I was with some friends last night and my ex called. We are still friendly and there is a chance we will get back together (I hope).
He called last night when I was at a friend's house. I answered and said, "I'm eating dinner, can I call you back?" and he said, "Where are you at?" and I said, "I'm at so-n-so's house," and he said, "Oh, I'll just talk to you later then."
I took that to mean he knew I was busy, and to call him back when I was free. I called him 2 hours later, when I left my friend's house, and he said, "Oh, so I guess you only call when it's convenient for you, is that it?" and then he was very distant and quiet the whole time I talked with him, and he finally said he was going to go to bed.
Was I being rude? Was it ok to wait? I haven't seen this friend in a while and my ex knows that.
2007-10-05 07:24:29 · 10 answers · asked by not_you 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were fine, he was just a little jealous.
Sounds like he still has feelings for you (or what pass for feelings when you're young). You ought try getting back with him, if you're still interested after this "incident," at least see if he's up for it.
2007-10-05 07:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Bryce 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not being rude. Everyone calls when it is convenient for them. What a jerk. I don't answer my phone when I am out. That is rude to the people that you are with. It does not matter if you see this friend every day, you were busy and that is it. He is expecting you to be sitting at home and waiting on him. DO NOT DO THAT. Is he always this controlling? If he is I would not go back with him. He is an ex for a reason.
2007-10-05 14:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your ex is trying to guilt-trip you.
think about it this way:
how would your friend feel if you were to take his call..? they'd made time for you, youre at their house, but then you'll drop them because you recieve a phone call. how rude would that be..?
you also have to remember that this person, even if you do want to get back together, is your EX, and the other is your FRIEND.
personally i think you were right to behave the way you did.
hope that helped.
x
2007-10-05 14:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wanted an obvious booty call. He found out you were unaccessable and got mad he couldn't have his way so they next time you called he acted like a 5 year old to get back at you. Now you actually feel guilty and he probably found some other girl to bang.
2007-10-05 14:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. He is very sensitive. He feels a bit rejected. But who ended the relationship? If it was you, he should understand that you don't have to tend to his needs anymore and you're no longer his gf. If it was him, he needs to chill and realize you're not available whenever he expect you to be. Either way I think he still has feelings for you if he got so mad at you for doing that. But don't worry about it...you did the right thing regardless!
2007-10-05 14:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by shanamoakler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..you were totally in the right its so rude to talk on the phone when you have or are company and oh boy does he sound like a control freak!
2007-10-05 14:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by mylittlemonkeysmail 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, what you did was fine. He shouldn't get upset about it. Especially because you were eating dinner. Don't even let it get to you.
2007-10-05 14:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he should probably stay your ex. He's self absorbed and selfish.
2007-10-05 14:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by Sundays Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's being selfish and jealous.
2007-10-05 14:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES
2007-10-05 14:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋