wat my husband will do at first wedding night with me. give some tips how do go with him at that time. and wat to do
should i d the same he does with me or just sleep relax and just let him do wat he wants
2007-10-05 00:07:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
well talk to him make plan for honeymoon places share your feelings with him and when the first night comes mostly it is full of curosity and mood and romance in the air takes over besides i have seen mostly both the bride and groom are so exhausted that they cuddle each other may be some fore play and a nice sleep
wish u a happy life
2007-10-05 01:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, just relax. Be comfortable. Talk to ur mate beforehand. There are many men who won't pressure their wives on their wedding nights...so if ur not ready, let him know, he might hold off 'til the next day or two. But if ur both ready and comfortable, just say a prayer beforehand, and lie back and relax. Let him take the lead...usually guys know more about this than we do, and they do prefer it that way...atleast on their wedding night. Ur hormones will guide u in doing certain things also. I'd say, go with the flow. I'd recommend missionary position for ur first time...it's much easier on a first time female, than any other position. IF u guys talk about it before hand, then u'll both know what the other is comfortable with. IT'll make for a smoother transition...and hopefully a good memorable moment. It will also ease any fears and discomforts both of u may have. I don't think he can do too much with u until u guys are a bit more experienced with one another anyway...so just let him show u how much he loves u, and enjoy every minute. Don't worry about how u'll be. HE'll just be glad u waited for him, and he'll be thankful by trying his best to put on a good performance.
2007-10-05 16:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not put too much expectation on your first night. Many couples just go to their hotel room and fall asleep after the long excitement of their wedding...and you have your whole honeymoon to be intimate.
If you both have energy to enjoy each other, let it happen at its own pace. Allow him to take you out of your wedding dress. This only happens once..enjoy it. Take a shower together...relax and explore and learn about each other. No rushing, no anxiety...just relax.
~Kat
2007-10-05 08:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just relax! Don't fall for the clique / myth of the "first night". If your hubby is understanding enough, he will not pressurise you, either. The havens will not fall if you don't consummate your marriage on the first night.
So let things proceed naturally. If it leads on to sex, great! If it doesn't, no fears. You have your whole life ahead of you to do it!!
2007-10-06 01:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by manchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and let him guide you. Do what comes naturally to you, you know, go with the flow of things. Try things to see what feels good time him. Let him know what you like. Communication is the key to making it enjoyable for both of you.
2007-10-05 08:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what comes naturally. You should do some of the things he wants to do, but also some of what you want.
You should buy some really sexy lingerie to wear on that night. My husband LOVED and still asks me to wear it.
2007-10-05 13:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest that you both relax! he might not quite know what to do either - so just relax & enjoy the closeness of eachother. stay in bed talking and relaxing and getting to know eachother as much as possible.
2007-10-05 18:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
On my wedding night, my wife fell asleep shortly after we got to our suite at the hotel, I wne to a casino and won 2000 dollars. It was GREAT!
2007-10-05 07:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi,from my view i think you should just relax and be romantic,am heading there in a months time.wish u all the best.
2007-10-05 07:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by nabz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and do what you both want. You should ask him these questions at that moment. But, be submissive for him. Consummate your marriage. Show him just what he has been waiting for. It is suppost to be the night of passion. This is when you do your best to please each other. Wear something seductive for him that night.
2007-10-05 07:11:44 · answer #10 · answered by Just Bein' Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋