My boyfriend and I have been arguing lately and were working things out but now all of a sudden he wants to go to strip clubs and out dancing but he never takes me out or does anything with me. He doesnt even buy me a birthday card. Im upset because we have had plans to go to the movies tomorrow night and he is going clubbing with his friends instead. I dont want him dancing with other girls he dont dance with me. I dont even want him to go cuz i know hell be out dancing with other girls and hell be all over the girls. What am i suppose to be thinking while hes out partying with other bitches.
2007-10-05 04:31:53 · 16 answers · asked by C'Vale Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know when he goes out girls are gunna be rubbin their asses all over him. Im pretty upset about this. He wont ever let me do anything without him being there with me. And hes gunna go to a club thats an hour away from home. I dont know it seems like a problem waiting to happen.
2007-10-05 04:36:21 · update #1
gosh I love this guy but when im not with him i feel like i cant live without him. And I know guys like to have fun with friends but he dont do anything with me. I was even gunna PAY to go to the movies....and he'd rather go dance with other girls.
2007-10-05 04:42:05 · update #2
You should be moving on. Appears obvious he is using you til he finds what he thinks is an upgrade.
2007-10-05 04:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by c_o_ldbr_ai_n 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but you need to leave his ***. My b/f...well, ex boyfriend did that for about a month and swore up and down that he never did anything with any of the girls at the club. Then I found out he took one home. You need to watch your own back and let this dude go because all he is doing is putting you down when you should be with someone who will want to be the guy dancing with you and the guy staying home with you because it makes him happy, not because he wants to hang with the guys. This guy sounds like an ***. I'd advise you to leave him. The longer you wait around, the more it will hurt you. I know this from experience.
2007-10-05 04:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to kick this fella to the curb. If you aren't being treated as an equal in this relationship then it is unfair. Let him know how it makes you feel and if he doesn't see or attempts to justify it then do yourself a favor and say good night to this relationship. Then go out and find yourself a man who will do these things with you and be proud of going out into public with you. And someone who will recognize special days in your life, like your birthday. Best of luck and hope you find some happiness either with or without this chump.
2007-10-05 04:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, there's a lot more you can be thinking about other than this fool. You can think about the Cure for cancer, the renewed Cold War, the elections, the discrepancies between quantum mechanics and relativity, the South American socialist movement, ad infinitum.
Who is this guy that you devote so much time and thought to? He must have rocked you upside down..
2007-10-05 04:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that you already know what is going on by your question.
If your partner does not want to play by the rules of being a team player in the relationship then you know what anyone else would do with a team member that doesn't follow the rules.
Know you cannot make anyone do what they do not want to do so you have to ask yourself what do i want to do that makes me happy then do it ,NOT for revenge or anything like that but something that will truly make you happy with you if you cant be happy with you mate.
2007-10-05 04:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by surviver2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be thinking about how to get out of this relationship.
I want to be clear here: I don't think there's anything intrinsically wrong with men, even attached men, wanting to see naked women, or go dance. But if he's neglecting you in favor of these pursuits, it's time to give him the heave-ho.
2007-10-05 04:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a dead end relationship to me.
He likes to go out to clubs and have fun. You like to go to the movies.
Find a guy you are compatible with.
2007-10-05 04:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by AngiesHusband 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He wont ever let me do anything without him being there with me."...THIS SAYS IT ALL!He doesn't trust you...He doesn't let you do things without him,because he wants to control you...He knows he is not being faithfull to you,while he's going out,that's why he supposes you would do the same.He doesn't include you in his plans...that means he has a single person's behavior...which contains FLIRT.
2007-10-05 04:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him. But it seems he is no longer interested in you or maybe its peer pressure, don't observe him rather talk to him and try to reason on one thing.
2007-10-05 04:42:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to make you jealous. I would guess that maybe you did something similar to him, and now he feels he has to return the favor. If I were you, I would refuse to participate in such childish games.
2007-10-05 04:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by monkey tuesday 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋