We ve been knowing one another for a year now and we confessed our feelings to each other. We also agreed to postpone sex until after marriage ... now, he is all times telling me "I want you." "I love you" "I wanna have you" does this mean that he lost his resistance or somehow can't help it anymore? knowing that I love him equally but am keeping to what we agreed upon? Are men weaker in such points?
2007-10-05 06:42:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it's the indivual
2007-10-05 06:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Joe L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, us guys as you know have extremely high sex drives due to all of the hormones running through us. Especially when you get close to someone, it can become unbearable not to be able to get intimate with a woman. He's probably really, really losing it. Like women need communication, someone who's there, someone who's strong, stable, secure, etc, men have needs too. When needs arent met, thats when problems can occur.
Sex doesnt have to be a big deal, especially since it seems you care for each other. You're both mature it seems and in my opinion, you dont HAVE to wait until after marriage if you're both in love. Being intimate would really bring you even closer in this case I think. Plus, it would alleviate tension as well.
2007-10-05 13:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by Darkknightofnash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No we are not weaker. We are physical creatures and you are emotional. We like to touch, feel, see and smell things aabout our woman. He feels he need you now more than ever. It is very hard to come from past relationships where sex was not a issue to move to one where sex can become an issue. Especially, sex will be, if ever, until you both get married. Question for the day, is the date set?
2007-10-05 13:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, it just mostly means he's very in to you and you remain foremost on his mind. Your agreement can stand as stated. Gender doesn't decide who's weaker or stronger on this point; it's a unique challenge for both.
2007-10-05 13:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeahh theyy are..
once men lose there virginty
its a sex rollercoaster after that..
men just hate the words wait and sex in the same sentence..
yeah some guys think theyy can do it when theyy sayy they are willing to wait.
sometimes the more you turn them dont theyy will give up and realize your not giving in.
once men have sex it's deff hard for them to be withhout.
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2007-10-05 13:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Britt =) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's basic human nature. You basically told him he doesn't get any. Although he agreed to it, now that it's in the open, he wants it, and it's niggling away in the back of his mind. When it wasn't brought up, it wasn't a certain thing. Now, it's certain, but it won't happen right now, which makes him impatient.
2007-10-05 13:47:21 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its a mixture of both maybe being around you he can't control himself (he is a guy!) but just think if he actually love you then he will want what's best for you and not want to pressure you in any type of way. hint there are other things you can do for each other that will help both of you out.
2007-10-05 13:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not weaker, they just can't wait. All men are like that.
2007-10-05 13:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Sonia K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to have sex!!!
I dono how you people wait until after marriage, what if they SUCK in bed.
2007-10-05 13:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by stanggt3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's just want sex now instead of later.
2007-10-05 13:48:56 · answer #10 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes they are always but i need it ok NO THEY DONT all of them at least dont look at the monks i think he jus wants it now!
2007-10-05 13:49:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋