Is falling love after marraige............a crime?

Answer 1

Falling in love after marriage cannot be considered as wrong or sin as loving is a natural phenomenon. Those persons who are strong in their traditional values and social rules will not indulge in this activity. Even if they get attracted they tend to stop themselves or control themselves. But in rare cicumstances some cannot help themselves in falling in love.

But as someone said one should not have physical contact with some other person after marriage. As far as i am concerned that depends upon the person and how far he/she loves the other person.

Facing this practically, marriage cannot stop or control such feelings. Eventhough the person is married, the stong desire of love (mental love) wins the heart than the so said traditional values or social rules. Those people who have experienced true love (after or before marriage) cannot resist this point.

At the same time we cannot cheat a person who loves us and go on to join or love with another person. This breaks the basic humanitarian feeling.

And to conclude, this should be decided by the person who falls in love than the person who watches it. But according to be it is not crime but can (should) be avoided.

Answer 2

You know, i don't think it is a crime, but nobody can force you to love them at all, so my advice will be either suck it up and forget about it, or talk to your husband and be honest get out of the marriage don't cheat, that is not a good thing, just say what you feel, and if it's that hard to actaully tell your husband then don't even think about it and forget about this person, it will past.

Answer 3

Yes Ma'am. It is not a crime but it is very much a sinful activities. In the view of our ancient scripture it has been said clearly in The Bhagabatam that if one attracts to others, he or she is a sinner.In generally we think and our society also accept this but the activities which have done by you it is reap the fruit either it is good or bad.Nobody is not responsible for that.I also suggest you please look into our scripture or do listen from the authoritative source.

Thanking you,

Biswajit.

Answer 4

I don't mean to sound rude but I think that is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. Either you mean you didn't love the person when you married them and then fell in love with them, which would make your agreeing to marriage completely foolish OR you fell in love with someone else other than who you married and that is obviously a problem for all the obvious reasons. Either way, this is ridiculous.

Answer 5

If you fall in love with your hubby after marriage - it is not a crime, but warmly welcomed by him.
Falling in love with a stranger after marriage - is a crime, unreasonable and inexcusable.
This is for both of you.

Answer 6

marriage is a contact. contract are made of rules. any violation will attract appropriate penalty. marriage is there in this world for the last 500 years but mind is there for millions of years. so mind cannot be controlled by these marriage rules. falling in love is natural, dosent matter wheather one is married or not. take care, do anything without inconveniencing your mind and at the same time be considerate of your spouse.

Answer 7

It is not a crime but sin. It gives happiness to two people and sadness to many. It is bad to cheat when someone trust and love. . . .

Answer 8

No In my openion, Falling in love after marriage is not a crime, but its better that you divert your lov to your family, wife, childs & parrents.

Answer 9

falling in love is a natural phenomenon but falling in love after marriage with other person i think its not ethical.

Answer 10

its not a crime legally but its totally against our culture and ethics and one must be care ful as it can destroy u r happy family in minuets