I really would like my wife to find someone else and leave me. I am not in love with her and not attracted to her anymore. Problem is when ever I try to bring up any relationship subjects she has an emotional melt down. I would like to find a way where she would leave me, her having the idea and not causing me grief, and her to go off on her merry way, with someone else or something
2007-10-05 03:40:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oooh... Idea forming in my head...
Pick a really hot guy to have a threesome with. While in the threesome, go ahead and let the other guy "take the lead", you know? Let him give her a good time.
After a few sessions with this guy, she MIGHT...just might start having feelings for him. After a few months be like, "You don't love me anymore, do you? You love that other guy!" and she'll be like, "NO ! NO! I DON'T! I... well... maybe I do.."
And hopefully she'll leave you for the other guy.
2007-10-05 03:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Missy 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You are a disgusting wimp. Get some guts and go tell the poor woman yourself that you are about to dishonor your wedding vows, that you swore before God by the way. You need to at least stop being a worm and have the decency and manhood enough to tell the woman that YOU want to end the marriage instead of trying to cowardly force the poor thing to break her own heart. I cannot even think of enough bad things to call you and the ones I can think of they will not let me print here, you gutless wonder you. How can you even call youself a man?
2007-10-05 11:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and leave. Trying to put the onis on her so that she is the one who falls out of love and makes the decision to leave is really childish and pathetic. Have some balls and file for divorce.
2007-10-05 11:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by meagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're going to hurt her reguardless. Stop being a f*ckwit and trying to put it off on her.
You are just wrong in trying to figure out a way to make her the bad person in this ordeal....
If you don't want to be with her, suck up, admit you made a mistake, and You leave her. But for Pete's sake don't do anything to hurt her more by creating things to make her leave...
Be a man,grow up, get some guts and do what's right so she can move on and find some happiness in a positive way.....
2007-10-05 10:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by misstic_fire 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just be a man. If she is that type of woman...then she'll never leave...even if you blantantly cheated in front of her. You are going to have to muster the strength, and leave on your own. She must love you. This may be the reason for these "emotional meltdowns". But if you're not in love with her anymore, then you'll just make yourself miserable....waiting. So, I advise you to just leave. Just food for thought.....
2007-10-05 10:51:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't be a baby!!! Get over yourself and if you are not happy then you need to leave and make the divorce and all that happen. Yes I am sure she does get up set. You are probably not open with your feelings and bring up separating and then let it go. How many times have you done that?? You need to be a man and step up and get it over with.
2007-10-05 11:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by FullofQuestions 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The solution is to fall back in love with your wife. Once you are back in love with her, your attraction to her will return. Remember what attracted you to her in the first place, and start dating her again, kind of like you just met. Give her lots of attention, spend a lot of time with her, and your love will surely return.
2007-10-05 10:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Grow some balls and tell her straight. Why should she be the one made to leave, and you get off guilt free with no hassle or come back? Life doesn't work like that mate. If you're that unhappy you should be the one to leave not her.
2007-10-05 10:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by xantheh 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Be a man and leave. You're not doing her any favors by staying. No woman, no matter how emotional she is, should have to be with someone who doesn't love/want her. Be a man and do her a favor.
2007-10-05 10:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by katydid 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you both have a tendency to try and will your problems away instead of confronting them. Since you can't compell her to act differently, you're going to have to step up and stand firm through any meltdowns.
2007-10-05 10:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by MM 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋