Only one position works for my bf and i, any ideas?

Question

My bf and i were each others firsts, we are in college, and the only position that works is girl on top, i'm not complaining but it is starting to get old, he just can't really seem to get it in in any other positions or if we try them then we don't experience as much pleasure, i'm kind of at a loss. i know that others guys are capable of doing different things that works, so if you have any ideas, let me know. its not like we aren't flexible, please help

Answer 1

Doggie-style. =)

Answer 2

What do you mean by "...only position that works"? Is it that it's the only position that you both achieve orgasm? Not surprising since it is the best position for the male organ to stroke the female's g-spot. You might try "doggie" style or even lying on your side with your leg over your partner kind of in a 'V' position.
Get the book, "The Art of Making Love", "How to Make Love to a Man" and "How to Make Love to a Woman". You also might try finding books on the Karma Sutra which shows/explains various positions and how to achieve most important part of reading and following the books is that you follow up on what you read with practice.....a lot of practice!

Answer 3

Hey, that's hilarious, I'm in the same position (no pun intended). Both my wife and I greatly prefer the girl on top. We have tried and will continue to try every position available, but we both just really like that one.

We did doggie style, several times which she liked a lot but I wasn't as much into. I liked to stand off the side of the bed while she was on her back with her legs up, but she didn't like that as much. Something fun upon occasion was us both standing, her bent over holding onto the bathtub rim, me behind her.

I would say be open-minded and just try anything and everything. We've only been married and thus having sex for the last 7 months, so we've got a lifetime to try new things.

Answer 4

Find other positions that are still pleasurable...there are TONS of different positions. They don't have to end in climax for them to be fun. You're definitely going to get bored with just 1 position all the time.

Get a book, watch some porn, do some digging online on positions, and try various things. Good luck!

Answer 5

Jeez,

Buy a Karma Sutra,
Rent some porn

Here's one. Climb on board as usual, then roll over.
OR Climb on top facing the other way.

Don't make this a stress issue, 'cause sex is suppose to be fun. So, during the week, do it just the way he likes. Your his Barbie girl.

But Friday is LADIES NITE!!!!! Wha hoo. Tell him on Friday he's your bendie Ken doll. Friday is "Let's try something different even if it just feels weird night."

Say: "Come on, honey I'll be your sex slave all week, can't you be mine for one evening? I'll make it worth you while"

Tell him you intend to spoil him for all other women and you'd really appreciate his help....

Answer 6

Go to the bookstore...buy any book that looks interesting. They have one that has a different position for every day of the year. GET IT, try them all out....AT LEAST a handful of them are going to work.

Answer 7

It is usually easier for a girl to come when she is on top due to the friction it causes on her clitoris. Most other positions don't have direct clitoral contact. To remedy this try any position you like and get your boyfriend to rub you.
Hope that helps.

Answer 8

i agree with the idea of buying books on sexual positions. like..The Joy of Sex or The Kama Sutra. You can go to any book store, or just look on Amazon.com if you don't want to buy them in person. You'll find something, don't worry!

Answer 9

I'd suggest picking up a cosmo or something along those lines. And why is this under weddings?

Answer 10

Buy the Kama Sutra!!

Answer 11

Can you ask this question in some place more appropriate than weddings. Here is inappropriate.