They are going to see it the same way I do, just to get out of paying for them. Good Luck.
2007-10-05 06:08:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋