Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

2007-10-05 04:48:44 · 6 answers · asked by super_paul 1 in Singles & Dating

To Make a long story short, I have been married to this guy for 2 1/2 years now. He is in the military and most of our relationship had been long distance. I was head over heels in love with him til the day I found out he cheated on me while being stationed overseas. It about tore me to pieces. He admitted it and we are trying to work it out. We knew it wasnt easy but we were gonna try.come to the crazy part.
I have had this friend that I used to talk to a lot before I got married. We talked online a lot before but then I hooked up with my hubby and he got married. We lost touch for awhile and now he is back in my life. we started talking again since he and his wife are having problems, he's also in the military.
Our talks have been getting intense and now he and I have developed feelings for each other.we have an understanding that we should work on our relationship til we do something about our feelings. I feel like the more I talk to him, I get attach even more.

2007-10-05 04:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you service with a smaile....would you at least be nice to her. I recently left my bf cause he was an *** to me and I was just wondering why he would act like that. I was the best woman ever to him, and he acted like that to me.

2007-10-05 04:40:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 04:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok tell me what u like in a girl.....honestly

2007-10-05 04:36:12 · 23 answers · asked by SimplySweet 2 in Singles & Dating

and what was the roll and what did it lead to i mean sex of corse but any thing that stands out in your mind. And would a blue color worker roll turn you on?

2007-10-05 04:35:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately and were working things out but now all of a sudden he wants to go to strip clubs and out dancing but he never takes me out or does anything with me. He doesnt even buy me a birthday card. Im upset because we have had plans to go to the movies tomorrow night and he is going clubbing with his friends instead. I dont want him dancing with other girls he dont dance with me. I dont even want him to go cuz i know hell be out dancing with other girls and hell be all over the girls. What am i suppose to be thinking while hes out partying with other bitches.

2007-10-05 04:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by C'Vale Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 04:27:38 · 49 answers · asked by Alison 5 in Marriage & Divorce

In what way do you think of women??? Do you just want sex from them or are you looking for love and properrelationships not one night stands???????

2007-10-05 04:27:36 · 15 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3 in Singles & Dating

...I'm in a relationship with a guy for almost two months...he is very respectful guy...

still it is a formal relationship...and it is becoming a little boring....

he decided that no sex before marriage...ok that is fine with me...but since we decided not to have sex...we don't kiss , don't hug...and every night he brings me home at 12 strictly.

I told him that I don't mind if we are staying late and it doesn't have to be strict...he said no problem cos he don't sleep until 2 a clock...

Ok I was glad we did this converstation...but , things haven't changed. still before 12 we go home we never kiss or hug...and both are grown up....

according to what I've said...what seems to be the problem...I can feel something is wrong...why he doesn't want to share intimacy...? is there any guy who doesn't want sex...?

2007-10-05 04:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a manager in a large office. I manage a team of 15 people, one of which is a 24 yr old notorious ladies man. He accidentally sent a member of my staff an email saying "ok bye baby!!" It seems that he was sending this as part of an email conversation but replied to the wrong person. This means he is most probably secretly dating someone in the office. Inter department dating is not allowed as we've have problems in the past. I need to find out who that email was to be sent to, but don't feel I should ask him, as he can be a fantastic liar and very defensive. A supervisor in our team thinks it is someone in our team rather than outside the team but she doesn't know why she thinks this. What do you think?
How do I solve this?

2007-10-05 04:24:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 04:22:46 · 12 answers · asked by R.C.P. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If your husband had lunch with an old high school (female) classmate and you found out from your neighbors because they just happen to be at the same restaurant would you be upset and think he was having an affair??????? If you were the neighbors would you think badly of him????

2007-10-05 04:21:02 · 39 answers · asked by Cookie48 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's my dads birthday and i wanna get him something nice around £50 but up to £75. hes not into sports or anything but he does like his gadgets, was going to get him a digital camera but my bro says hes already got one...

what should i get him?

2007-10-05 04:18:24 · 8 answers · asked by Gina M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

now i take my vows seriously and could never cheat on my husband, but this man i have met gets me he seems to be more my match than my husband, but i love my husband, just not sure i am in love with him. what would you do in this situation?

2007-10-05 04:15:48 · 30 answers · asked by yayasmamma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has custody of our daughter he has had her since she was 6. The mom is in and out of the picture when it is convient for her. when she is around she pumps our daughters head up with all these things she is going to do for her and then never comes through with the promises and we are left to deal with the attitudes, or being withdrawn or just emotional from being let down. we do not want to just go on a mom bashing sessions...because that is her mom and she should love her and her flaws...you only get one mother, but what can we do to help her understand her moms situation without it appearing to be a bashing session and how can we go about telling her mother she is wrong and the effects it has on our daughter when she does that...please help!

2007-10-05 04:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Sunshine 1 in Family

what does it mean in your own words

2007-10-05 04:14:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Who do you think should get custody of these kids?

2007-10-05 04:13:58 · 21 answers · asked by Moises 3 in Family

My husband and I have some communication issues which only have been exacerbated by the arrival of my mother in law to help our with our one year old. He passively-aggressively complains about me to her and last night she personally attacked/criticized me. Things have gotten to a point where I just want to be divorced and them both out of my life for good. What should I do?

2007-10-05 04:12:48 · 14 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok look while watching a sex flick with my boyfriend (currently ex) i really seemed to get sexually aroused when the part with the two lesbians came on i mean i never had feelings for a girl and im not gay (i love men) but that just shocked me...so does this make me gay, bi-curious, a lesbian..? help im really confused!

2007-10-05 04:09:52 · 17 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1 in Singles & Dating

I hooked up with a girl from an internet dating site. When we met I saw that she's missing a finger. She never told me about it before we met. She never mentioned it on our date, but it's all I could think about. Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with loosing a finger, but why didn't she talk about it? You'd think she should explain something like that! She's really nice and she's cute and I think she'd make a great wife some day, but I'm a little spooked about the finger thing. Should I ask her out again? I feel weird about asking, but maybe I should just call her and explain why I couldn't stop staring at her hand?

2007-10-05 04:09:00 · 30 answers · asked by I Luv NY 2 in Singles & Dating

He stood me up, and seeing that it was not the first time it happened, I texted him saying it was over between us. Now I am very sad. How can I cheer up, at least a little?

2007-10-05 04:08:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok..So my mom has custody of me and my sister and brother and my brother goes to a free public school and my sister shes 17 goes to a Christian private school theres a big cost to go there and i am 15 and go to the public school too but i hate it with a passion and really want to leave and go to the Christian public school and my mom said i can and she has the custody of us..and my mom and dad split the cost of the tution right fair well for me to get enrolled in this school it cost like $500 up front for them to provide me with books and crap..well my mom said she cant pay that because she doesnt have the money she doesnt make enough money and not enough child support..and my dad makes more money than she does can she force him to pay the $500 up front?

2007-10-05 04:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay,so i'm 6 months pregnant happily married for almost a month. Life is going great! Then last night at 1:30 in the morning my husbands cell starts ringing insanely. I'm half asleep but go ahead to check the number. It doesn't look familiar but something tells me to call it back. I sneak out of our room and call it. A girl answers and I know the voice emmidiately. It's my husbands ex g/f from like 3 years ago! I ask her what she needs and she tells me I have no business calling her back,what she called for is between her & him. I tell her, he is my husband and I have every right to know what she wants. Then she proceedes to tell me that he calls her all the time (which I KNOW isn't true!) and would probably be back with her if I wasn't pregnant(also not true,everyone knows he thinks shes NUTS and cannot stand her!) I tell my husband toTAKE CARE OF IT! He calls her back talks for less the 2 minutes and says it's Taken care of! Do I have a right to be totally mad! God knows I am!!!!

2007-10-05 04:06:44 · 32 answers · asked by Just Call Me Jenn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 04:04:28 · 28 answers · asked by Karl M 1 in Singles & Dating

Eventhough I have a girlfriend. Why do I enjoy it so
much and what do you think is wrong with me?
How can I stop myself from doing it? What should
I do? My girlfriend doesn't know that I'm sneaking.

2007-10-05 04:02:28 · 8 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex dumped me 7 months ago and we haven't really talked since (a few times on msn, that's it). i kinda want to befriend him now. is it appropriate for me to call him up and arrange a meeting (coffee or something?)

2007-10-05 04:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend spends alot of time in chats and has a long list of contacts, all women. He tells them things like "I like you very much" and always talks to them when he signs in. He gets annoyed if I come over to see what he's writing. He keeps saying he's not doing anything wrong and these women are in far away countries, but they obviously create a certain infactuation towards him. He often invites them out to dinner whenever they should come to our town and he says things like: I think you're a wonderful woman,etc..For me he is seducing them on line but he says they're just friends and there is nothing wrong. Then why won't he let me read what they say? Also some contacts he has had for over 5 months with a quite a high frequency of contact. Am I just paranoid is this all normal? I have spoken to other couples where they both read each others chats openly and they said it's right for me to feel hurt. thanks for your opinions.

2007-10-05 03:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes I think they say those things without meaning it.

2007-10-05 03:56:27 · 27 answers · asked by ki-ki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy I'm dating has a huge fear of vomit, which is understandable. But he said its so bad that in the future when he has a wife and kids, and theyre sick, he has to leave the house to not deal with it. Um what the hell...I could understand that vomit is gross, but NO WOMEN WANTS TO HEAR THAT WHEN HER OR HER KIDS ARE SICK HER HUSBAND WILL LEAVE THE HOUSE. Is he just trying to annoy me and turn me off or is he really that stupid and selfish?

2007-10-05 03:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by shanamoakler 3 in Marriage & Divorce