in march i lost my virginity, and it was a one night stand. i didnt see him to may. at Riverfest. i really dont know how to deal with this. we talked about it, but i was so MAD at him for doin that to me i just RUBBED it in his FACE. well i would really like your HELP. thanx
2007-10-05 03:47:04 · 14 answers · asked by A s H l E y ((= 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay well lets see. let me REW0RD this we were in a relationship and weve know each other for like 3 years. i know i did it too. but it was just one of those things. i guess. so whoever thinks im easy im not! i was 14. it was like 2 days before i was 15 and he ws 17. so yeahhh. im not easy. i do REGRET it yes. i do and i can. i know guys are jerks. but you people who leave these mean answers...are redicoulos. dont asume stuff. and call me easyyyyy. i just wanted to know how to let it go. or what i could do.
what i rubbed in his face is what he did. i know it takes two, but he made me feel like i was ready. i baisiclly busted him out cause he was with people we both knew and acted like nothin happeded so i busted him out. and made him mad. also makin my brother and other people made at both of us but O'WELL. all i needed was advice not for you to tell me im a whore and easy!
2007-10-05 04:03:52 · update #1
Unfortunately you can't go backward in life so you just have to deal with it. Maybe this will be a good life lesson though to be more selective from now on.
2007-10-05 03:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by rpaitse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You rubbed what in his face??????
Ok. That was not an inspired answer. Having read your amended post, I would say that you have made a mistake, (why are you having sex at 14 when you end up with feelings of regret?).
We all make poor calls, hell I thought I made a mistake once, (but I was wrong).
Hindsight from my age is not advice at all but I would hope that you have learnt that peer group pressure ain't really any pressure at all if you are confident within yourself? Your life decisions are all yours.
Some will be good, some crook. Gunna happen. Just hope you make more good decisions than bad. Good luck.
2007-10-05 03:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by dogscallops 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-20 05:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by gayman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i actully did this too i was so desprate to have sex back when i 20 years old. i regated it too. i had four one night stands but then i learnt that they werent for me so you know what i did. i brought the firm excerise videos and just concentatreated on me. and i also began to watch seventh heaven and started praying to god. It really helped i grew from the experence. imnever going back to that girl again. although men say your young you should f around. dont do it your only hurting yourself. take care of yourself first and the man of your dreams will be right around the corner.
2007-10-05 03:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by jerseygirlprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe next time try dating. Men usually do not want a relationship with anyone who would sleep with them after 1 night. Sorry but its your fault also. Try not being so easy, men like the hard to get. It gives you more respect.
2007-10-05 03:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by GB 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help for or about what. You lost your virginity, great! keep going... practice makes perfect.
The only thing I don't understand is why should you be mad at anybody for something YOU have decided to do. He did that to you, what were you doing in the meantime? reading comics? Com'on, com'on, grow up and live.
2007-10-05 04:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by xenio04 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone makes mistakes and some of them we regret for the rest of our lives. you can't take anything back so you have to let it go. i think the one thing you should be happy about is that you didn't get a disease. if you did that's the biggest thing i would be afraid of. i know it makes you mad, but just know that you're bigger than that. don't let one mistake bring you down for the rest of your life.
2007-10-05 03:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by bobkob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two! What you want an engagement ring from him now? Unless he raped you or gave you an STD, my recommendation is to learn from it and move on. Get into a sport or educate yourself further or mentor other girls like yourself!!
2007-10-05 03:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you accepted sex without any real relationship and you blame him? I think you need to mature and stop having sex so easily. You need to go to into a relationship as an equal not as someone expecting to be served.
2007-10-05 03:52:58 · answer #9 · answered by msqtech 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have given it up to a guy you had not even dated first if you thought you would have regrets about it.
2007-10-05 03:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋