My husband has been sleep talking for a while now he has called many of my friends names and co workers. I am just so fed up with it. He says things like " I love you Sarah", "sit on me" etc....What should I do?
2007-10-05 07:09:15 · 24 answers · asked by Sonrisaloca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not Sarah...I know he has no control of it but he does it every single day...it is annoying...
2007-10-05 07:17:04 · update #1
OUCH!! I'm sry that sucks... The only thing u can do is ask him about it u can't assume the worse cuz they are only dreams that doesn't mean its real. He vry well could fantasize ovr these people but it doesn't mean he's cheating... I'd just let him know he talks in his sleep and some of the things u heard bothered u.
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2016-10-10 08:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, the sad truth of the matter is that EVERYONE fantasizes... and alot of times its about people they know.
It may be a subconsious thing.
I would suggest talking to him........dont place any blame,
dont be a witch about it.........chances are he is going to be INCREDIBLY embarrased. Say something like "honey, you've been talking in your sleep alot lately and I woke up a couple of times and heard you calling out for Sarah". I know its happening while you're asleep and I was wondering what we could do to change that because it is making me feel" sad or......or whatever it is that you're feeling. Dont put blame.
If there is something going on in his head.....maybe he needs a reality check. Just be nice about it.......how would you feel if you were in his shoes? Being a witch about it will just cause more problems and if this was subconscious.......it wont be for long.
Good luck
2007-10-05 07:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can control what they say in their sleep. His subconscious mind associates all of them with you. When he's yelling out people you've never heard before, then maybe wonder a bit but until there's actual evidence of infedility..as annoying as it is, more likely is harmless.
How does he know all these people anyway? Do you come home and it's "Sarah said....and then I went to Dawn and told her about....so then Judy walked over with Jill and..."
2007-10-05 07:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That must have been upsetting!
He like you has no control over his dreams and the events in dreams may have nothing to do with the dreams actual purpose to your mind.
So hurtful as it may be remember that it's not a desire, it's just some nonsense that his mind made up.
2007-10-05 07:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
These dreams are common and also normal. They don't mean your husband is or ever would be, unfaithful to you. Although it's annoying and probably hurts your self-esteem, he can't control his dreams. You could mention it to him delicately but he probably isn't aware of it in the first place and he may or may not even recall these dreams in the first place. Don't let it bother you.
2007-10-05 07:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. He's dreaming. I was talking about defusing bombs in one of my dreams. My wife thought it was hilarious. She never thought I was actually a spy. I guess I just watched one too many episodes of 24. He may be cheating, he may not be, but to accuse someone of something heinous on the basis of that person having a dream is ludicrous.
2007-10-05 07:14:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
tape him sometime and confront him about it. Maybe he's cheating or just fantasizing. All people fantasize and don't act upon it. But i would make him talk. But if he is cheating he wouldn't come out and just tell you either. So just let him know that you think that something is up and see what happens. Good Luck.
2007-10-05 07:46:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. Tell him what he is saying. ask him if he is thinking about those women or if he has fantasies about those women. Maybe you should try doing some of the things he is dreaming about. Usually if someone is dreaming about someone of the opposite sex in that manner they are having those thoughts while they are awake so address it as soon as possible beforfe it gets physical if it hasn't already.
2007-10-05 07:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by curious1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, it is pretty obvious work is having a big effect on his unconscious state and he's just dreaming. He could be finding it stressful at work and not able to completely wind down before he goes to bed.
2007-10-05 07:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋