Family & Relationships - 5 October 2007

ok so my bf and i have been going out now for 3 months. i love hima dn all but he is so defferent around my friends. He insults me on the phone and slo says stuff to hurt me. like when i told him i got like a 76 on a paper and he's like damn i don't study and make better grades than that. it hurt. and a ton of other stuff. idk but we only see each other when we go to church and we don't go to the same skool. but i am going to change churches so we will never c each other. i think we might be over soon ??????? what do i do i need advice

2007-10-05 07:53:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After a fight I tried calling and messaging her but to no avail. I have known her for years now...This is the 1st time and i really cannot take it anymore so I walk off! It's been 3 days now. Still no respond.

2007-10-05 07:52:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey all…

Just a little background on me, I just turned 26, I’m a Hispanic male 5’11”, Tan, Great shape.

I been married with my wife for about 6 yrs, I have known her since I was 12; she is the only female I have ever been with in all aspects…

I just had surgery on my knee to repair some torn ligaments from a football injury a few years back, because I want to get back into more physical activities,

Now my problem is She (my wife) has been acting really strange lately, she has lost a lot of weight, stopped eating the way she used to, said she has to go to the gym everyday, but most important she doesn’t have sex with me anymore… she never seems interested in me like before, this has never been a problem, and I’m sure as hell not selfish in bed, I’m a firm believer in Ladies first…

Any thoughts???

I appreciate it.

2007-10-05 07:52:15 · 17 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 adult children. My husband doesnt have children. I married my second husband a year ago. I came in to the marriage with 4 times more money than him. I want to leave half of my investments to my children. They are listed as beneficiaries on these accounts. Will that suffice, or should I spell it out in a will too?

2007-10-05 07:48:39 · 18 answers · asked by mom55 2 in Marriage & Divorce

K...I dated a guy for almost 4 years , i have 3 boys and he has a daughter.We was always very good about treating all 4 of them like our own. I love that little girl the same as I love my boys and no less.When we split up he moved to arizona , and it hurt so much to lose her.We.ve been split up for a year now .My x and I are still able to talk on line and I can keep track of how she is doing in her everyday life .I even get to watch her grow with the many pictures on myspace.And him with the boys.We both have chosen not to be togeather.But we also understand the love and the bonds that we have built with each others kids. But now i'm in a new relationship , and my new boyfriend doesn't understand.With us everything is his kids and my kids.He is very upset that I still talk to my X and is going to continue to act out untill I delete my x and his daughter from my life.He says I need to get over it..out with old, in with the new. Is this fair?Am i wrong for still talking to the x?

2007-10-05 07:45:23 · 5 answers · asked by Tiffany M 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I have this friend. Let's call her Star. =]
I also have another friend, let's call her Flower. (To keep their identity secret)
Star & me get on, Flower and me get on, but Star and Flower are enemies.

It's really difficult for me, because I can't multitask seeing one then the other... And if I'm friends with Star then Flower doesn't like me and if I'm friends with Flower then Star doesn't like me.

Does this just mean they aren't very good friends? Do I just move onto better friends I just made in my new school?

2007-10-05 07:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I don't know if it's innate or learned, but why are our prides the rock that must not be shaken? Are we so shallow that we must be our own foundation, faultless, and anything that distorts that fallacy must be pushed aside before it can take root?

Let's look at romantic sincerity, for instance. Rationally speaking, rejection does not have to equate a defficiency on your part, but that's how it's perceived, even if we consciously know better than to perceive it as such.

Why the great fear? How do we conquer it? Maybe humble ourselves a little and by doing so, counterintuitively, grow stronger?

2007-10-05 07:42:44 · 9 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Singles & Dating

I went to a show yesterday and my crush was there and his gf was there to and I asked if I could meet her but he told that he didn't want me to cause he was afraid I would get jelous. I told him I wasn't the jelous type but the truth is I'm the very jelous type. He posted on myspace that they broke up but I don't believe it.

2007-10-05 07:41:14 · 8 answers · asked by Yuckatofou 3 in Singles & Dating

He wanted to put it in and I let him but it didn't go all the way in cuz it hurted to much, did he or not break my hymen and how can you tell?

2007-10-05 07:39:59 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm friends with this guy and we're interested in each other. however....i'm 18 and i live at home and i never get to see him. he works 3 jobs and by the time he CAN hang out, i can't becuase it's too late. i'm talking like...12:30 a.m. i'm trying to break free of my parents strick-ness so i can stay out later and stuff, but i don't know what i'm going to do until then. i've tried texting him and stuff but he's been having problems with his phone so he doesn't get half of them. what should i do? should i talk to my parents? i'm also worried that his psycho ex girlfriend is going to try to step in. she's still convinced they are still together! he's like god no, but she still says they are...idk what to do. anyone have any advice?

2007-10-05 07:36:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean in a relationship, if the couple split up but are still in love and love each other very much.
what could that mean?
Do you think it could work out again?
The break up was for various reasons a small alcohol abuse & arguing mainly.
but anyway, do you think it could be worked out?
or would the 2 just be better going on with life loving eachother, but not being together? and there is also a child involved.
what do you think?

2007-10-05 07:34:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We talk a lot and we are getting more comfortable with each other but i don't know if I just go ahead and kiss him out of the blue then if it will get that weird stage of awkwardness over with. Plus i don't want him stressing about when to make his move or if he thinks im ready or not.

2007-10-05 07:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by Kat 2 in Singles & Dating

Or let me pick it up? are there any Gentle men left in the world?

2007-10-05 07:33:42 · 16 answers · asked by You know you want me 5 in Singles & Dating

Im In Love with my best friend and feel that she has feelings for me too, but im not sure, we are more comfortable with eachother than with anyone else, we always take trips together with other couples, the only problem is we arent one, what do I do, I cant take it anymore, Im thinking about just distancing myself from her.

2007-10-05 07:32:43 · 6 answers · asked by Dr, Saso 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 07:32:14 · 19 answers · asked by woman whipped 1 in Singles & Dating

If your wife is bearable, and you are just bored. You are better off just cheating, and staying married. Divorce, Alimony, and child support too much money.

2007-10-05 07:31:29 · 22 answers · asked by bundypolkhigh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She is ok with it as long as she can join us. Does anyone have any good suggestions on where we can find a girlrfriend

2007-10-05 07:30:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a history of making friends with moochers who use me to their advantage. But this is the most recent one, she always beats around the corner about what she wants instead of asking me directly for something. The bad thing is she's older than me. She doesn't have a job, flunks her college classes every semester,even this one. She makes excuses so she won't be independent ALL the time to the point where I get tired of talking to her. Every day she complains of something that could be fixed. Like her parents getting on her nerves and how she wants to venture out and be famous....you're 21...move out!! I'm constantly transporting her around with gas tank almost on E, helping her find a job even though she's being picky about where to apply, and only wants to come to my house to use my computer. Every day she wants me to skip my classes so that I'll pick her up so she won't be in the house all day. Like hello I have my own agenda too!! I don't know what to do anymore...Please help

2007-10-05 07:27:29 · 6 answers · asked by lilkitt 3 in Friends

My ex & I have been broken up for 3 months & 1 month after we broke up we found out that she is pregnant. I told her that I would do everything I can to help my ex & support our baby. For a while I have been giving her some money for support & that I have been giving her more money because I still have feelings for her & there would have been hope for us to get back together. But there have been times when we have argued over things like putting her ex's ideas name for my baby, why she won't give us a second chance, refusin help to provide insurance for her and the baby, to why she doesn't love me & why she would rather go back to her ex who has been cheating on while they were together. The final argument didn't involve me & her but with my sister who tried to sum up & ask why are you not giving my bro a chance as he's trying so hard yet is not getting the chance to be involved with the baby. The argument went that far, she blocked me off from myspace & she doesn't answer my calls.

2007-10-05 07:27:01 · 14 answers · asked by NewbieDad 1 in Family

do you think that in marriage that women sacrifice more than the men?

2007-10-05 07:26:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is a good father and i really love him, however he has made some serious mistakes in his life.

he is always telling me how important it is to remain "pure" until marriage (we are of differant denominations, but both of us are christians) he was living with my stepmom for two years before he finally married her. it kinda makes me mad that he feels that the rules only apply to the young and not the old. I just feel like, why should i abstain from sex if he gets to whatever he wants. what do you people think?

2007-10-05 07:25:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was with some friends last night and my ex called. We are still friendly and there is a chance we will get back together (I hope).

He called last night when I was at a friend's house. I answered and said, "I'm eating dinner, can I call you back?" and he said, "Where are you at?" and I said, "I'm at so-n-so's house," and he said, "Oh, I'll just talk to you later then."

I took that to mean he knew I was busy, and to call him back when I was free. I called him 2 hours later, when I left my friend's house, and he said, "Oh, so I guess you only call when it's convenient for you, is that it?" and then he was very distant and quiet the whole time I talked with him, and he finally said he was going to go to bed.

Was I being rude? Was it ok to wait? I haven't seen this friend in a while and my ex knows that.

2007-10-05 07:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by not_you 2 in Singles & Dating

is kristina lenko still married? to whats his face cousins?x

2007-10-05 07:24:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who is or 2inches shorter maybe more than you.Looks are ok. Would you mary him Or would you pick a man who is great looking, 6 feet tall, and may be divorce in 6years. And why?

2007-10-05 07:22:29 · 17 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-05 07:19:46 · 8 answers · asked by Sissy 1 in Friends

I have had a lot of people , especially people who were close to me, use me & hurt me, and so now the guy I am seeing, I want to trust him so much and I love him very much and he says he loves me, but how do I know if he's being true about his love for me? he says he's very serious about me, but I want to make sure he is... can you give me some signals he may give or things he may say that I know he loves me truly? thanks

2007-10-05 07:18:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-05 07:16:26 · 25 answers · asked by epd4859 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night my mom got called out of town for work so she called my brother to stay at our house with me. There was this party at my friends cause his parents were out of town and when I told my brother he said I couldnt go. Im 14 I can make my own decisions. So I tried to sneak out and he said if I did he would ground me for a month. And my mom would let him. Usally we get along great but know hes being so mean. Why is he acting like this?

2007-10-05 07:14:56 · 14 answers · asked by little sis 1 in Family

2007-10-05 07:13:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have have horrible luck with men. When I finally think I have found a good one he will not get a job. does any one have a suggestion as to how I can get him off the couch and helping us ?

2007-10-05 07:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by sassyntexas75670 1 in Singles & Dating