hi everyonei am 13 years old and my boyfriend is gary
we love eachother but my mum and gran said he is far to old for me!!! i dont get this!!!
i am old enough to look after myself, they dont understand that they are breakin me away from my soul mate.
we have talked about sex and have agreeed to wait for a couple of weeks because i have only done it once before
i think this shows i can wait and my mum is annoying
2007-10-05 06:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by MICHELLElvsGARY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have some patience with your parents. They only care about you. And yes, you are too young to look after yourself. It is their responsibility to look after you.
Honey, you are only 13, you have not found your soul mate, trust me.
2007-10-05 07:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by RoseWhite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are 13 going on 10, you sound so immature and childish it is unreal. Your parents love you and want the best for you. They can see issues with you getting involved with gary, which you did not state his age, how old is he? So you think waiting a couple of weeks shows you can wait, for goodness sake you are 13 and not a virgin, do not even talk about waiting. You need to grow up. If gary is over 18 someone needs to beat the crap out of him for messing with a 13 year old anyway.
2007-10-05 14:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention the part where Gary is 18 years old.
Waiting a couple of weeks doesn't prove anything except your involved with a child predator.
You're creating the nightmare, not your parents. You've decided your smarter than everyone, more prepared for life than anyone, and your going to do what you want no matter what anyone says.
2007-10-05 14:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old Gary is. Thirteen is a little too young to be having sex. Make sure that you are using condoms to protect yourself from STD and pregnancy. You should wait more than a few weeks to have sex with a new boy. It is your moms responsibility to keep you safe and on the right track and that is what she is trying to do. You also don't say how long you have known Gary.
2007-10-05 13:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by kim h 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13, how old is your boyfreind? If he is over 18 then you need to stop. Your mum has every right to butt in, your 13 years old. Wait a few weeks..... I think you need to wait a few years before you start sleeping with men. Your too young
2007-10-05 13:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are at that stage of life when there is max. probability of going on the wrong track. Your parents love you so they don't want you to go on a wrong path.
You should never call your parents nytmares. Obey and respect them.
Don't do anything for which you may have to regret latter.
May God give you enough wisdom so that you may choose the right path.
2007-10-05 14:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by gn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for a couple of WEEKS?!!!!!!!! make it years better. so you're 13 and already had sex. honey, your parents are not nightmares, it's you that's the nightmare to them. 'this shows you can wait'... ha ha ha lol... you are who kidding? you re sex crazed kiddo and your folks have freaked out. good luck, use a condom. ps. all my gfrs who had sex at your age by 18 had a least one abortion. they had learned the hard way.
2007-10-05 14:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy Sh*t! 13 and you arent a virgin anymore? Gosh! Honey what is your hurry?
2007-10-05 13:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by tnned 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not your parents who are nightmares. It is you.
2007-10-05 13:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by rishi0005 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋