ok look while watching a sex flick with my boyfriend (currently ex) i really seemed to get sexually aroused when the part with the two lesbians came on i mean i never had feelings for a girl and im not gay (i love men) but that just shocked me...so does this make me gay, bi-curious, a lesbian..? help im really confused!
2007-10-05 04:09:52 · 17 answers · asked by alwayslovely3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no way
2007-10-05 04:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by SimplySweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's normal to become sexually aroused when watching either sex doing intimate things. It doesn't make you a lesbian. It makes you a sexual being.
2007-10-05 11:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by bamakathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the joy and wonder of labels. Our obsessive need to put everyone in some kind of container is tough on people who have a fleeting fantasy or a one-off encounter.
My advice: stop obsessing on labeling yourself. Sexual behavior is a continuum, not a series of on/off switches. The real question here is: is this feeling something you want to act on? If yes, you'll probably need to talk to your Bf about it. If not, just relax and enjoy the feeling for what it is.
2007-10-05 11:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alwayslovely3 it most certainly does not make you or even appear to suggest that you may be gay. It is natural to get excited when aroused already and then see something different that is stimulating.
2007-10-05 11:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just makes you a girl who got sexually aroused watching two women. No big deal. It doesn't "make" you anything.
2007-10-05 11:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by SorryI'maChampion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it was watching a sexual act that got you aroused. If women don't get you hot and bothered when you're around them, and not watching porn, I don't think you are gay.
2007-10-05 11:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not mean you are gay but hey it means something bc you got turned on ......i have had that happen to me too but with me personally i think that i am curious i guess we'll never know until we try it out.........but i dont think that makes u a lesiban........i think at one time or another every female that watches porn with their man will get arroused by seeing two females ................or either it'll totaly gross them out.........email me if you want to talk futher.....
2007-10-05 11:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is a level of sexuality that you see as taboo. Maybe it excited you to be watching this, something you would never do in your personal life.
2007-10-05 11:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by yoak 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not gay. i watched a study on this and 9 out of 10 women think a bout other women. things like how they look does she shave down there how big her breasts are it is a comen thing. women think they should look and act just like one another.
2007-10-05 11:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry you are successfully straight. Just any sexual scene cause an arousal ... so be happy.
2007-10-05 11:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't let no one define who you are. people will label you any way,ask yourself those questions and as to why you were shocked only you can come up with an answer. you know your preference.
2007-10-05 11:20:02 · answer #11 · answered by dawn s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋