Ok, so I have this friend. Let's call her Star. =]
I also have another friend, let's call her Flower. (To keep their identity secret)
Star & me get on, Flower and me get on, but Star and Flower are enemies.
It's really difficult for me, because I can't multitask seeing one then the other... And if I'm friends with Star then Flower doesn't like me and if I'm friends with Flower then Star doesn't like me.
Does this just mean they aren't very good friends? Do I just move onto better friends I just made in my new school?
2007-10-05 07:43:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should be friends with whomever you want. It is not up to some one to dictate to you who to be friends with. They both sound like they are jealous of each other, let them work it out, and be friends with as many people as you want, and if one doesn't like the other than it is up to them to get over it.
2007-10-05 07:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mizz-alle, Let them know that you like them both but you are tired of being in the middle and if they can not accept the fact that they are both your friend you are ready to let both of them go.And just maybe it's time for you too star hanging out with other people
2007-10-05 07:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by ladydy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel u
i feel 2 of my imp ppl r goin to create a scenario like that
if both r imp to u..keep them
jus make sure tht the other doesnt knw
eg: if u decide to b frnds with flower,make sure Star doesnt knw abt it n vice-versa
once a frnd of mine told me a story:
i was to move to this place..and really want to talk to my old frnd..but my current frnd and she are best of enemies..i mailed my old frnd n reconciled the frndship (well not so great xtent..just helo hi level) and to my current frnd..we r the best of frnds..i had to maintain silence abt my old frnd..bcoz neither i wnat to patch up more with my old one..nor i wanna loose the new one.So like that,make a safe choice..
I did and hop u wil..takecare have a gud day
2007-10-05 07:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by HereToAnswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off it sounds like your two other friends are jealous. If they cant be your friend without making you feel bad then I guess they dont deserve to be your friend. Talk to them both..See why it is they dont like each other. Let them know how you feel....If they are truly your friend then they will listen and understand.
2007-10-05 07:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by acoats2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Difficult situation would be when one time three people wanted me to go somewhere important with them and i had to make my decision. My decision was having to all three places in one day it was hectic.
2007-10-05 07:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by flag_tag88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i did was i didn't hang with them in places my other friend(s) would be. i learn this the hard way but seriously if they can't stand each other thats their problem. if they are ur friend then they wouldn't care who ur friends are. maybe if things don't worrk out then get different friends.
2007-10-05 07:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did that it sucked just pick the one you like more
cuz your gonna end up losing one anyway
2007-10-05 07:47:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋