My boyfriend spends alot of time in chats and has a long list of contacts, all women. He tells them things like "I like you very much" and always talks to them when he signs in. He gets annoyed if I come over to see what he's writing. He keeps saying he's not doing anything wrong and these women are in far away countries, but they obviously create a certain infactuation towards him. He often invites them out to dinner whenever they should come to our town and he says things like: I think you're a wonderful woman,etc..For me he is seducing them on line but he says they're just friends and there is nothing wrong. Then why won't he let me read what they say? Also some contacts he has had for over 5 months with a quite a high frequency of contact. Am I just paranoid is this all normal? I have spoken to other couples where they both read each others chats openly and they said it's right for me to feel hurt. thanks for your opinions.
2007-10-05 03:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not a good activity for a loving relationship
if he is committed then he would not do this
you need to put a stop to this by moving on he is not with you
2007-10-05 04:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curiouspain it is very much normal for you to feel as though your man is emotionally cheating on you. He's living in a fantasy world if he even calls these people friends, fact of live is they are complete strangers. To have conversations with people without your partners consent and/or to know it is upsetting to them is indeed very much abusive. You two need to talk about this and lay all the cards on the table to let each other know 100% why this is occurring and how it makes each of you feel. Best of luck and as stated I have to agree with all the others couples you have spoken with.
2007-10-05 04:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar! you in trouble.Da sign is on da wall.
you wanna git while the going is good. You Man he be a no good cheat and you gonna pay the price by of tears one day:You BET YOU ***.
2007-10-05 04:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to tell them that he is attached, and see if they are still interested in chatting....there are many "assumptions" that go with online infatuations....could be this really is about his ego more than anything....
2007-10-05 04:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by that judi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋