been about 8 month since my girlfriend and i broke up. thought i was over her but latley thinking alot about her and makes me very sad. should i let her know this, or keep it to myself. i just recently got an email from her stating she is still heart broken. i don't think it would ever work out but i do love and miss her. opinions, similar situations ??
2007-10-05 06:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by dannyboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know. Maybe you can get back together.
2007-10-05 06:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by winndixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
going back after a break up is rarely a good idea. you are in the area where you look back on your relationship, and remember only the good times you two had. you have to remember why you broke up, you also have to think about the problems you had with your relationship. it is tough to start building your world around someone, and then find out they are not as compatible as they seemed at first. i still adore every lady i have ever chased, with a couple of exceptions, but i also recognize that we would likely never be a lasting couple for a variety of reasons. if you want to remain friends with her, go for it. if you really feel that the two of you really do have a chance to make it together, and both of you are really willing to work through the problems you had, and you two are both willing to accept the fact that you both are going to change over time, and that neither of you will force the other to change to fit the other, THEN you might have a chance at a successful relationship.
but if the two of you are just lonely, then both of you get out with friends, separately, check out the local church socials, date other people, but DO NOT compare new dates to old girlfriends, it will kill a budding relationship everytime.
2007-10-05 06:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by richard b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can understand that. i'm going through the same thing. it won't work out with my ex either. but i still think about him and dream about him. he sent me a message a few weeks ago to attempt a normal conversation but i got sort of defensive. but i do miss him. i don't even know what he thinks of me now or even if he thinks of me at all. sometimes i'll think about him until i start crying. othertimes i feel so angry so upset. and well i guess pain is just a part of being in and fall out of love. but when relationships can't and won't work out there's nothing we can do but let go of them. even if they reach out for you.
2007-10-05 06:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by maria92588 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like neither one of you have moved on, to meet any one else in your respective lives, so naturally, all you focus on is the past. That said, I can only wonder what came between you two that was so huge it separated you two...is it truly insurmountable?
Only you two can answer that.
Grace
2007-10-05 06:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't think it will work out, then keep it to urself.
2007-10-05 06:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋