Me and my bf we're going to a wedding.. Unfortunatelly, his ex wife will be there too. I cannot help feeling a LOT of jealousy, and keep thinking that I may not be able to feel good while I see her face there.. What do I do?
2007-10-05 07:04:02 · 10 answers · asked by ann3lizz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is is EX-wife.....you can not change his past.
He is with you now and as long as he didn't leave his wife for you.......then you have no reason to feel anything.
Be the bigger person......go........ look gorgeous..... for him.... it never hurts to be able to show off the new girlfriend for the ex. Don't be snotty, be nice..........
don't give her any REAL reason to hate you. I dont know why they parted or how long it has been, but the truth is that jealousy will always play a little roll when someone sees their ex with a new person.
2007-10-05 07:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exes are a part of reality for most of us. My g/f sometimes works with an ex in another town. All I can do is trust her and I have no reason not to.
My ex now works where I work. It isn't pleasant but it's reality.
For your part, just stay away from the ex-wife and enjoy the wedding. Be calm, and let your man know you are confident (even if you have to fake it a bit).
2007-10-05 14:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Emperor T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what. There is a reason why she is his ex. Put yourself in his postion, if you see an ex of yours, is it really going to matter?
You're not married. This is a good chance to see the dynamic of them. You may learn a little about your bf that you didn't know before. I would use this as a learning tool!
2007-10-05 14:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by cinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably feels the same as you, just avoid her as much as possible and keep a close eye on your bf when he goes to talk to people.
2007-10-05 14:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you jealous of her? Don't worry about her. You probably won't even have to deal with her other than a hello. I would not worry about her. You can feel good when she is around. Be yourself and have fun with your boyfriend. Don't worry about other people. Good luck.
2007-10-05 14:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do she have to be there, the only way she should me included is because they share children together,other than that she should not want to come ,its your day ,it you and your hubby to be can't come to an agreement that she should not be included and you are jealous may be you are not ready for a marriage . this your your day ,don't have anything there that will make you unhappy
2007-10-05 14:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to look your best so maybe you can feel prettier than her but always remeber who he will go home with. I am getting married in April and my fiance's high school sweetheart is going to one of my bridesmaid. It doesnt bother me because she wants him to be happy and they broke up 5 years ago.
2007-10-05 14:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why is she going to be there? Stop the wedding now. #
2007-10-05 14:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep reminding yourself that he is with you now. they are divorced for a reason and he is with you for a reason. you can always express your worries with him before you go.
2007-10-05 14:08:30 · answer #9 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remeber who he goes HOME with at night!!!!
2007-10-05 14:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋